“And Abraham was elderly, come into days.” (Genesis 24:1)
Abraham, we are told, was not just elderly, but “come into days.” Meaning, he had entered into his days, every one of them.
Whatever it was he needed to do, whether to teach wisdom or to graze sheep, to throw himself into fire or to feed hungry strangers, to command or to obey, to love or to fight—in every act of life he invested his entire being.
And so he owned every day of his life. His life was his.


How should we gain this heart of wisdom? We make mistakes and learn from them and hopefully from the mistakes of others, including what we can gain from the Torah. This process brings knowledge and only through the deeper understanding of that good knowledge, can wisdom be obtained.
"Change brings pain, pain brings knowledge, knowledge brings wisdom, and wisdom makes life bearable." And I suppose that when we have become sufficiently wise, there will be no cause to be unhappy.
Good Morning, David
I love how you present the process of change and its end result "no cause to be unhappy" in the your second paragraph. I associate it with a woman who is in labor. For 9 months a woman's body is changing as her body protects and nutures a new life. Then she feels an enormous amount of pain as her body prepares to give birth to this new life. Once the baby comes forth, and she hears the baby's cry, and looks upon her baby's face, there is immense joy! The story of the journey was so worth it as she tells it time and time again; no pain! When we know change is coming we're anxious yet content. However; when change is unexpected, there is worry and fear because we can't see where we are going or know the end result. These are the moments when we must have faith like Abraham and trust G-d. Despite the process, the end result for Abraham and Sarah, Jacob and Esau was good. Their story is our story too, and G-d wants us to laugh and have joy 2. Thank you!
Hi, David
I just remembered a quote from a Austrian Jewish and Israeli Philosopher, Martin Buber that shares a little light on your comment. He said, "All journeys have a secret destination of which the traveler is unaware." Our journey is in G-d's hands.
Be Blessed!