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Nedarim - Chapter 11

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Nedarim - Chapter 11

1The following rules apply with regard to a male minor who is twelve years and one day old1 and a female minor who is eleven years and one day old who took an oath or a vow, whether a vow forbidding something to them or a vow consecrating an article. We investigate them and ask them questions. If they know for Whose sake they took the vow2 or for Whose sake they consecrated the article or took the oath, their vows and their consecration are binding.3 If they do not know, their vows and their statements are of no consequence.אקָטָן בֶּן שְׁתֵּים עֶשְׂרֵה שָׁנָה וְיוֹם אֶחָד, וּקְטַנָּה בַּת אַחַת עֶשְׂרֵה שָׁנָה וְיוֹם אֶחָד, שֶׁנִּשְׁבְּעוּ אוֹ שֶׁנָּדְרוּ, בֵּין נִדְרֵי אִסָּר בֵּין נִדְרֵי הֶקְדֵּשׁ - בּוֹדְקִין אוֹתָן וְשׁוֹאֲלִין אוֹתָן: אִם יָדְעוּ לְשֵׁם מִי נָדְרוּ וּלְשֵׁם מִי הִקְדִּישׁוּ וְנִשְׁבְּעוּ - נִדְרֵיהֶן קַיָּמִין וְהֶקְדֵּשָׁן הֶקְדֵּשׁ; וְאִם לֹא יָדְעוּ, אֵין דִּבְרֵיהֶן כְּלוּם.
It is necessary to make an investigation throughout the entire twelfth year of a female minor and the entire thirteenth year of a male minor.4וּצְרִיכִין בְּדִיקָה כָּל הַשָּׁנָה כֻּלָּהּ - שֶׁהִיא שְׁנַת שְׁתֵּים עֶשְׂרֵה לַקְּטַנָּה, וּשְׁנַת שְׁלוֹשׁ עֶשְׂרֵה לַקָּטָן.
2What is implied? A minor took a vow or consecrated property at the beginning of the year, they were questioned, it was discovered that they knew for Whose sake the vow was taken, and the vow was maintained. If they took another vow, even at the end of this year, they must be questioned again for the vow to be maintained.בכֵּיצַד? הֲרֵי שֶׁנָּדְרוּ אוֹ שֶׁהִקְדִּישׁוּ בִּתְחִלַּת שָׁנָה זוֹ, וְשָׁאֲלוּ אוֹתָן וְנִמְצְאוּ יוֹדְעִין, וְנִתְקַיֵּם נִדְרָן, וְנָדְרוּ נֶדֶר אַחֵר - אַפִלּוּ בְּסוֹף שָׁנָה זוֹ - צְרִיכִין בְּדִיקָה וְאַחַר כָּךְ יִתְקַיֵּם.
We do not say: “Since they were knowledgeable at the beginning of the year, they no longer have to be questioned. Instead, we question them throughout the entire year.5וְאֵין אוֹמְרִין: הוֹאִיל וְנִמְצְאוּ יוֹדְעִין בִּתְחִלַּת הַשָּׁנָה, אֵינָן צְרִיכִין בְּדִיקָה; אֶלָא בּוֹדְקִין כָּל הַשָּׁנָה הַזּוֹ כֻּלָּהּ.
3Before this time, even when they say: “We know for Whose sake we took the vow or for Whose sake we consecrated it,” their vows and their consecration are of no consequence.גקֹדֶם הַזְּמַן הַזֶּה, אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁאָמְרוּ 'יוֹדְעִין אָנוּ לְשֵׁם מִי נָדַרְנוּ וּלְשֵׁם מִי הִקְדַּשְׁנוּ' - אֵין נִדְרֵיהֶן נְדָרִים וְאֵין הֶקְדֵּשָׁן הֶקְדֵּשׁ.
After this time passes and a male is thirteen years and one day and a female is twelve years and one day,6 even though they say: “We do not know for Whose sake we took the vow or for Whose sake we consecrated it,”7 their vows and their consecration are binding even if they did not manifest physical signs of maturity.8 This is the time when vows take effect which is mentioned in all sources.9וְאַחַר הַזְּמַן הַזֶּה, שֶׁנִּמְצָא הַבֵּן בֶּן שְׁלוֹשׁ עֶשְׂרֵה שָׁנָה וְיוֹם אֶחָד, וְהַבַּת בַּת שְׁתֵּים עֶשְׂרֵה שָׁנָה וְיוֹם אֶחָד, אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁאָמְרוּ אֵין אָנוּ יוֹדְעִין לְשֵׁם מִי נָדַרְנוּ וּלְשֵׁם מִי הִקְדַּשְׁנוּ - דִּבְרֵיהֶן קַיָּמִין, וְהֶקְדֵּשָׁן הֶקְדֵּשׁ וְנִדְרֵיהֶן נְדָרִים; אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁלֹּא הֵבִיאוּ שְׁתֵּי שְׂעָרוֹת. וְזוֹ הִיא עוֹנַת הַנְּדָרִים הָאֲמוּרָה בְּכָל מָקוֹם.
4Since they reached the age of majority, their vows are binding even if they did not manifest physical signs of majority and thus are not considered as adults with regard to all matters.דהוֹאִיל וְהִגִּיעוּ לִשְׁנֵי הַגְּדוֹלִים, נִדְרֵיהֶן קַיָּמִין - אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁלֹּא הֵבִיאוּ סִימָנִין, וַעֲדַיִן לֹא נַעֲשׂוּ גְּדוֹלִים לְכָל דָּבָר.
