We are naturally disposed to overlook our own faults – or, if we do acknowledge them, to rationalize them. This verse teaches us that in order to show us our own faults, G‑d shows them to us in other people. “Because my G‑d is not within me,” i.e., “because I am not spiritually mature enough to be sensitive to my own shortcomings” – “this evil has befallen me,” i.e., “I have been forced to see my own evil reflected in my fellow Jew.”
Therefore, rather than focusing on others’ faults, we should try to focus on their virtues and excuse their shortcomings. Not only should we focus on others’ virtues in our own minds; we should praise them for their virtues, and praise them to other people. In this way, we foster mutual love and respect.
Just as we are encouraged to inspire those around us to love G‑d, so are we encouraged to inspire those around us to love every Jew, for loving our fellow Jew leads us to love G‑d.1


Yes! Each day it is easy to get overwhelmed by the noise of the world. Perhaps during those moments we should focus on the great virtues of the people around us and emulate them if possible. In today’s world we are bombarded with negativity and it’s easy to get distracted and sucked in. Each of us should do our best to bombard our circle of influence with exactly the opposite. Positive thoughts, acts of kindness and reminders of our blessings and the goodness and awesomeness of Hashem! Enjoy your day!