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Finding Identity

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Sometimes i look around,
And wish i wasn’t me,
If only i was her,
I would be happy.

Look at her life,
So perfect and sweet,
She’s spoiled rotten,
She seems to be elite.

If only i was her,
just for a day or two,
Imagine what a life I’d lead,
With riches and beauty too!

Then i looked some more,
at the people passing by,
imagining my life as theirs,
And then i began to sigh.

How come all these people,
their lives so different then mine,
How come only in their life,
Treasures i can find?

I wondered if it was true,
That if i switched my life,
That everything would be good again,
And there would be no strife?

Would it really help,
If i was her instead of me?
If maybe i was wealthy,
Or was all the things she could be?

And maybe, no one but ME,
Can lead the life I do!
’Cause only I am strong enough,
To live my whole life through!

So listen close, friends so dear,
Next time you want to switch,
Think about it one more time,
’Cause there’s just one small glitch.

Only you can live your life,
Just as she lives hers,
I can’t be you, and you can’t be me,
’Cause being you is what G‑d prefers!

I would really love to stay,
And talk all day, you see,
But now i really have to run,
And continue being me!

By Etti Krinsky
Etti Krinsky is fifteen years old and lives with her family in New Hampshire where they are Chabad emissaries.
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November 17, 2011
I am also a teenager like you and I used to be reallty jealous of other girls who were prettier, more popular, or more talented then me. I used to think that their lives are perfect because they have these qualities that I don't but Thank G-d over time through learning Torah, I started learning how to be the best me that I can be and that I should be proud of who I am because every person is unique and special created in the image of G-d.
Malka
November 14, 2011
Brava, Etti!
very sweet - and true!
Anonymous
Washington , DC
November 14, 2011
Finding Identity
I found my identity, I am what I was supposed to be. No error there, of what my Maker meant to be.
There is a purpose, in my future, He thinks. Whether my existence, in years past, was just a beginning of important things, only He knows what it will be. And that is what is more important to me.
He is my inspiration, strength, and all there is, to keep on going strong in this life free.
Free of fear and confusion of who or what there is because He lives inside that free me. My Redeemer is HE!!

Thank you for this article Etti Krinksky. You inspired me to say what is in my heart to the One who loves us so much.
Anonymous
Mesa, Arizona, USA
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