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The Hand of Time


When I was little and I walked through the unfamiliar doors of
my nursery school, my eyes belied my fearless demeanor.
You smiled bravely and
You held my hand.

When I trembled as my father faded from our lives ever so slowly,
until his physical being could no longer remain on this earth,
You told me we would be alright
Despite your own fears, and
You held my hand.

When I became a bride and my love was now shared by another,
You smiled knowingly as your heart swelled with pride
That I chose so wisely, and
You held my hand.

When I gave birth to four beautiful children and ran barefoot
through the rich soil of life’s forest,
Your hands became rough as you helped me move the branches
and twigs out of my way, and
You held my hand.

When your heart became weak
And your spirit was broken,
Your eyes spoke a language only I understood.
G-d asked me to reach out, and
I held your hand.

I will walk with you through many doors.
Though your pace is slower, I will take smaller steps,
For your dignity is as vital as the air we breathe.
I will reassure you that it will be alright,
And remind you that I will always be proud of you
As we travel through both familiar and unknown paths,
And I will never let go of your hand.

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By Catherine Roozman Weigensberg   More articles...  |   RSS Listing of Newest Articles by this Author
Catherine Roozman Weigensberg, a married mother of four and proud new grandmother of two, resides in Montreal, Quebec. She worked as a geriatric social worker for several years prior to taking on the full time role of primary caregiver for her aged mother in her home. In recent months, her mother has moved to a nearby nursing facility, where Catherine volunteers as vice president of the Residents Committee.

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Posted: Feb 14, 2011
just tzedaká
If you are blessed with the possibility to returm a little portion of what you received, enjoy it, for its for your benefit, your enrichment and not hers. may your children take care of you in due time!
Posted By monica galdi, Buenos Aires, Argentina

Posted: Nov 22, 2010
TRULY TOUCHING!
I CAN FEEL YOUR WORDS IN MY HEART BECAUSE I ALSO TAKE CARE OF MY AILING MOTHER.
UNFORTUNATLY WE LIVE TOO Far away from each other for me to care for her daily as I wish I could.
As i visit her on a monthly basis I experience the painfull challenges of the progressive relentless condition that slowly impair her most vivid talents and abilities. For me the pain is excruciating because I always remember her spark, her fire, her passion for life and her endless generous and caring dids for others. So all the more puzzling and desperate become my prayers to HASHEM on her behalf.
Posted By Anonymous, NYC, NY

Posted: Dec 17, 2009
Nice
So Sweet.
Posted By Anonymous, Bronx, NY/USA

Posted: Nov 25, 2008
how beautiful
Your mother is So lucky to have you. May you both be blessed, KOl ha kavod (with all the respect!)
Posted By Hinda Schryber, jerusalem, Israel

Posted: Nov 25, 2008
Caring
Your parents are so blessed to have you. I am an In Home Care Giver. I take care of the mothers who do not have children who are willing to take care of their own mothers. I also take care of them who do not have children to take care of them. I do not know which is sadder.
Posted By Eleanor Gibson, Grayland, Wa. USA

Posted: Nov 25, 2008
To Anna and Catherine
Funny..but I too am a social worker. Maybe these things are so important to us because we have cared for others in our careers and now we take the time to care for our loved ones. A bigger mitzvah than caring for one's aging parent - I don't know one. I cared for my grandmother, who was my primary parent in life, until she passed many years ago. My sister cared for both of her in-laws. It is a big job and we must remember to stay balanced - to ask for help or a bit of respite when we need it. Ha'shem will surely bless both of you for not abandoning the ones who loved you when you were too small and fragile to care for yourself.
Posted By Leeba (Kelly Rae), Sydney, AU

Posted: Nov 24, 2008
Dear Catherine, my eyes fill with tears as I read and re-read your prose. Thank you for sharing the feelings of your heart.

May Ha'shem bless you as you have taken the hand of the one who always held yours. It is right to do so but not easy.


Posted By Kelly Rae, Sydney, AU

Posted: Nov 24, 2008
Thank you...
... for the lovely gift of that poem. I, too, am a social worker and have cared for my mother the past 6 years that she has lived in a nursing home following a severe stroke. I, too, understand the language in her eyes and her mannerisms. I visit daily and talk with her about the small things in life. One of the small gifts that I give her is letting her know when I am not completely well- letting her know that she is still my mother and that I still appreciate her care and concern. My time with her has been a blessing and an adventure. Although her speech is limited, when I mention a male friend, she clearly asks, "Is he Jewish?" Some speech comes directly from the soul...
Posted By Anna, Memphis, TN



 


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