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Why the Rush to Name Our Girl?


Question:

We just had a daughter, and my rabbi told us that we should name her at the first possible opportunity. I understand that we name girls at the Torah reading, which can happen on Monday, Thursday or Shabbat. That does not leave us much time to mull over the name. Why is that? Why don’t we get a full 8 days, like we do before circumcising and naming a boy?

Response:

You are correct; the custom of Chabad and others is to name girls as early as possible. The Lubavitcher Rebbe, of righteous memory, explained that this is because the moment that you name your baby may very well be the moment at which the Jewish soul, which had been present from the moment of birth, enters her body—something that you surely do not want to push off.

The Munkacser Rebbe (known as the Minchat Elazar) once remarked that the only reason we wait eight days before naming a boy is because the Torah specifically commanded us to wait that long before circumcising him. Otherwise we would name him right away, as a person’s Hebrew name serves as a conduit through which his Jewish self and life-force enters.


Sources:

Likkutei Sichot, vol. 14, p. 250; Darkei Chaim V’Shalom 218.

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Posted: Dec 28, 2010
Soul and Bar/Bat Mitzvah
I was taught that at the age of 12 for girls and 13 for boys (Bat Mitzvah & Bar Mitzvah) they were then considered men and women, fully understood right from wrong and responsible for their actions. Therefore the father was no longer responsible for the Torah duties of the first son.
I was taught that Jews believe that the soul enters the body of a new born at first breath, hence, abortion isn't killing a child because it doesn't yet have a soul.
Please educate me if my understanding is erronous on both ideas.
Posted By Neshama Simcha, Gainesville, Fl.

Posted: Dec 28, 2010
Full jewish Soul
A person's "full" and complete" Jewish Soul Enters by Bar/ Bat Mitzvah- however... it enters in stages,,, some by birth, Bris/ Name calling, and fully there at Bar/ Bat Mitzvah- they don't contradict each other...
Posted By Rivka, bklyn , US-NY

Posted: Dec 28, 2010
Jewish Soul Enterng
As I understand the Jewish Soul enters the body at birth, and a angle teaches the baby the commandments before birth. At the age of bar mitzvah, the evil inclination (force against us doing mitzvahs enters the person)...
Posted By Anonymous, Boston, MA

Posted: Dec 27, 2010
Question?
I thought that a person's Jewish soul doesn't Fully enter the body until Bar/Bas Mitvzah - what does the naming have to do with the entrance of the Jewish soul?
Posted By Chana Nechama, Jerusalem, Israel

Posted: Dec 24, 2010
Also
The eighth day is the first opportunity to perform the mitzva, hence the first opportunity to peform the mitzva is seen meritoriously
Posted By go-d's right hand man, Jerooshalaiyim, Israel



 


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