Negative Commandment 357 (Digest)
Relations with a Widow who has not Performed Chalitzah
"The wife of the dead man shall not be to an outsider"—Deuteronomy 25:5.
It is forbidden for anyone – besides the deceased's brother – to engage in sexual relations with the widow of a childless man, unless she has performed chalitzah.
The 357th prohibition is that other men are prohibited from having relations with a yevamah while she is still waiting for the yavam.
The source of this commandment is G‑d's statement, "The wife of the deceased is not allowed to marry an outsider."
Both the woman and the man are punished by lashes for transgressing this prohibition.
The details of this mitzvah are explained in tractate Yevamos.
Rabbi Berel Bell is a well-known educator, author and lecturer. He and his family reside in Montreal, Canada.
From "Sefer Hamitzvot in English," published by
Sichos in English.
Translation of (the unabridged text of) Sefer Hamitzvot by Rabbi Berel Bell, member of the Rabbinical Court of Montreal and director of Teacher Training for the Jewish Learning Institute.
From "Sefer Hamitzvot in English," published by
Sichos in English.