This concept is of Scriptural origin:10 that when a person close to the age of adulthood utters a vow, his consecration of articles and his vows are binding. Nevertheless, although the vows of these individuals are binding, if they desecrate their vows or take oaths and substitute for them, they are not punishable by lashes until they reach the age of majority and manifest signs of physical maturity.11וְדָבָר זֶה מִדִּבְרֵי תּוֹרָה - שֶׁהַמֻּפְלָא הַסָּמוּךְ לְאִישׁ הֶקְדֵּשׁוֹ הֶקְדֵּשׁ וּנְדָרָיו נְדָרִים. אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁנִּדְרֵיהֶן קַיָּמִין, אִם חִלְּלוּ נִדְרָן, אוֹ נִשְׁבְּעוּ וְהִחְלִיפוּ - אֵינָן לוֹקִין, עַד שֶׁיַּגְדִּילוּ וְיָבִיאוּ שְׁתֵּי שְׂעָרוֹת.
5If such a minor consecrated an article and an adult came and benefited from the article that he consecrated, the adult is liable for lashes.12 For the minor’s vows are valid according to Scriptural Law, as explained.13ההִקְדִּישׁוּ, וּבָא הַגָּדוֹל וְנֶהֱנָה מִן הַהֶקְדֵּשׁ שֶׁהִקְדִּישׁוּ - לוֹקֶה; מִפְּנֵי שֶׁנִּדְרֵיהֶן נְדָרִים מִן הַתּוֹרָה, כְּמוֹ שֶׁבֵּאַרְנוּ.
6When does the above statement - that the vows taken by a female twelve years and one day old are binding - apply? When she is neither in her father’s domain14 or her husband’s domain. If, however, she is in her father’s domain, even if she comes of age and she is a maiden,15 her father may nullify16 all17 of the vows and oaths she takes on the day he hears of them, as Numbers 30:6 states: “All of her vows and prohibitions...18 shall not stand... because her father withheld her.”ובַּמֶּה דְּבָרִים אֲמוּרִים שֶׁבַּת שְׁתֵּים עֶשְׂרֵה שָׁנָה וְיוֹם אֶחָד נְדָרֶיהָ קַיָּמִין? בְּשֶׁלֹּא הָיְתָה בִּרְשׁוּת הָאָב אוֹ בִּרְשׁוּת הַבַּעַל; אֲבָל אִם הָיְתָה בִּרְשׁוּת הָאָב - אַפִלּוּ הִגְדִּילָה, וַהֲרֵי הִיא נַעֲרָה - אָבִיהָ מֵפֵר כָּל נְדָרֶיהָ וְכָל שְׁבוּעוֹת שֶׁתִּשָּׁבַע בְּיוֹם שָׁמְעוֹ, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר "כָּל נְדָרֶיהָ וֶאֱסָרֶיהָ... כִּי הֵנִיא אָבִיהָ אֹתָהּ" (במדבר ל, ו).
7Until when may her father nullify her vows? Until she fully comes of age.19 Once she fully comes of age, he may not nullify her vows.20 Instead, all of her vows and oaths are like those of a widow or a divorcee, as implied by Numbers 30:10: “Everything that she forbade upon her soul shall remain upon her.”זוְעַד מָתַי הָאָב מֵפֵר? עַד שֶׁתִּבְגֹר. בָּגְרָה - אֵינוֹ מֵפֵר לָהּ, וַהֲרֵי כָּל נְדָרֶיהָ וּשְׁבוּעוֹתֶיהָ כְּנֶדֶר אַלְמָנָה וּגְרוּשָׁה, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר בָּהֶן "כֹּל אֲשֶׁר אָסְרָה עַל נַפְשָׁהּ יָקוּם עָלֶיהָ" (במדבר ל, י).
8When may a husband nullify his wife’s vows and oaths? From the time she enters the chupah.21 He may continue to nullify her vows forever until he divorces her, with the bill of divorce reaching her hand.22חוּמֵאֵימָתַי מֵפֵר הַבַּעַל נִדְרֵי אִשְׁתּוֹ וּשְׁבוּעוֹתֶיהָ? מִשֶּׁתִּכָּנֵס לַחֻפָּה. וְהוּא מֵפֵר לְעוֹלָם עַד שֶׁיְּגָרְשֶׁנָּה וְיַגִּיעַ הַגֵּט לְיָדָהּ. הָיְתָה מְגֹרֶשֶׁת מִסָּפֵק, לֹא יָפֵר לָהּ.
If there was an unresolved doubt concerning her divorce,23 he should not nullify her vows. If he gives her a bill of divorce conditionally24 or one that takes effect at a later time,25 he should not nullify her vows in the interim.26 Similarly, when a woman has heard that her husband died and remarried, but in truth her husband was alive27 or other similar situations prevail,28 neither her first husband, nor her second husband should nullify her vows.29 If she was forbidden to her husband by a negative commandment30 and needless to say, if she is forbidden only by a positive commandment,31 and her husband nullified her vows, her vows are nullified.32נָתַן לָהּ גֵּט עַל תְּנַאי אוֹ לְאַחַר זְמַן, לֹא יָפֵר בַּיָּמִים שֶׁבֵּנָתַיִם. וְכֵן מִי שֶׁשָּׁמְעָה שֶׁמֵּת בַּעְלָהּ, וְנִשֵּׂאת, וַהֲרֵי בַּעְלָהּ קַיָּם, וְכָל כַּיּוֹצֵא בָּהּ - אֵין הַבַּעַל הָרִאשׁוֹן וְלֹא הָאַחֲרוֹן מְפִירִין נְדָרֶיהָ. הָיְתָה מֵחַיְּבֵי לָאוִין, וְאֵין צָרִיךְ לוֹמַר מֵחַיְּבֵי עֲשֵׂה, וְהֵפֵר נְדָרֶיהָ - הֲרֵי אֵלּוּ מוּפָרִין.
