As thinking human beings, we have an unlimited capacity to find excuses, to discover ingenious and innovative ways to distance the perpetrator from the act.
We can blame it on youth, on old age, on parents, on children, on financial hardships, daily environs, psychological state. We can easily discharge anybody of any responsibility for any negative deeds that stain their hands.
We can all be wonderful advocates and lawyers for one another—and the Merciful One Above surely enjoys hearing such things.
But if you want to get ahead in life, don’t be your own lawyer.
I hope I'm not being defensive as a lawyer. But...
Most good lawyers don't have an "unlimited capacity to find excuses, to discover ingenious and innovative ways to distance the perpetrator from the act," discharging "anybody of any responsibility for any negative deeds..."
Good lawyers press their clients to be ethical and follow the law, and are duty-bound to insist their clients be honest with themselves and in court. The Code of Ethics makes that clear.
If we are ethical in these ways, we might do very well by our traditions and the mitzvot to be our own lawyer.