One of the most unforgettable talks I ever heard from the Rebbe was the time he spoke to the handicapped Israeli soldiers. Make that “the special Israeli soldiers”:
Each and every person is given all he needs to accomplish his mission in this world. But each of us have different missions, and therefore need different powers to accomplish them. Yet none of us has an easier time than any other.
Therefore, if you see a human being who appears deficient or “handicapped,” know that in truth that person must have compensatory powers others do not have.
Do not call him “handicapped”—call him “special”.
My wonderful parents of blessed memory were both deaf and never focused on their disabilities. They reflected their humanity with great kindness and gave me purpose and Yiddishkeit. With Hashem's guidance, I built resources, and at age 87, I continue to share these with those of our Jewish brethren in need.
AM YISRAEL CHAI FOREVER.