Transfusion

Finding vs. Making a Queen (Answer to Sam) There is no "ready to use" perfect husband of wife.
It is the effort we put into the relationship that makes the spouse king or queen.
Basically said, it does not matter who you wed - what matters is that she or he is willing to work on improving her/him self and the relationship. Reply

Divine. Reply

She can conquer anything, except the king. Beautiful. She who receives the king's intense nurturing can take that potent energy and power transfusion and use it to nurture whatever around her requires beautifying, educating, taming or even conquering (if it does not conflict with what benefits the king, of course). Reply

This is great! Thank you so much for posting it! Reply

o, Word thou art so hidden, deep and great :-)
In Dutch one of the words for Husband is "Gemaal"...
which means:"Pumping Station"....
A pumping station is machine that brings Water (the feminine yin?) to higher level, brings or keeps water levels "just"...
And in your "above" it is a mutual spiritual process of enrichement ..

Our Queen Bearix just became Protectress of the Association"De Hollandsche Molen" (The Dutch Mill", in fact a "pumping station as well") Followed up her Spouse ("Heer-Gemaal") Prins Claus and Friso, her son. As they both passed away... Reply

Love makes them than sort of "(Newton's)communicating Vessels"? :-))
That is what marriage (also) is, but to often that one thing misses that makes them "lern" from each other? Reply

Each other's mirror... This was fantastic! As usual...

Many thanks to you for just being you. Reply

This So Perfectly Describes My Marriage I have rarely found words that so perfectly describe my life before and after my marriage. My husband is a man's man - respected by all who know him, strong, courageous, powerful. But the father of three daughters whom he had a hard time being tender with. I am a college-educated woman who is called sensitive, caring and nurturing but was never quite able to find the courage in myself to use the abilities and gifts G-d had equipped me with in the strength required to make more than a marginal difference until my husband and I became one. Now he is transforming and learning to tenderly nuture his daughters' hearts instead overpower them. And I am learning to befriend the strength that G-d has gifted me and let if flow into my gifts instead of smother it under fear of being "too masculine" or "overbearing". This is not an old-fashioned idea, this is the essence of completion. We didn't look for each other. We were revealed to each other right in synagogue after 4 years. Reply

Transfusion Rabbi, I honestly have given much thought to the subject matter. Perhaps too much so my expectations are quite high, making a tough situation even harder. What you are saying is true, no doubt about it. In these times where most of my energy is to stay above water in the material realm as well as performing my religious duties time to look and find the right "Queen" is a difficult task. Help......anybody? Reply

kings and queens This sounds very nice and probably points to the equality in the king-queen united relationship. The problem i have is that the explanation is old school. I do not think that the writer's conceptual words would be widely accepted at large in today's society. We are or should be beyond the need for bra burning. Reply

nice nice Reply

The Queen The King needs the Queen, because there is not one godess,but the Queen doesn't need the King because there is one G-d. Reply