What is the Jewish View on Cremation?

I want to be turned into diamonds to be worn in jewelry for my children. I don’t like the thought of being put into the ground in a big box. I don’t want anyone to have to visit me in a cemetery. I would rather go out in a blaze of glory and emerge as a precious stone! Reply

Could you please let me know what the Jewish view is on cremation of gentiles? I'm in the process of converting and my parents adamantly wanted to be cremated and have their ashes scattered. Reply

Do you think G_D cares if you get cremated? Remember Auschwitz. Reply

SSI recipient focused on improving Jewish life while on disability realizes that cheaper cremation is not an option but he would need financial help to get a Jewish burial plan in order This topic has recently emerged for me as I am currently disabled U.S. Jew. I'm finding it hard to believe that the financial restrictions to stay on the program that I do in fact currently need could be so insane because they don't leave options to bury a person. A relative has chosen cremation and I was told this was in conflict with Jewish law. You and my best current personal friend, who would both be considered Orthodox, have convinced me that cremation is not a choice for me. The problem is the lack of income and the inability to raise income: for disability insurance reasons. I'm not sure what I'm going to do but I'm certain that I cannot just die without a way to pay for my basic wish of being buried in a box in the ground in a respectful fashion. As of this second I am quite grateful that I was able to post a comment: semi-anonymously. I'm not with Chabad and I am currently even awaiting an answer on membership where I have been going. In short, I feel insecure. Reply

Condolences to Avi and others - wishing you a long life.
When my great aunt a holocaust survivor, passed away my mother honouring Jewish law, arranged her funeral and burial (next to her sister, my grandmother, in Sydney, Australia, contrary to her wishes for cremation. Her remaining sister (and brother in law in the US who fancied himself as an advocate) the main beneficiary, then argued about the additional cost + other aspects of the will which was 'strangely' written in English and German a day prior to her passing. The sisters actions required expensive interpretation / opinion of the will by a court appointed bilingual barrister who confirmed other lawyers interpretations and absolved my mother of the burial / cremation cost differential. The irony is this increased the costs and retarded the probate (legal approval of the will / distribution) for several years during which time US currency fell severely in relation to Australian currency while the beneficiary aged.
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Embalming Dave--many Jewish sects do not allow embalming--one reason burial is as soon as possible. Reply

Ashes Makes no sense to me. Surely what is of importance is what you do in your life, not the state of yur body after you die. I would rather be ashes kept in my family home or cast into the sea, than have my body pumped with chemicals and then buried in a box to be eaten by ants, which cant be a good look anyways. Reply

But what if you can not afford it ? What does a Jew do then? I so want to do right and be with my parents again. Reply

What if it's the wish of the deceased? My grandfather (of blessed memory) was cremated according to his own wishes. Surely G-d would understand adhering to the wish of the deceased? Reply

Sister's cremation Sadly, my sister passed away in May unexpectedly. Unbeknownst to my mother my sister had arranged to be cremated, as will her non Jewish husband be when his time comes. This broke my mother's heart. She did ask my brother-in-law for some ashes so they can be put on my father's grave so she'll be able to 'visit' my sister when she goes around Rosh Hashanah. Dear brother-in law refused her, hurting mom again. What can I do to ease mom's pain? Unfortunately, I live in England and she's in the states. Any suggestions? Thanks. Reply

Although many were set afire, no one can extinguish the flame that rages in the soul. Reply

@ Yisroel -respectfully, that of course is merely your opinion. In this case I have decided to honour my mother's wishes regardless and am prepared to bear any consequences thereof. Neither you not anyone else ( including "Jewish Law" or any other similar dogma ) can impose your biases union me or my family. Her choice would not have been mine but I respect her choice nevertheless. The fact that you are so preoccupied with your interpretation of Jewish Law to the exclusion of expressing any condolence attests to the self righteous bombastic tone of your post .. I despise such efforts Reply

Re: In normal circumstances, children must respect their parents’ wishes. This important Mitzah is one of the ten commandments.

There are exceptions, however, and one of them includes going against a parent’s final wishes. If a parent instructs children that he or she wants to be cremated, Jewish law—which places huge emphasis on respecting parents’ wishes—obligates children to ignore the command and provide a traditional Jewish burial for their parents.

As for not honoring the wishes:

Judaism teaches that after one's passing, when soul is free from the influences and confusion of this world, the person knows know far more than they knew when alive. At this point, the parents’ souls are literally begging their children for a traditional Jewish burial.

Through a traditional burial, the child is listening to the parents’ wishes—their unstated, unrealized, true wishes. Reply

My 93 year old mother died last night. In discussions with my brother and sister it is very clear that my mother utterly rejected the idea of burial and insisted that her corpse be cremated. It would be entirely disrespectful to bury the corpse in disregard of her repeated wishes when alive. In my opinion honouring her wishes is far more important than your or others'
( Code of Jewish Law Yoreh Deah 348:3 (See Jerusalem Talmud Ketubot 11:1). opinions or interpretations. Honouring our parents takes precedence.. Reply

Are you all putting limitations on God? I believe that God didn't set these man set these rules. It's like getting lost àt sea and is that consider a proper burial? What if the body is never found and you place a empty casket in the ground will God not find that soul to except into his arms? God has no limitations. Reply

ashes burial Can the ashes of a cremated Jew be buried in a Jewish cemetery (in a coffin)? Reply

Maybe someone answered this, but... I didn't read it. Please explain what to do when a Jewish person dies in a fire and is cremated by accident, such as what happened in 911. Is there still a burial? What if the person could not be identified or found? Reply