Moses was already carrying the two tablets, so he had no need to “grasp” them in order to break them. He grasped them as a gesture of ownership; he wanted to acquire them as his own personal property in order to assume the full blame for breaking them.
We see here Moses’ selfless devotion to the Jewish people. Not only did he break the tablets in order to “destroy the evidence” of the Jewish people’s covenant with G‑d that they had just broken. Not only was he willing to give up his life in order that G‑d forgive the Jewish people. He even took upon himself the blame for breaking the tablets. And let us recall that Moses had absolutely no part in the incident of the Golden Calf – he was not even “guilty” of not trying to prevent it, since he was not present when it took place!
Moses’ example is a lesson for all of us, for we are all leaders. We all are responsible for each other – whether in the circle of the family, of our friends, of our associates, of the Jewish people, or of all humanity. We should be ready and willing to give up whatever necessary – our resources, our reputations, even our lives – in order to ensure the survival of the Jewish people and the furtherance of our Divine mission to transform the world into G‑d’s true home.1


We all need to take heed of Moshe and his selfless ways. Moshe loved G d with all his heart, with all his mind and with all his mite in everything he did. And he also loved his Jewish brothers and sisters; Moshe had so much love that he put himself last especially for G d and his beloved people. That’s a whole bunch of love and if I can be so bold to say, not many of us Jews process that much love for our gracious, loving, precious G d nor for our sisters and brothers of the Jewish faith and even other faiths. If Moshe were alive today, he’d be so
appalled at so many of us and the way we live our lives. We’ve a tendency to think only of me, me and me, but when we are hurting and we’re fallen down on the ground, we’re probably saying to ourselves, ‘oh please, G d send someone to help me.’ Today, we should all start thinking of Moshe before we may be the next person who’s hurting and is desperate for a loving Jewish friend.