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Your Questions
Why Chickpeas & Beer at a Shalom Zachar?

The refreshments almost always include chickpeas (garbanzo beans) and beer. To understand why, we need to understand the main reasons behind the shalom zachar.
Why Am I Not Falling in Love?

Love can only blossom in an open heart. When our hearts are closed we cannot feel affection, even when that affection is really there. And what makes a heart close is fear.
What Is Asarah B'Tevet (Tevet 10)?
What does this day commemorate? Well, three things, actually.
Essay
Letter to My Cremated Father

My hope is that this letter, an artifice to ease my double grief over your death and cremation, will reach other Jews in the same plight, children and parents.
The Story of Ezra the Scribe in the Bible

Ezra the Scribe headed the religious revival of the people living in Israel at the beginning of the Second Temple era.
Did You Know that (Some) Stress is Good for You?

Stress is supposed to be one of the harmful things that can shorten our lifespan and even cause death.
Parshah
Lion, Donkey, or Wolf?

For the first time in Jewish history, all 12 sons of Jacob are tasked with continuing the legacy of Abraham. Each has a specific quality that will contribute critically to the Jewish story.
How Joseph's Coffin Ended Up in Israel

An incredible story of hope, miracles and prayer.
Sharing the Secret to Jewish Unity

We share a communal identity and destiny, where we celebrate and mourn as one.
Story
The Forgiven Loan

Reb Shalom’s daughter waited to be wed, but without a somewhat respectable dowry her chances of meriting a fine groom were virtually nonexistent.
If a poor man happened to come to the wicked city of Sodom, every resident gave him a coin, upon which he inscribed his name; but no bread was given him. When he died, each came and took back his coin.
— Talmud, Sanhedrin 109a