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Weekly Sermonette
Not Yet


Everyone knows that Rome wasn't built in a day. There isn't a building site on earth where the contractor hasn't explained away his delays by using that well-worn cliché. But did you know that Jerusalem wasn't built in a day either? Nor was the Holy Land.

In this week's Torah reading, the Almighty tells the Jewish people that they will not inherit the land of Canaan immediately. It will be to their benefit that the conquest of the Promised Land be gradual and deliberate. To settle the land successfully would take time and they were cautioned up front to be patient:

I shall not drive them away from you in a single year, lest the land become desolate and the wildlife of the field multiply against you. Little by little shall I drive them away from you, until you become fruitful and make the land your heritage. (Exodus 23:29-30)

Overnight sensations are often just that. They don't necessarily last. Slow and steady, step by step, the gradual approach usually enjoys longevity and enduring success.

Every Jew has a share in the Promised Land; not only geographically but spiritually. There is a piece of Jerusalem inside each of us. We all have the capacity for holiness, sanctity and spirituality. But sometimes we may be discouraged from beginning the journey to our own personal promised land. The road seems too long and arduous. Here G‑d is giving us wise words of encouragement. Don't expect overnight miracles. Don't say, "I have a whole country to conquer! How will I do it?" Rather say, "Where should I start today?" Don't look at the end of the road; look at the first few steps you need to take right now. Tomorrow you will take a few more steps and the next day a few more, and before long the whole land will be yours.

If you asked an optimistic entrepreneur, just starting on his first business venture, "Are you a millionaire?" he wouldn't say, "No." Most probably he'd say, "Not yet, I'm working on it!" It should be the same in our Jewish journeys.

Franz Rosenzweig (1886-1929) was a German-Jewish philosopher who as a young man actually considered opting out of Judaism completely. But his intellectual bent compelled him to at least do a proper examination of Judaism first. So he went to a synagogue and, as it happened, experienced a spiritual transformation. He went on to become a serious student of Judaism. It's told that when Rosenzweig was once asked, "Do you put on tefillin?" his answer was not yet. Not no, but "not yet" – and there is a critical difference between the two. No implies that I am not doing it now nor do I have any plans to do it any time soon. Not yet means that while presently I may not be there, I am still open to the suggestion. Hopefully, the time will soon come when I will be ready to make tefillin part of my daily observance.

The not yet approach is a good one. There is no one who does it all. We all have room for growth. We should all want to aspire higher. If we don't practice a particular good deed at the moment there is no reason why we cannot begin doing it in the near future. Let us never be discouraged by the length of the journey. Let us begin the first steps and keep moving. It may be slow but as long as there is steady growth we will get there.

So if someone asks, "do you put on tefillin," or "do you keep kosher," or "do you observe Shabbat," and you don't, please don't say no. Say not yet.

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Rabbi Yossy Goldman was born in Brooklyn, New York, to a distinguished Chabad family. In 1976 he was sent by the Lubavitcher Rebbe, of righteous memory, as a Chabad-Lubavitch emissary to serve the Jewish community of Johannesburg, South Africa. He is Senior Rabbi of the Sydenham Highlands North Shul since 1986, president of the South African Rabbinical Association, and a frequent contributor to Chabad.org.
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Posted: Dec 13, 2010
Not Yet
I agree with the message of optimism.

'Not yet' has more than a connotation of open-mindedness, it has one of full intent. It says "I'm trying, but sofar [for whatever reason], no go", or, "I wan't to, but I just haven't gotten up the gumption."

'Not yet' would be a curious answer to "do you keep kosher?" I imagine it would be a rare instance that someone would be trying to keep kosher but couldn't, or wanting to but putting it off for some reason or other. I would guess that the vast majority of those who ignore mitzvot do so because they just don't feel it's important, and that they have no intention of keeping them.

This differs from the entrepreneur who answers "not yet" to the millionaire question. The only business-type who has no intention of becoming a millionaire is the one who fully intends to become a billionaire!

Thanks, though.
Posted By Andy, Toronto, ON

Posted: Feb 18, 2009
Not Yet
What a wonderful spark of hope thank you Rabbi for putting it in perspective
Posted By Elie, Annapolis, Maryland

Posted: May 3, 2007
Not yet...
Thank you for wonderful insight.
Posted By Mark Brown, Highwood, Illinois/USA

Posted: Feb 15, 2007
Not Yet
Rabbi Yossy Goldman congratulations this is an excellent piece and well written and only if Christians could adopt this (not attitude) but way of life. I am a Christian and believe that your "not yet" is part of sanctification and cleaning process. Shalom Rabbi.
Posted By Louis Ferreira, Pretoria, South Africa

Posted: Feb 14, 2007
This is just wonderful! The timing for this message could not have been more perfect for me, and indeed is what I have been telling myself about Torah observance. Not yet -- but I hope some day.
Posted By Neil, Cherry Hill, NJ

Posted: Feb 13, 2007
Do not give up yet
This article really helped me in my current situation, when I was surfing on the net, I thought: "let me take a look at chabad.org.br" but i missed some characters and I stopped by here... A nice thing to happen because im in a critical momment of my life and I really needed this advice: "Not yet"...
Posted By Holyclan

Posted: Feb 12, 2007
Not yet.
That was me. I knew that Judaism had positivity to it and I was interested in Torah ideas and I had a feeling for it and I really had intentions to pursue it someday (like when I was 80). Well, thanks to G-d and some really great Rabbis it happened sooner than I expected. Now I have to spend the rest of my life being a better person. Shabbat and Kashrut is just the beginning.
Posted By Linda Haniford, Buffalo, NY

Posted: Feb 12, 2007
Not Yet
This topic was much needed in my life right now at this moment. If you ask me Are you Jewish, Not Yet but everyday I work on it

Thank you so much
Posted By Jeff Seger
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Posted: Feb 11, 2007
Thank you for the advice and the encouragement. It is hard for some of us who want it all now, when it is not possible or we don't know it all yet.
Posted By Chaya Rivka, CA



 


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