9When a maiden33 has been consecrated, her vows may be nullified only by her father and the arus34 together.35 If one nullified a vow alone, it is not nullified. If her arus nullified the vow alone and she violated the vow before her father nullified it, she is not liable for lashes.36טנַעֲרָה מְאֹרָסָה - אֵין מֵפֵר נְדָרֶיהָ אֶלָא הָאָב עִם הַבַּעַל כְּאֶחָד. וְאִם הֵפֵר הָאֶחָד לְבַדּוֹ, אֵינוֹ מוּפָר. הֵפֵר הַבַּעַל לְבַדּוֹ, וְעָבְרָה עַל נִדְרָהּ קֹדֶם שֶׁיָּפֵר הָאָב - אֵינָהּ לוֹקָה.
10If the arus dies, she returns to her father’s domain. Any vow she takes37 may be nullified by her father as was her status before consecration.38ימֵת הָאָרוּס - חָזְרָה לִרְשׁוּת אָבִיהָ, וְכָל שֶׁתִּדֹּר הָאָב מֵפֵר כְּשֶׁהָיָה קֹדֶם שֶׁתִּתְאָרֵס.
If her father died after she was consecrated and she took a vow after his death, her arus cannot nullify it. For an arus cannot nullify his wife’s vows alone until she enters the chupah.39מֵת הָאָב אַחַר שֶׁנִּתְאָרְסָה, וְנָדְרָה אַחַר מוֹתוֹ - אֵין הַבַּעַל מֵפֵר, שֶׁאֵין הַבַּעַל מֵפֵר נִדְרֵי אִשְׁתּוֹ עַד שֶׁתִּכָּנֵס לַחֻפָּה.
11The following rules apply when a consecrated maiden takes a vow, her father heard her vow, but not her arus,40 she was divorced that day and then consecrated by another person41 that day.42 Even if she was divorced and consecrated 100 times that day, her father and her last arus may nullify the vows she took before her first arus. The rationale is that she never departed into her own domain for one moment,43 for throughout the entire time, she is in her father’s domain, for she is still a maiden.יאנַעֲרָה אֲרוּסָה שֶׁנָּדְרָה, וְשָׁמַע אָבִיהָ וְלֹא שָׁמַע אֲרוּסָהּ, וְנִתְגָּרְשָׁה בּוֹ בַּיּוֹם, וְנִתְאָרְסָה לְאַחֵר בּוֹ בַּיּוֹם - אַפִלּוּ לְמֵאָה - אָבִיהָ וּבַעְלָהּ הָאַחֲרוֹן מְפִירִין נְדָרֶיהָ שֶׁנָּדְרָה בִּפְנֵי אָרוּס רִאשׁוֹן; מִפְּנֵי שֶׁלֹּא יָצָאֲתָה לִרְשׁוּת עַצְמָהּ שָׁעָה אַחַת, שֶׁעֲדַיִן הִיא בִּרְשׁוּת הָאָב מִפְּנֵי שֶׁהִיא נַעֲרָה.
12When, by contrast, a married woman took a vow and her husband did not nullify it, he divorced her that day, and remarried her that day, he cannot nullify her vows,44 for she departed into her independent domain after she took her vow.45יבאֲבָל הָאִשָּׁה הַנְּשׂוּאָה שֶׁנָּדְרָה, וְלֹא הֵפֵר לָהּ בַּעְלָהּ, וְגֵרְשָׁהּ בּוֹ בַּיּוֹם, וְהֶחֱזִירָהּ בּוֹ בַּיּוֹם - אֵינוֹ יָכוֹל לְהָפֵר, שֶׁהֲרֵי יָצָאֲתָה לִרְשׁוּת עַצְמָהּ אַחַר שֶׁנָּדְרָה.
Although she took her vow in his domain and she is now in his domain, since she departed into her own domain in the interim, her vows are binding.אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁנָּדְרָה בִּרְשׁוּתוֹ, וְהִיא עַתָּה בִּרְשׁוּתוֹ - הוֹאִיל וְיָצְתָה לִרְשׁוּת עַצְמָהּ בֵּנָתַיִם, נִתְקַיְּמוּ נְדָרֶיהָ.
13The following rule applies when a consecrated maiden took a vow that was not heard by either her father or her arus,46 she was divorced, and then consecrated to someone else.47 Even several days after she took the vow, when her father and her last arus hear about the vow that she took while consecrated to her first arus, they may nullify it, since her first arus did not hear it.יגנַעֲרָה מְאֹרָסָה שֶׁנָּדְרָה, וְלֹא שָׁמַע אָבִיהָ וְלֹא בַּעְלָהּ, וְנִתְגָּרְשָׁה וְנִתְאָרְסָה לַאֲחֵרִים, אַפִלּוּ לְאַחַר כַּמָּה יָמִים - כְּשֶׁיִּשְׁמַע הָאָב וְהָאָרוּס הָאַחֲרוֹן, מְפִירִין נְדָרֶיהָ שֶׁנָּדְרָה בִּפְנֵי אָרוּס הָרִאשׁוֹן, הוֹאִיל וְלֹא שָׁמַע אוֹתָם הָאָרוּס הָרִאשׁוֹן.
14The following rule applies when a consecrated maiden took a vow, her father alone heard it and nullified it, but the man to whom she was consecrated died before hearing it. If she was consecrated to another man - or to 100 other men - that day48 her father and her last arus may nullify her vow.49ידנַעֲרָה מְאֹרָסָה שֶׁנָּדְרָה, וְשָׁמַע אָבִיהָ לְבַדּוֹ וְהֵפֵר לָהּ, וּמֵת הָאָרוּס קֹדֶם שֶׁיִּשְׁמַע, וְנִתְאָרְסָה בּוֹ בַּיּוֹם - אַפִלּוּ לְמֵאָה - אָבִיהָ וַאֲרוּסָהּ הָאַחֲרוֹן מְפִירִין נְדָרֶיהָ שֶׁנָּדְרָה בִּפְנֵי אָרוּס רִאשׁוֹן שֶׁמֵּת קֹדֶם שֶׁיִּשְׁמָע.
