Ham saw his father, Noah, drunk and naked in his tent. What did he do? He went and told his brothers.
Shem and Yefet saw their father, took a blanket, and covered him without looking.
If you see what needs to be repaired and how to repair it,
then you have found a piece of the world that G‑d has left for you to complete.
If you only see what is wrong and how ugly it is,
then it is you yourself that needs repair.
In either case, it is impossible that you should ever see something and there is nothing you can do.
Likutei Sichot vol. 10, Noah 2.
The world was empty but for Noah, drunk, with 3 sons, 1 of which got booted out. The two sons “passed the test”, but one booted out was led into the whole of the struggle. Those who had passed still had plenty of struggle to go. That’s about it, but all has had to be counted all the time until the modern world. It’s all tangled up it would seem. But not to the Creator.
There is a great difference between those who go through the suffering that helps development in the Creator’s eyes and those who think they are finished through asking forgiveness without changing.
It is easy to put blame on others so they don’t have to blame themselves for anything. However, that is still death for every person who tries to hide behind pseudo blame so as to escape their own growth. Just remember that there is but ONE CREATOR, who gets it done.