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Living a Life Through Faith


What does it mean to live a life inspired by faith? While most of us have such busy schedules that we rarely pause to reflect upon it, from time to time we have experienced a particular event or overcome a certain challenge that for a moment caused us to reflect upon how the outcome was something greater than we imagined. And at that moment, though only for a moment, we felt a deep sense of gratitude and connection.

This is often all that life offers us in experiencing the faith that flows beneath all of our actions. But like drinking of a cool stream, it is a profoundly rejuvenating experience that can empower us in our struggles for days, or months, to come.

Faith is not a relinquishing of responsibilityPerhaps it is precisely because the experience is so fleeting, and at the same time so satisfying that the last thing on our mind is considering what, in fact, it is.

It is a wonderful opportunity to reflect upon the experience of faith and consider the way in which it motivates and even pushes us beyond what we believed ourselves capable of achieving. As a woman of Jewish faith, I can identify the driving force behind my passion for both the non-profit services world where I have resided professionally for the last ten years, and my sense of community activism on a more personal level.

Faith is not a relinquishing of responsibility. It is not an excuse for inaction that allows us to say, "The situation is out of my hands, G‑d will look after it." On the contrary, it is only when we push ourselves to the limit of our own abilities that we begin to experience true faith. Faith is the confidence of knowing that having reached a point at which we can honestly say we have done all that we can, that everything else – all that is not within our own control - will look after itself.

But this confidence we experience is not faith itself, it is a result of faith. Faith is more than just a mind set. Faith is not merely something inside us, an emotion we experience like joy or satisfaction. Faith reaches out beyond us and transforms the world around us. When we approach the world with faith, it is a power that flows from a deep well within each of us. A power that flows outside ourselves and actually orchestrates the events of our world the way we need them to be.

There is a Yiddish expression that goes "Tracht gut vet zein gut" - Think good and it will be good. It is explained in our deepest mystical teachings that our thoughts can change the world. The expression "Think good and it will be good" is not just a way of saying "Hope for the best" or "Stay positive". It is a profound teaching about the impact of our thoughts in creating and shaping our world. Faith in a positive outcome is the beginning of the solution.

Given what appears to be a hopelessly impossible situation, faith is the power to wrestle with the force of opposition that blocks what we need to accomplish. Fighting against impossible odds with our intellect alone almost inevitably makes us closed and bitter. We shut ourselves away from others in our despair. But faith is the power to remain positive and open in the face of the most stifling adversity.

The heart of one person reflects the heart of the otherIn Judaism, our Sages teach that just as water reflects the face, so too the heart of one person reflects the heart of the other. If we approach adversity with faith and confidence, we are already halfway towards achieving it. How many have experienced this? Many of us have experienced situations when we refused to be defeated or give up hope. And not only did people respond more openly, but the world itself seemed to open up.

This is a profound secret of faith that is the key to unlocking the world's most valuable treasures. Judaism teaches that G‑d established all forces in creation as a balance of opposites. In science, it is well known that for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.

Opposition is not simply something negative. It is a sign that the outcome will make a difference. The greater the forces that fight against what you are seeking to accomplish, the greater the result must be in tipping the scale of deeds in the world to the side of good. When seen through the clarity of faith, impossible odds no longer overwhelm us. They instead spur us on by revealing that what we are doing matters.

But why should it be like this? If G‑d loves us and wants the best for us, why make it so difficult? The answer reveals the meaning behind one of life's great mysteries: why those who are good often suffer and those who are corrupt appear to prosper.

We were not put in this world to do what comes easily. We were put here to achieve the impossible. And impossible is not some objective thing outside ourselves. Actually, the impossible is measured by us.

So many things that were impossible when I was a child are now simple. Children overcome the impossible every day, learning to walk, talk, read, write, to become sensitive to the feelings of others. These are all such incredible achievements.

While G‑d could have created a world in which there was nothing that opposed goodness and kindness, we would have been missing out on G‑d's greatest gift to us: the ability to find resources within ourselves greater than we previously realized were there.

The things we treasure are precisely those things that we worked so hard forThings of little worth can be found easily. The surface of the world is covered in dirt and stones. But to find diamonds, one has to dig deep, to break through layer upon layer of the hardest rock, to get to its core. We are no different. The things that come easily to us are usually worth very little. The things we treasure are precisely those things that we worked so hard for.

This is why G‑d makes the lives of good people difficult. Because good people make a difference. And at the end of the day, it is their victory over the forces of darkness and despair that is the source of profound satisfaction.

Having gone to the point of breaking but still retaining strength, we discover that we are not as fragile as we imagined. We are ready to face tomorrow with even greater challenges that will reveal even greater strength in us.

Faith transforms us by transforming the world around us. Opposition becomes a motivating challenge and adversity is turned into opportunity to reveal greater personal resources. When we are successful, we become more than we were before. And when we reveal this new power, the world becomes a better place because of it.

