Do you want to make miracles? It’s not so hard.
Let’s say you see someone’s faults and you truly want to help—whether it be a friend, a spouse, your child or even your nemesis.
Don’t say a word about what you have found wrong. Instead, find something wondrous about that person, perhaps something that nobody ever mentions. Talk about it—to yourself, and to those who will listen and sympathize.
In very little time, you will see such a new person, you will believe you are a maker of wonders.
Indeed, we all are.
You will see such a new person everywhere, because you will have dropped the imaginary self, the ego made up from knowledge, the pretender.
Then you will see the actual Self, the only Self there is. It belongs to you, and everyone.
That Self, the One that IS, sees only what is reflected in the mirror it looks into.