I’m having lots of guests from very different backgrounds over for the Seder, and I don’t want people to have to stay out too late. I also want to make sure that my young children will take part in the Seder. What is the earliest time that I can call the Seder for?


The Torah describes how the Exodus began on the night of the 15th of Nissan. The Torah then commands us to eat the paschal lamb, together with the matzah and maror (bitter herbs), specifically at night.1 The four cups of wine, which were instituted to correspond to the four different expressions of redemption, are also an integral part of the Passover Seder, and need to be drunk at night.2

On the Seder night, the cup of wine for kiddush doubles as the first of the four cups of wine that are drunk as part of the Seder. Practically, this means that the Seder can’t start before nightfall, since the Seder begins with kiddush.3

Depending on your location and the time of year that Passover falls, nightfall can be very late (for the times in your area, click here). This poses a challenge, especially since one of the main mitzvahs of the Passover Seder is the retelling of the Exodus story to the children. I recommend having your kids take a nap during the day so that they’ll be well rested for the Seder night.

The word seder actually means “order,” and it is ideal to conduct your Seder in the proper order. If, however, you know that under no circumstances will your guests come and stay late enough into the night to recite the whole Haggadah, eat the matzah and maror, and drink the four cups at the proper times, there are other options. For example, you could have your guests come before nightfall, and then you could serve a snack (not chametz4 or matzah5), discuss the Passover story, and be ready to start the Seder and make kiddush right at nightfall. Consult with your rabbi as to some possible solutions to help ensure that everyone fulfills the Passover mitzvot.