Greetings and blessings!
As I told you during your visit here, my father-in-law the Rebbe1
would often quote a saying by Rabbi Israel Baal Shem Tov: "From everything
that a Jew sees or hears, he must derive a lesson in his service of the
Almighty." Obviously, one should look for a lesson in his daily occupation.
Clothes and linen, before we put them on, are clean and smoothly
pressed---everything in its proper place. But after wearing them for a while
they become creased, dusty or stained. Nevertheless, one need not discard these
clothes; instead, one gives them in to a laundry or a cleaner's. The laundryman
puts them in a tub or machine that has a warm or hot temperature, with hot
water, chemicals or soap that serve to remove the dirt and stains. He then
presses it by applying a heavy weight or pressure. The garment can now be worn
again.
So it is with the Jewish soul. When the Almighty gives the Jew--man or woman
alike--his or her soul, it is clean and pressed and fitted individually to him
or her. As we say every day in the morning prayers: "The soul that You have
placed within me is pure."
In time, however, as it is used for worldly matters, the soul becomes
creased---creased through its use for things that are not the will of G-d. The
soul may also become soiled and stained when one neglects, G-d forbid, to do an
obligatory mitzvah or one transgresses, G-d forbid, on a divine
prohibition.
Nevertheless, the Torah teaches us not to despair, G-d forbid, of the soul's
purity and its fittingness for mentchlich and Jewish living. One must
immerse it in a warm temperature---that is, warm it with the warmth of Torah and
mitzvot, so that it should "stew" in them and be vitalized by them.
This warmth must be a moist warmth, so that the soul should have a moist
adherence to all things holy; this is achieved by heartfelt prayer, of which it
is said "Pour out your heart like water,"2
and with heartfelt Torah study, of which it is said, "Ho, all who thirst
come to water"---water being Torah."3
One should also mix in other things: the giving of charity, the observance of
kashrut and other mitzvot, thereby restoring the soul to its
spotless purity. And if one adds to this the "weight" and
"pressure" of Torah--a weight and pressure that may seem, at first, to
be a burden--this not only does not bother the garment, on the contrary, it
presses it smooth and sets each thing in its place, restoring it to its proper
form and shine. In other words, through Torah and mitzvot the soul
becomes what it ought to be.
I conclude with a blessing of long life for you and your wife, may she live.
May you have much nachas from all your children, may they live.4