15The following rule applies when the arus heard her vow, nullified it and died and afterwards,50 her father heard and she was consecrated to another person that day51. Her father and the second arus may nullify her vows.52טושָׁמַע אָרוּס רִאשׁוֹן וְהֵפֵר וּמֵת, וְאַחַר כָּךְ שָׁמַע הָאָב, וְנִתְאָרְסָה לְאַחֵר בּוֹ בַּיּוֹם - אָבִיהָ עִם הָאָרוּס הָאַחֲרוֹן מְפִירִין נְדָרֶיהָ.
16If her father heard that she took a vow, but the arus did not and the arus died that day or the arus also heard about her vow and nullified it or remained silent53 and then died that day, she returns to her father’s domain and her father may nullify her vows.54טזשָׁמַע אָבִיהָ וְלֹא שָׁמַע הָאָרוּס, וּמֵת בּוֹ בַּיּוֹם הָאָרוּס, אוֹ שֶׁשָּׁמַע גַּם הָאָרוּס וְהֵפֵר אוֹ שָׁתַק, וּמֵת בּוֹ בַּיּוֹם - נִתְרוֹקְנָה רְשׁוּת לָאָב, וְהָאָב יָכוֹל לְהָפֵר.
If the arus heard about her vow and maintained it and died that day, or remained silent and died the following day,55 her father cannot nullify her vow.שָׁמַע הָאָרוּס וְקִיֵּם, וּמֵת בּוֹ בַּיּוֹם, אוֹ שֶׁשָּׁמַע וְשָׁתַק, וּמֵת בְּיוֹם שֶׁלְּאַחֲרָיו - אֵין הָאָב יָכוֹל לְהָפֵר.
17If the arus, divorced her after hearing of her vow, there is an unresolved question whether the divorce is considered as silence and her father may nullify her vow together with a second arus who consecrates her that day.56 Or perhaps the divorce is like her first arus maintaining her vow, in which instance, the vow is maintained.57יזגֵּרְשָׁהּ הָאָרוּס אַחַר שֶׁשָּׁמַע - הֲרֵי זֶה סָפֵק אִם הַגֵּרוּשִׁין כִּשְׁתִיקָה וְיָפֵר הָאָב עִם הַבַּעַל הָאַחֲרוֹן שֶׁיְּאָרֵס בּוֹ בַּיּוֹם, אוֹ הַגֵּרוּשִׁין כְּמוֹ שֶׁקִּיֵּם אָרוּס רִאשׁוֹן, שֶׁכְּבָר נִתְקַיְּמוּ הַנְּדָרִים.
18When the father heard the vow and nullified it and then died and then the arus heard of the vow or even if the arus heard of the vow before the death of the father,58 she is not transferred entirely to the domain of her arus. He cannot ever nullify the vow after the father’s death, for an arus can nullify a vow only together with the father.יחשָׁמַע הָאָב וְהֵפֵר לָהּ וּמֵת הָאָב, וְאַחַר כָּךְ שָׁמַע הַבַּעַל, אַפִלּוּ שָׁמַע הַבַּעַל קֹדֶם שֶׁיָּמוּת הָאָב - לֹא נִתְרוֹקְנָה רְשׁוּת לַבַּעַל, וְאֵינוֹ יָכוֹל לְהָפֵר לְעוֹלָם אַחַר מוֹת הָאָב; שֶׁאֵין הָאָרוּס מֵפֵר אֶלָא בְּשֻׁתָּפוּת.
19If the arus heard the vow, nullified it, and died and then the father heard or the father heard and nullified it and the arus died before he heard it, the father cannot nullify these vows that were in the jurisdiction of the first arus except together with a second arus to whom she is consecrated that day,59 as we explained.60יטשָׁמַע אָרוּס וְהֵפֵר לָהּ וּמֵת, וְאַחַר כָּךְ שָׁמַע הָאָב, אוֹ שֶׁשָּׁמַע הָאָב וְהֵפֵר לָהּ, וּמֵת הַבַּעַל קֹדֶם שֶׁיִּשְׁמַע - אֵין הָאָב לְבַדּוֹ יָכוֹל לְהָפֵר נְדָרִים אֵלּוּ שֶׁנִּרְאוּ לְאָרוּס רִאשׁוֹן, אֶלָא בְּשֻׁתָּפוּת אָרוּס אַחֲרוֹן, אִם נִתְאָרְסָה בּוֹ בַּיּוֹם, כְּמוֹ שֶׁבֵּאַרְנוּ.
20If a woman took a vow, her father nullified it alone, and her husband did not hear of the vow until he brought her into his domain,61 he cannot nullify her vow. For a husband cannot nullify a vow taken by the woman he consecrated after he marries her.62 Instead, this must be done before she enters his domain, when he nullifies it together with her father.כנָדְרָה וְהֵפֵר לָהּ אָבִיהָ לְבַדּוֹ, וְלֹא שָׁמַע הָאָרוּס עַד שֶׁנִּכְנְסָה לִרְשׁוּתוֹ - אֵינוֹ יָכוֹל לְהָפֵר; שֶׁאֵין הַבַּעַל מֵפֵר נִדְרֵי אֲרוּסָתוֹ אַחַר שֶׁנִּשֵּׂאת, אֶלָא קֹדֶם שֶׁתִּכָּנֵס לִרְשׁוּתוֹ הוּא שֶׁמֵּפֵר בְּשֻׁתָּפוּת הָאָב.
For this reason,63 it was the practice of Torah Sages to tell their daughters before they left their domain:64 “All the vows which you took while in my household are nullified.”לְפִיכָךְ הָיָה דֶּרֶךְ תַּלְמִידֵי חֲכָמִים - עַד שֶׁלֹּא תֵצֵא בִּתּוֹ מֵרְשׁוּתוֹ אוֹמֵר לָהּ 'כָּל נְדָרִים שֶׁנָּדַרְתְּ בְּתוֹךְ בֵּיתִי הֲרֵי הֵן מוּפָרִין'.
