Talmud Study - Lesson 4: The Invisible Acquisition
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I'm wondering about the case of email documents? I friend agreed to do a favor for me, to review a document. But then we got into a bit of a tiff, she said her time was valuable, and she usually wants payment. I thought by agreeing to the favor and having it in her posession as an emailed document, that was our agreement aquisition no? So im wondering now that her agreement changed, that she will deliver the favor or not? How does that pan out according to jewish talmudic law? Is she liable to deliver on the initial agreement, when the document was not yet in her possession? And after she recieved it, it was in her ownership. So how does that pan out? does she have to honor the initial agreement of the favor?
There is an obligation on all people to keep their word. This is found in Deuteronomy 23:24, where it says "You must fulfill what has passed your lips" (see Mishneh Torah Laws of Vows 1:4). Since your friend agreed to review the document, she should, even if she later got upset at you.
However, on your end, you should also see where she is coming from. It is very difficult to do a favor for someone that you are upset at. If you push her to do it, that will only damage the relationship further. Is all of that really worth it over the review of a document?
To me, it seems that the best solution is to give her time to calm down or to withdraw the favor so as not to make her even more upset.
Oh yes totally, I apolagized that I upset her, she says she needs time. So that's what I'm doing.
I hope she doesn't hate me.
Thank you for the response. :)