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Bo 5770 - January 22, 2010

Parshah
Reality is Perception

Nature undergoes fundamental changes in reaction to the solar cycle. With the lunar cycle, however, the only substantial change is in our perception
I Can't See You!

The greatest darkness is when "a man sees not his fellow"
The Kabbalah of Evil

The Zohar teaches that the power to oppose G‑d comes conversely from G‑d himself
The Moon’s Humility

The Jewish nation seems small and weak, but this is actually the key to our greatness. It allows us to reflect G‑d’s quintessential light to the world.
Trapped? Not Trapped!

Is it fair to punish Pharaoh, if his refusal to recognize G‑d is forced upon him -- by G‑d Himself? Doesn't G‑d grant free will?
A Calculated Leap of Faith

Just imagine: Each morning when they woke up they were forced to look at their ex-deity—and then look themselves in the eye and ask whether or not they were ready to make this huge transition....
Liberating Your Child

Do we dismiss our child's issues as insignificant? Do we reassure him that this "little" incident will pass, without validating what he is experiencing, in this moment?
The Parshah in a Nutshell
G-d commands the first mitzvah: the calendar. The final three plagues are visited about the Egyptians: locusts, darkness and death of the firstborn. Pharaoh finally cracks and sends the Jewish people running. The holiday of Passover and the Passover offering are introduced.
Living
How Solid Is The Ground We Stand On?

For many a person of faith, the earthquake triggered a personal spiritual upheaval. A tragedy of such unthinkable proportions raises theological questions. Why does G-d allow such suffering?
Praying for Baby Aliza

In North Miami Beach, Florida, on August 23, 2007, a family barbecue was transformed from simple summer fun to a catastrophic event which would permanently alter the lives of the Schwab family...
LIFE: Linking Intelligence, Feeling, and Emotion

In reality, the seed of pain becomes the seed for growth. When you discard the pain, you throw away the information it can give you...
What If I Don't Like My Kids?

Although parents don't like to say this aloud, it's a fact that they sometimes don't like their children...
Jewish Stories
Heshy with His Hand Out

Michael had spent those precious two days moping around his heavily mortgaged home, dwelling on the millions he'd lost in the stock market the preceding Thursday...
The Rusty Penny

It seems that this stingy man, despite his considerable wealth, was loath to share his blessings, no matter how worthy or urgent the cause. Rabbis and beggars alike avoided his home.
A Soldier’s Blessing

I was at my father’s side in the empty prep room. The room was silent; just the two of us. Suddenly—this could happen only in Israel—someone swung open the door and jabbed his head in. “I’m looking for my friend . . .”
Reb Yankle

I suppose every twenty-year-old should have an eighty-eight-year-old friend
A History Lesson

"Tell him," said the Rebbe, "that not everything in the Dark Ages was dark"
Chassidic Thought
The Moon and Us

To an ancient Greek or a Hindu, passive stillness is masculine, activity and motion are feminine. To a Taoist, action is masculine and passiveness is feminine. In other words, if it is a virtue it is masculine. The Jew turns the pyramid on its head
To Forgive is Divine

At 8:15, I presented the questions to my friends. The first: what would it cost you to forgive? Pens quietly scratched paper, and reason silently scratched the surface of emotion...
Revealing the Concealed

As the generations unfold, greater secrets become revealed
The Jewish Woman
The Bottom Line

I was demanding a point blank answer to my question. "Please listen to exactly what I am asking. I just want to know – what’s my bottom line here? That’s all I care about."
Healing Comes in Layers

I was horrified at the thought of an open gaping hole, and could not imagine how it was going to heal and not get infected. In fact I obsessed about it and it took me a good few days before I could even look at it...
The Sincerity of Simplicity

She smiled brightly at me. Her smile was contagious. She couldn't contain her excitement anymore and I put down my book to listen...
He who lifts his hand against his fellow, even if he did not strike him, is called wicked
— Talmud, Sanhedrin 58b
Print Magazine

As you treat others here below, so you are treated above.

Perhaps someone once tried to tell you about the ugly deeds of another.

You really wanted to hear. But you knew that’s not right. Gossip is a form of murder, and you did not wish to be an accomplice.

Mustering all your moral strength, you quietly responded, “I...