21Similarly, the husband would tell her before she enters his domain: “All of the vows that you took from the time I consecrated you65 until you entered my home are nullified.” For a husband66 can nullify the vows of his wife even though he did not hear them.67כאוְכֵן הַבַּעַל - עַד שֶׁלֹּא תִכָּנֵס לִרְשׁוּתוֹ אוֹמֵר לָהּ 'כָּל נְדָרִים שֶׁנָּדַרְתְּ מִשֶּׁאֵרַסְתִּיךְ עַד שֶׁלֹּא תִכָּנְסִי בְּתוֹךְ בֵּיתִי הֲרֵי הֵן מוּפָרִין'; שֶׁהַבַּעַל מֵפֵר נִדְרֵי אִשְׁתּוֹ אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁלֹּא שָׁמַע אוֹתָם.
22If the father went with the agents of the husband68 or the father’s agents went with the agents of the husband, her vows must still be nullified by her father and her husband jointly.69כבהָלַךְ הָאָב עִם שְׁלוּחֵי הַבַּעַל, אוֹ שֶׁהָלְכוּ שְׁלוּחֵי הָאָב עִם שְׁלוּחֵי הַבַּעַל - עֲדַיִן אָבִיהָ וּבַעְלָהּ מְפִירִין נְדָרֶיהָ.
If her father transferred her to the agents of her husband or her father’s agents transferred her to her husband’s agents, her father can no longer nullify her vows.70 Nor may the husband nullify them. For the husband cannot nullify vows that were taken before he married her, as we explained.71מָסַר הָאָב לִשְׁלוּחֵי הַבַּעַל, אוֹ שֶׁמָּסְרוּ שְׁלוּחֵי הָאָב לִשְׁלוּחֵי הַבַּעַל - אֵין הָאָב יָכוֹל לְהָפֵר, שֶׁהֲרֵי יָצָאת מֵרְשׁוּתוֹ; וְלֹא הַבַּעַל יָכוֹל לְהָפֵר, שֶׁאֵין הַבַּעַל מֵפֵר בַּקּוֹדְמִין, כְּמוֹ שֶׁבֵּאַרְנוּ.
23When a woman is waiting for yivvum72 - even if the yevam already made a statement of his intent,73 and even if there is only one yevam and one yevamah74 - the yevam may not nullify her vows until he is intimate with her.75כגשׁוֹמֶרֶת יָבָם, אַפִלּוּ עָשָׂה בָּהּ יְבָמָהּ מַאֲמָר, וְאַפִלּוּ יָבָם אֶחָד לִיבָמָה אַחַת - אֵינוֹ מֵפֵר נִדְרֵי יְבִמְתּוֹ עַד שֶׁיָּבוֹא עָלֶיהָ.
24When a yevamah who is a maiden had been merely consecrated to her deceased husband and her father is alive, the yevam and her father do not nullify her vows together. Instead, her father alone is the one who nullifies any vow that she takes.76 Even if the yevam stated his intent to marry her, she is not considered as a consecrated maiden, for a statement of intent does not establish a complete marriage bond between a yevamah and her yevam, as we explained.כדהָיְתָה יְבִמְתּוֹ נַעֲרָה מְאֹרָסָה לְאָחִיו וְאָבִיהָ קַיָּם - אֵין הַיָּבָם עִם הָאָב מְפִירִין נְדָרֶיהָ כְּאַחַת, אֶלָא הָאָב לְבַדּוֹ הוּא שֶׁמֵּפֵר כָּל שֶׁתִּדֹּר. וְאַפִלּוּ עָשָׂה בָּהּ הַיָּבָם מַאֲמָר, אֵינָהּ כְּנַעֲרָה מְאֹרָסָה; שֶׁאֵין הַמַּאֲמָר קוֹנֶה בַּיְּבָמָה קִנְיָן גָּמוּר, כְּמוֹ שֶׁבֵּאַרְנוּ.
25When a maiden who was given in marriage by her father is widowed or divorced after marriage,77 she is like an orphan in her father’s lifetime. Her father does not have the right to nullify her vows even if she is a maiden.78כהנַעֲרָה שֶׁהִשִּׂיאָהּ אָבִיהָ, וְנִתְאַלְמְנָה אוֹ נִתְגָּרְשָׁה מִן הַנִּשּׂוּאִין - הֲרֵי זוֹ כִּיתוֹמָה בְּחַיֵּי הָאָב, וְאֵין הָאָב מֵפֵר נְדָרֶיהָ, וְאַף עַל פִּי שֶׁעֲדַיִן הִיא נַעֲרָה.
26When a consecrated maiden takes a vow, but neither her father or her husband heard of her vows until she came of age79 or until she became like an orphan in her father’s lifetime,80 her vows are binding; they cannot be nullified by her arus.81 The rationale is that she departed from her father’s domain and he and her arus must nullify her vows together and she has not entered her husband’s domain.82כונַעֲרָה מְאֹרָסָה שֶׁנָּדְרָה, וְלֹא שָׁמְעוּ נִדְרָהּ אָבִיהָ וּבַעְלָהּ עַד שֶׁבָּגְרָה, אוֹ עַד שֶׁנַּעֲשָׂת יְתוֹמָה בְּחַיֵּי הָאָב - הֲרֵי נְדָרֶיהָ קַיָּמִין; וְאֵין הַבַּעַל יָכוֹל לְהָפֵר, שֶׁהֲרֵי יָצָאת מֵרְשׁוּת אָבִיהָ שֶׁהוּא מֵפֵר עִמּוֹ בְּשֻׁתָּפוּת, וַעֲדַיִן לֹא נִכְנְסָה לִרְשׁוּת הַבַּעַל.
Footnotes
1.

