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More About Debate; Argument from Chabad.orgLetters of the Rebbe about Debate; Argument

Thursday, December 24, 1964 - Tevet 19, 5725
It is always possible to discuss and settle differences in a friendly way, inasmuch as all are imbued with the same ideals and have the same goal in mind.
Sunday, January 11, 1959 - Shevat 2, 5719
When he will see that she doesn't want to argue and fight, his desire to argue will also weaken and decrease over time.