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Chaya S. Abelsky is a Professional Certified Coach; Principal of Triumphant Journeys, and developer of the High Impact Coaching™ Certificate Program , which provides both personal sessions and City University of New York certified multifaceted group seminars to enable the success of individuals, nonprofit organizations, and small businesses.

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Posted: Aug 13, 2010
Thanks.
Thanks for your response, and the very encouraging article.
What would my Judith want me to be doing? Good question! I think she would want me to be doing exactly what I am doing-- staying in contact with her wonderful husband and his children and his new love. And continuing my other contributions to the community.
Really, your article on faith is solid and so inspiring!
Posted By Elaine Thompson, Alpena, Michigan

Posted: Aug 13, 2010
Article on Faith
Beautiful article. I came across your article as I prepared for my morning bible study. I loved it and will share with others. Thanks so much for your insights.
Posted By Tammy Sears, Danville , Ky.

Posted: Dec 13, 2009
Dear Elaine Thompson
Elaine,

Happy Chanukah!

There are no words I can use to comfort the soul of a mother after the loss of a child. The words that are used at Shiva when we come to comfort an 'avel' (someone who looses a mother, father, sister, brother or child) begins with 'Hamokom Yenachem Eschem'' - translated 'God who comforts' - it is only G-d that can comfort - as it is way beyond our power to comfort such a pain, and only G-d has the power to comfort.

Elaine, pain is also power. The Chabad Rebbe would tell us to take the energy of the pain and use it as a catalyst for change and a catalyst for growth. What kind of project would your daughter enjoy you accomplishing?

Elaine, do not hesitate to contact me. I am more than happy to be there for you in any way I can offer my help.

With love,
Chaya Abelsky
chaya@triumphantjourneys.com
Posted By Chaya Abelsky

Posted: Dec 13, 2009
a secular word of sympathy
My previous comment stated that I'd heard nothing from my favorite freedom-from-religion organization after writing that my daughter had died and I envied people who had a religion for comfort.

Eventually I did get an email from Annie Laurie Gaylor (president of FFRF,Inc.) who took the time to write me a personal letter.

I miss my daughter yet.
Posted By Elaine Thompson, Alpena, Michigan

Posted: Dec 10, 2009
Amazing article
I read this article in times of adversity. So many great quotes. Thank you many times over!
Posted By Scott Kushner, Mount Laurel, NJ

Posted: May 23, 2007
One Paragraph Explains All
This is a great article that helped me for a lot of reasons, but the paragraph that starts "In Judaism, our Sages teach that just as water reflects the face, so too the heart of one person reflects the heart of the other" explains SO much about what has happened to me in the last few years and why I have survived, and why and how all these people have seen who I am and stepped up to help .... This sentence alone backs up everything my Rabbi has told me, and brought me immediate peace and additional faith!!!!

Most especially the words "one heart reflects the heart of another." I can see why the author is an empowering empowerment life coach!!! I have already passed the article on to someone else in a sad situation to try and share with her the lessons I have learned.

I would like to wish Sarah, who posted above, the best of luck. She is displaying incredible strength under very upsetting circumstances.

Thank you again, to Chaya Abelsky.


Posted By Kaley

Posted: May 22, 2007
Thank you so much Chaya for this uplifting piece. "TRACHT GUT VET ZEIN GUT" (think good and it will be good) has guided me throughout my life and given me tremendous strength to handle life's challenges and tribulations (big and small). Thanks again.
Posted By Laykie Donin, Houston, TX

Posted: May 22, 2007
Faith
My beloved daughter, Judith, my youngest, died three years ago this Dec.26, at the age of 48. My first reaction to Judith's death was to look to my favorite freedom-from-religion publications for a word of understanding. Nothing. But the death of a child is so hard to take, and it is no easier today than three years ago. I'm involved in the civic community-- not sitting around doing nothing-- but inside I am sad; I cry at the drop of a hat...your article seems to touch a foundational spot for me. Thanks.
Posted By Elaine Thompson

Posted: May 21, 2007
Thank You for This Wonderful Essay
This essay on Faith captures, conveys, inspires and makes rock solid an understanding of how to see the best opportunities in ourselves - and therefore in life - to take hold of inner power and harness it for good.

Chaya Abelsky is a marvelous writer - and obviously a great force in both understanding and conveying great faith.

Thank you - I'm passing it on to others

Posted By Nathan Abraham, S. Hadley, MA

Posted: May 21, 2007
Faith in action
This article has helped put a stiuation I am in, in perspective. I have someone, who was very close to me, who has lied about something horrific that caused me to be arrested and I am now going to court for it. I also lost a good job and am going to have this thing on my record for life. IN restrospect, I have witnessed her doing this before to others yet had so much faith in her changing that I never thought she would do this to me. IN all of this, I forgave her and am looking for a way to resolve this peacefully so as not to have to drag her character through the courts (only because she has a record). Many people have told me that they cant believe I would care so much about saving face for her when she did this to me but I continue to say that if G-d can forgive us and save us for our sins then we all should be able to do that for others. The strength and wisdom gained from this is far greater than revenge.
Posted By Sarah



 


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