As explained by the commentaries, in this context, we follow the principle: “A portion of a day is considered as an entire day.” Thus, directly after his twelfth birthday, as soon as a male child enters into his thirteenth year of life, these laws apply to him. Similar concepts apply with regard to a female minor.

2.

For a vow must be taken for God's sake, as Numbers 30:3 states: "When a man will take a vow to God."

3.

This is a unique concept that Niddah 45b derives from the exegesis of Leviticus 27 :2. Although throughout Jewish law, until a male attains the age of thirteen and a female, the age of twelve, their actions are of no consequence according to Scriptural Law, an exception is made in this instance because of the above verse, as stated in Halachah 4.

4.

As explained in the following halachah.

5.

The Kessef Mishneh questions the Rambam’s ruling, noting that Niddah, loc. cit., the source for this halachah, does not lead to such a conclusion. He suggests that perhaps the Rambam had a different version of that text. Yayin Malchut states that this resolution is reflected in the revised version of the Rambam’s Commentary to the Mishnah (Niddah 5:6). In his initial explanation of the mishnah, he appeared to follow the same text as the popular version of the Talmud, but later in life, he revised that interpretation, accepting a different version of the text. The Rambam’s rationale is that since we are speaking about aminor, it is possible that his level of understanding will fluctuate.

6.

I.e., their thirteenth and twelfth birthdays arrive as stated in note 1.
In his Commentary to the Mishnah (Niddah 5:6), the Rambam writes that the Torah made the age for which women become responsible for their vows lower than that of men, because a woman’s lifetime is generally less than that of a man.

7.

If they manifested signs that they are mentally or emotionally incapable, this law does not apply. If, however, they are merely somewhat slow and do not understand the concept of vows, their vows are of consequence, because they have already reached the age when one becomes responsible for his or her actions.

8.

I.e., two pubic hairs as stated in Hilchot!shut 2:1.

9.

There are others who maintain that the expression “the time when vows [take effect]” refers to a minor who understands the meaning of his vows as stated in Halachah 1. The Rambam prefers his interpretation, because it is dependent on time, the child’s age, while the first interpretation is dependent on the child’s knowledge (Yayim Malchut).

10.

This is the subject of debate among the Rishonim, for some do not accept the Rambam’s view.

11.

For until the latter age, they are still minors, and minors are not liable for punishment for transgressions that they perform.

12.

For violating the prohibition against benefiting from consecrated property (Hilchot Mei/ah 1 :3).

