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Singing Despite the Blues


Jacob traveled to Charan. Charan made Detroit look like Putney, Vermont. It was a rough place. Like Vegas but with more slot machines, like New York, but with more aggression, like Washington D.C. but with more corruption.

To make matters worse, Jacob lived in his uncle's house. His uncle made John Gotti look like a saint. Get the picture? Yet the Midrash says that Jacob sang certain psalms (120-134) throughout the 20 years he lived there.

Does that make sense? Jacob was in a precarious position, in an unfriendly and disgusting city, and he walks around as if he is starring in a Broadway musical?

Jacob was in a precarious position, and he walks around as if he is starring in a Broadway musical?Jacob was in a difficult moment in his life. He, himself would have been the first to admit it, but he refused to get depressed or lose hope. He recognized that G‑d's hand had guided him there. He knew he was in Charan for a purpose and upon completion of that goal, he would return home.

Therefore, even during the challenging moments in Charan he remained joyous, for he knew he was where he needed to be, doing what had to be done—and he was right. Twenty years later he left Charan with his entire family and quite a bit of gelt. Retroactively, he proved that all of his singing was justified and not the outgrowth of a bipolar disorder.

The world right now is a tough place to be. Anyone who can't see the problems should cut down on their meds. You don't have to be a bleeding heart liberal to recognize the issues in yourselves, your towns, and society at large.

That having been said, we can and should follow Jacob's example. Jacob didn't roll up on his psychologist's leather couch to discuss his issues. He didn't create some random blog to muse and ramble about his problems. He recognized his purpose in Charan and worked towards actualizing his goals—and he did so with joy.

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Rabbi Simcha Levenberg is a writer searching for the meaning of life in Los Angeles

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Posted: Dec 13, 2007
Bipolar: a comment
if I understood this correctly, you were intimating that Bipolar can be overcome with emunah?
I have friends with children who have BiPolar disorder, may G-d grant them a very speedy recovery.....but just as one cannot stop a virus from making a person regurgitate, they cannot heal BiPolar without a miracle from G-d which is not so easily obtainable.
Posted By Anonymous

Posted: Nov 19, 2007
Singing Despite the Blues
Rebbetzin Tauby and Rabbio Levenson,
I recognize the value of what the Rebbetzin is saying, but sometimes good comes from unexpected sources. I was saddened by a loved one's new diagnosis of bipolar disorder, so I clicked on "Singing Despite the Blues," which seemed an apt title. I saw that 1. Jacob was joyous despite his circumstance, 2. that he left Charan "with his whole family," which to me means that if I react joyously to my circumstance, not only I but my loved one will leave the unhealthy place, and 3. the clincher -- the reference to bipolar disorder that made me feel like, "yeah, this pertains specifically to my concern."
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Posted: Nov 17, 2007
Singing despite the blues
Rabbi,
Your Dvar Torah was creative and humorous with its comparisons of Charan to some large American cities. It also showed how Yaakov had a clear sense of his purpose and focus in serving Hashem. Something that we can all aspire to. However, your point about Yaakov's happiness despite his surroundings and circumstances, I feel, could have been written in a way that didn't need to offend or insult people who may need medical support to help them with their depression. As a Rebbetzin and counsellor, I meet many people who suffer from all types of ailments and who sometimes need help in dealing with life's struggles. They deserve our respect and compassion as much as anyone else. Is that not what the Rebbe taught us? Rather than teaching the point in a negative way, why not show a beautiful example from Novi, of Dovid Hamelech, who was known as the singer of Israel, who sang Hashem's praises and gave us the most beautiful gift in the form of the 150 Psalms, despite his horrific life?
Posted By E. Tauby, Richmond, Canada

Posted: Nov 16, 2007
Hashem Makes It Possible
Sometimes there are genetic predispositions that make a medical condition .

My father had diabetes. My mother had a serious and tragic neurological chemical imbalance in addition to diabetes -- may they rest in peace.

The meds they took kept them alive and I monitored their medications dosages. I was glad that they were able to extend their lives by taking the meds.

I think the rabbis can provide a better answer that I could why things are the way they are.
Posted By Haddasah Rut Bat ANONYMOUS, Austin, TX

Posted: Nov 15, 2007
Rabbi Levenberg's Parshah Picks on Jacob
Thanks for the laughs... and the lesson. I know someone who needs this very much right now, so I'll be passing it on.
Posted By Molly, LA, CA

Posted: Nov 15, 2007
In Context
Let's be honest - does a sharply worded, witty & cutting edge funny article scare us? Does an author that is not afraid to uncover a bit of the edge of honesty really sacrifice his chassidicness? I don't think so. Rabbi Levenger's articles are refreshing - they're funny, they're creative and they convey relevant points and concepts. Regarding the meds - that was a bit racy, but in context it doesn't seem like the Rabbi is actually advocating throwing your meds out the window just because you know the story of Yaacov.
Posted By Ben Friedberg, Harrisburg, PA
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Posted: Nov 14, 2007
Sometimes, You Just Have to Sing!
As one of our sages once said, "It is better to laugh than to cry."

Good music brings laughter to the soul no matter how bad things appear to be.
Posted By Hadassah Rut bat Anonymous, Austin, TX

Posted: Nov 14, 2007
I feel like Tevye
On one hand I have to agree with some of the things you said, like Jacob being in a lousy situation, but he made the best of it because he knew what the outcome would be. On the other hand, to suggest that one should "cut down on their meds", well Rabbi, unfortunately you don't know anything about my life. I pray to Hashem that I could cut down on my meds. Not going to happen though. The world is a very tough place right now, not just for me, but for many of us, and I wake up every morning and thank Hashem that I did.
I recognize my purpose in life and I try to do so everyday with a smile on my face and joy in my heart. Most of the time it works. My husband and I do the best we can everyday to honor Hashem, and for that I can only say to you that cutting out my meds wouldn't allow me to do half of what I'm able to do because I do have to take medication for my health and well being.
Blessings to you Rabbi
Posted By Rochel R, Chicagoland, Il

Posted: Nov 14, 2007
Response to Anonymous, Maimi, Florida
Well done Simcha. You really told it like it is. That's the world we live in today. There is so much going on with drugs and 'meds', Simcha. you hit the nail on its head. So, Mr Miami, get a life and look at the big picture - the secular & spirtual worlds as a whole. You need to enjoy and have fun in whatever it is you're trying to attain and DON'T DO DRUGS.
Posted By Ze'ev Yosef Ben Avraham, Perth, Western Australia

Posted: Nov 14, 2007
Inspiring
Thank you Rabbi Levenberg for an inspiring and uplifiting article. I think you capture the essense of what it means to be chassidic, in a way that can be appreciated by all.
Posted By Dan Wolfe, Westchester, NY



 


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