By Lemech’s time, society had morally degenerated to the point that men were objectifying female beauty and depersonalizing women. It became customary for men to marry one woman for her beauty and a second woman for the purpose of procreation. The first wife would be given a contraceptive so that pregnancy and childbirth not mar her appearance. The husband would spend his time chiefly with her, ignoring his second wife.
Needless to say, this objectification of women goes against G‑d’s intention. G‑d created the world in such a way that all relationships consist of someone or something acting as a giver and someone or something else acting as the receiver. Both have to take the other into consideration. This is possible only because there is no absolute separation between the “giver” (male) and “receiver” (female) aspects of the relationship: Men have their female aspects and women have their male aspects. As such, each of us can and should appreciate how our spouse complements us, realizing that we have to combine our particular strengths in order to fulfill G‑d’s purpose, cherishing the contributions we each can make toward our common purpose.1

This is all well and good..but please explain two things. Why did Gd create women as desirable objects..each with their own attractions? If this is a challenge to overcome, why did he create involuntary unwanted erections? Why a desire so powerful that men lose their lives, their reputations, their families, and their jobs because of overwhelming desire? That is a deliberate creation of Gd...just as the tree in the garden of Eden and the snake therein. Can anyone explain that?
G-d placed beauty into this world in many facets of His creation because He loves us. There are many gifts G-d has given us, that are misused, but that is not a reason for the world not to have them. People misuse money or strength. Would it be better if everyone was poor or weak? The Talmud asks why doesn't G-d destroy all idols, the sages explain, people bow down to the sun and the moon - should He destroy His world because of the fools? G-d gave us a mind to control our heart, whether when it comes to women, money, or power. Now it is up to us, to use that great gift, and do what is right.