A woman’s influence is different from a man’s. A man needs to conquer, to vanquish an opponent. Therefore, his victory is often superficial—he may get the other guy to nod his head, but not to surrender his heart.
A woman is able to reach inside a man, so he may not even recognize her influence. He feels as though this was his idea all along. Her conquest is through nurture.
From where does this talent come? Paradoxically, from the woman’s union with a man. In that union, she discovers what it is to be a woman, and how a woman conquers with love.
So too, from the man’s union with a woman, he can learn to heal the world through nurture. To be truly a man.
Sefer Hasichot 5751, Noach.
I feel like I relate more to nurturance though I’m a man. Many people have said I have feminine qualitues can you awnser please?
It's been three years but I will reply since no one else did. Do not fall for this insulting societal construct to your individualism and decency of heart. Mankind was created to be in the image of God with nurturing being one of His spiritual attributes. This isn't a man vs woman thing, I posted something today that will explain why societies All over the Earth are so, since the very beginning. It is this insulting belief system to both men and women that has created the LGXYZ blah blah confusion and mess we're in. It is opposite to what the Church and probably what most of the Rabbis believe. Probably even the secular world as well.