13.

In the previous halachah. Since the child’s consecration is valid, the article has the status of a consecrated article according to Scriptural Law and a person who misappropriates it is liable.

14.

I.e., her father died. Alternatively, she was married as a minor and then she was divorced or widowed (see Halachah 25). Otherwise, she remains in his domain until the age of twelve and a half, as stated in the following halachah.

15.

I.e., from the age of twelve until the age of twelve and a half.

16.

See Chapter 13, Halachah 2, which describes how the father nullifies his daughter’s vow.

17.

As the Shulchan Aruch (Yoreh De’ah 234:1) states, this applies even to vows taken dependent on the consent of others which cannot be repealed by a sage.

18.

The HaEmek HaShaalah interprets this term as referring to oaths.

19.

I.e., reaches the age of twelve and a half after manifesting physical signs of maturity (Hilchot Ishut 2:2).

20.

Numbers 30:17 gives him this privilege “during her maidenhood,” i.e., and not beyond that time period (Kessef Mishneh).

21.

l. e, from the beginning of the second stage of the marriage relationship known as nissuin. At that time, he takes her into a private room and from that time onward, the couple live as man and wife (Hilchot ls hut 10: I). During the first stage of the marriage relationship (erusin), when the erus has merely consecrated his wife, he does not have the right to nullify her vows alone (see Halachah 9). (In the present era, it is customary to perfonn both these stages of marriage together in one ceremony.)

22.

Implied is that if he sends the bill of divorce to her via an agent, he may nullify her vows until the bill of divorce enters her possession (Siftei Cohen 234:6, Turei Zahav 234:1).

23.

I.e., he had a bill of divorce given to her and our Rabbis could not resolve if the manner in which the bill of divorce was given or written is effective. See Hilchot Gerushin 5:13 for an example.
The rationale for this law is that our Sages understood that the reason the Torah gave a husband the right to nullify his wife’s vows was so that she would not become unattractive to him (Yevamot 90b). In this instance, he is not concerned if she becomes unattractive (Radbaz).

24.

See Hilchot Gerushin 8:1.

25.

He tells her: “Here is your bill of divorce, but it does not take effect for 30 days” (ibid. 9:1).

26.

I.e., in the days before the vow takes effect. The Siftei Cohen 234:8 states that even after the fact, the nullification does not take effect.

27.

See Hilchot Gerushin I 0:5 which describes this situation at length.

28.

E. g., a woman who went through a divorce and then remarried, but then it was discovered that her divorce was invalid (ibid.:7). In both this and the previous instance, both husbands are required to divorce the woman.

29.

The rationale for this and the previous laws is that our Sages understood that the reason the Torah gave a husband the right to nullify his wife’s vows was so that she would not become unattractive to him. In this instance, since he is obligated to divorce her, it is desirable that she become unattractive to him (Yevamot, loc. cit.).

30.

I.e., a negative commandment that is not punishable by execution, death at the hand of heaven, or karet. See Hilchot!shut I :7.

31.

E. g., marriages like that of a non-virgin to a High Priest, which are -not prohibited by a negative commandment. Instead, the prohibition is self-understood, because there is a positive commandment instructing the opposite. See ibid. :8.

32.

Although these marriages are forbidden, since they are still binding, the husband has this privilege.

33.

I.e., a girl between the ages of twelve and twelve and a half.

34.

The term arus means “the man who consecrated her.” The Rambam does not use this term, but instead, the term baal meaning “husband.” We, however, have used the term arus, because the term baal usually implies that nisuin, the second stage of marriage, has already taken place.

35.

Numb’ers 30:17 states: “These are the statutes... between a man and his wife, between a father and his daughter in her youth.” Nedarim 68a interprets the verse as referring to one woman, implying that the nullification of her vows is performed by her father and her erus together. In his Commentary to the Mishnah (Nedarim 9:9), the Rambam writes that from the Biblical text, it might appear that both the father and the. erus have the right to nullify her vows independently. Hence, it is necessary to clarify that this is not so.

36.

Nedarim 68a states that since one of the two has already nullified the vow, it is weak and its violation is not punishable by lashes.

37.

Even the vows she took previously while consecrated [Shulchan Aruch (Yoreh De’ah 234:11)]. This applies even if she has a yevam (Halachah 24).

38.

As stated in Halachah 6.

39.

Before nissuin, an erus can nullify his wife’s vows only together with her father and that is impossible in this instance. See also Halachah 16.

40.

For if her first arus heard her vow and did not nullify it, her father can no longer nullify it together with her second arus. See Halachah 17.

41.

Or consecrated again by her first erus [Shulchan Aruch (Yoreh De ‘ah 234:13)].

42.

It is necessary that the divorce(s) and the consecration(s) take place on the same day the father heard of and nullified the vow. For if not, the woman’s last erus will not have the right to nullify the vow, as indicated by Chapter 12, Halachah 17.

43.

In contrast to the laws applying to a married woman, as stated in the following halachah.

44.

Nor may her father nullify her vows, for once she marries, her father no longer has the right to nullify her vows.

45.

Once a woman becomes independent for even one moment, her future husband cannot nullify the vows she took previo:usly..

46.

If, however, either her erus or her father heard her vow when it was taken, it cannot be nullified at a later date.

