What is the reason for the custom to give money gifts in multiples of 18 -- 18, 36, 54, etc.?

I have heard that it is now “a thing” to give $101. I can only think that the Gamatria is קא, which many for use instead of Hashem’s name in songs, like Ka Ribbon, or the idea of studying 101 times is better than average, but this doesn’t seem to be the answer. Any ideas? Reply

Unfortunately, this life of mine has meant occasional (and extraordinarily stressful) proximity to some very great scoundrels—for whom fooling the public, and in particular aJewish audience, has meant donating prominently following those well-worn multiples of 18.

Many who publish their names on “a list” of donors are what one might call A-List Jews ... better to have your name on “a list”, according to that thinking, if it’s not inscribed on the only list that matters?

If a $180,000 donation to a Jewish charity from you and your wife can—if not secure your appointment to run that charity, collecting about $180,000/year—then at least immunize you against criticism that you lacked the experience to get the job in the first place, or perhaps misused your appointment.

Are we sure 18 is about chai? Could it refer to tzadi, the 18th letter of the alphabet, and those poor Shehaaretzadikkim the world over who must sing a new whalesong every night, for fear they will be hooked and eaten. Reply

I am a teacher and one of my students me and two other of his teachers to his Bar Mitzvah. I have never been to one before, but a Jewish friend of mine told me that I should be honored and definitely go. I was unsure what the mother thought about me going, so I called her. After speaking with the boys mother, I felt it is appropriate to not only go, but also bring my wife and two little ones along for the experience. She was super grateful that we are coming (along with one of the other teachers). The only problem is that I am feeling really uneasy about the money situation. My wife just stopped working, so we are down to one income. The two other teachers agreed to combine with me, so I am thinking we can split $54, $72, or $90 three ways. Would that be enough? I don't feel comfortable giving money to a student in the first place, but now with my wife not working, I don't have much of a choice anyways. Any thoughts would be much appreciated. Reply

To Anonymous It's up to you! Reply

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Thank you Thank you for posting that question & subsequent answer. We are attending a jewish wedding tomorrow evening and I vaguely remember someone telling me that, however I couldn't remember the number to use. Thanks again Reply