47.

Since she remains partially in her father’s domain, the divorce does not affect the right of her father and her present erus to nullify her vows.

48.

The consecration and the nullification of the vow must take place on the day that the father heard of the vow and nullified it (Turei Zahav 234:22).

49.

Since her first erus did not hear of her vow, the fact that he died before nullifying it does not deprive her last erus of that right. The father cannot nullify her vow alone, because it was taken when she was consecrated. Since her father nullified the vow, the right of her erus to nullify the vow is weak and of little substance. Accordingly, the right to nullify it cannot be transferred to the father alone, as in Halachah 16.
The Shulchan Aruch (Yoreh De’ah 234:16) quotes the Rambam’s view, but also that of the Tur which maintains that the second erus can never nullify a vow together with the father.

50.

I.e., after the death of her erus.

51.

But not on the following day. The Radbaz explains that this is speaking about a situation when the father heard of the vow on the same day as her first erus, for the nullification must be completed on the same day that he heard of the vow. If, however, her father does not hear about it until the following day and she was consecrated then, he
and her new erus may nullify her vow then.

52.

The Turei Zahav 234:13 maintains that the Rambam would also give her father the right to nullify the vow alone, because her first erus also heard the vow and did not maintain it (see the following halachah). The Rambam mentions her being consecrated by another person only to teach that if this is indeed the situation, the second erus must also nullify the vow.

53.

Since he did not maintain the vow and died before the day was completed, we say that there was a possibility that he would nullify it. Hence, her father is given the right to nullify it.

54.

Since her erus no longer exists and he did not maintain the vow, the right to nullify is given to her father. In his gloss to Halachah 19, the Radbaz explains the apparent contradiction between these two halachot by stating that this halachah refers to an instance where the father did not nullify the vow before the erus died. Accordingly, the right of the erus to nullify the vow is not weakened. Hence it can be transferred to the father. Halachah 19 refers to a situation where the father nullified the vow and weakens it, as explained above.

55.

Since he did not nullify it on the day that he heard it, he cannot nullify it later. It is considered as if he maintained it. Once he maintained it, her father cannot nullify it.

56.

I.e., combining Halachah 15 which states that the father and the second erus can nullify the vow and Halachah 16 which states that silence is equivalent to nullification. If she does not become consecrated again, the father can nullify the vow alone (Turei Zahav, toe. cit.)..

57.

And cannot be nullified afterwards.

58.

But did not nullify it then.

59.

If, however, he nullifies on a later date it is unacceptable, for the father must nullify the vow on the day he became aware of it.

60.

Halachah 15. In his gloss to this halachah, the Radbaz explains the apparent contradiction between this halachah and Halachah 16 by stating that Halachah 16 refers to an instance where the father did not nullify the vow before the arus died. Accordingly, the right of the arus to nullify the vow is not weakened. Hence it can be transferred to the father. This halachah refers to a situation where the father nullified the vow and weakens it. Hence it cannot be transferred as explained in the notes to Halachah 15. This understanding is reflected in the ruling of the Shulchan Aruch (Yoreh De'ah 234:16).

61.

I.e., completed the second stage of the marriage, nissuin.

62.

See Halachah 8.

63.

I.e., to enable all the vows concerning which he did not hear to be nullified.

64.

I.e., before their marriage.

65.

An erus may also nullify the vows that a woman took before he consecrated her (together with her father). We assume, however, that her father already nullified those vows (Siftei Cohen 234:21; Turei Zahav 234:11).

66.

This also applies to her father. The husband and the father must, however, be capable of hearing. If they are deaf, they cannot nullify a vow (Chapter 12, Halachah 13).

67.

Thus if both the father and the husband made these statements, the vows are nullified. In some manuscript copies of the Mishneh Torah, these two halachot are combined as one..

68.

Who were sent to bring her to her husband's home.

69.

As long as her father is accompanying her, he is not considered to have transferred her to her husband’s domain and hence, still has the right to nullify her vows.

70.

I.e., even if the husband dies [Shulchan Aruch (Yoreh De ‘ah 234:12)].

71.

See Halachah 20.

72.

I.e., we are speaking about a widow whose husband dies childless who must be married by her deceased husband's brother. See Deuteronomy, ch. 25.

73.

Which is similar to consecration, but not entirely analogous to consecration (see Hilchot Yibbum ViChalitzah 2:1).

74.

And thus there is no question that she is designated for him.

75.

At which point their marriage is consummated and she becomes his wife. Until then, even if he has stated his intent, according to Scriptural Law, she is not his wife and he cannot nullify her vows.

76.

As stated in Halachah 10.

77.

I.e., she has already completed nissuin, the second stage of the marriage bond.

78.

I.e., although from the standpoint of age, her father would still have the right to nullify her vows, since she married, she is given full independence. Hence, he no longer has this right.

79.

As stated in Halachah 7, once she comes of age, her father no longer has any authority over her.

80.

I.e., she was divorced or widowed after marriage, as stated in the previous halachah.

81.

I.e., in the first situation, the man who consecrated her before she came of age. In the second situation, it refers to a second husband who consecrated her after she was divorced or widowed.

82.

This occurs only after nissuin. Moreover, even after she enters her husband’s domain, he cannot!}Ullify her vows that were taken beforehand, as stated in Halachah 20.

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