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Life's Passages
Don’t Women Count?

Safeguarding Our Inner Treasures

The Parshah of Bamidbar (Numbers 1:1–4:20) begins with a census of the Jewish people.

“. . . a head-count of every male according to the number of their names. From twenty years old and upwards, all who are fit to go out to the army in Israel, you shall count them by their legions . . .”

The simple reason for this census was to count those who would be called upon to go to war.

The masculine force in creation is outward-bound, while the feminine is inward-boundOn a deeper level, our sages explains that G‑d desired a census of the Jewish people because He treasures them.1

The chassidic masters explain that the counting of the Jewish people demonstrated the value of every single individual, how cherished each one is to G‑d. Each person was counted, irrespective of his level of observance, his aptitude or skills, his degree of learnedness, or whether he was a man of means or impoverished. Each individual was shown that he counted for no more and no less than one. Irrespective of external trappings, he was shown that G‑d treasures his essential value. Moreover, by accentuating his independent identity, he was empowered to respect his own individuality and remain true to himself.2

However, on this level, it becomes questionable why a large segment of the Jewish people was entirely excluded. Only the males were counted, and only those from twenty and upwards. Are some perhaps more equal than others? Was the contribution of the entire female population not cherished by G‑d?


The Kabbalists explain that the masculine force in creation is outward-bound, while the feminine is inward-bound. The spiritual service of man is to forge into the outside, foreign territory, to wage war against the negativity of our world. The spiritual role of the woman, by contrast, is to protect, nurture, discover and reveal the holiness implicit in creation.

We are in a male mode when we go outside of ourselves in order to impose a higher truth upon our world and ourselves. When we seek to nurture the divine power in what already is, and become sensitized to the potential of our inner essence, we are using our feminine dynamic.


The counting of the Jewish people began from the age of twenty and upwards, those who were mature enough physically, emotionally and spiritually to go out to wage war.3

What is “going out to war” in the spiritual sense?

Our task as human beings is to create a world that is a home for our Creator, compatible to His standards and morals, a holy world.

We can accomplish this through two modalities.

On the one hand, we bring more G‑dliness into our world by fighting against the darkness and evil around us. We vanquish the earthly negativity by aggressively assaulting it—through physical might, by literally waging war against the tyranny of cruel regimes, or through ideological battles against immoral ideals.

The other modality is to strengthen, cultivate and nurture the positive already inherent in G‑d’s creation. This mode is not waging a war or imposing an order, but rather uncovering and nurturing the positive and G‑dly aspects within our world, and thereby increasing and spreading holiness.

While the first mode means putting oneself in a position of danger by exposing oneself to the outside elements, the second involves protecting and guarding the precious inner elements of G‑dliness within our lives and our world.

Both of these approaches are necessary, and each role is integral to the Creator’s plan. There are times when we must wage an external battle, and there are times when we must safeguard our internal treasures.

G‑d provides extra empowerment to those who are exposed and vulnerableWhile the protection-and-discovery mode requires delicate skills and spiritual sensitivity, waging an external battle involves definite risk and exposure. To battle against outside forces, one must have not only adequate training, but also a strong sense of identity and a real appreciation for one’s uniqueness and worth as an individual.


The census in this Torah portion was for those individuals who were given the task of “going out” and “waging war.” The men fighting on the outside needed this infusion much more than the women whose focus was inward. When on the attack, fighting in alien environments against foreign values which constantly attempt to erode one’s ideals and vision, this reminder was needed to keep the warrior focused and on track instead of swallowed up by the surrounding norms.4

Perhaps this is the reason for why only the men were counted. G‑d provides extra empowerment to those who are exposed and vulnerable in waging battle against the negative forces of creation, not needing to provide this to the women, whose self-worth is constantly being validated through their role of safeguarding our inner treasures.

This is not to imply that the woman’s task is “easier” or requires less of them. On the contrary, their role was, and is, critical. But their challenges are different ones, and women don’t need this enforcement of their worth.

Their inner worth, which they guarded so preciously for themselves and for their families, was obvious to them and was never challenged.

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FOOTNOTES
1. Midrash Rabbah, Bamidbar 1:4; Rashi on Numbers 1:1.
2. The empowering effect of numbering is reflected in the halachic rule that “an entity which is counted can never be nullified” (Talmud, Beitzah 3b; Shulchan Aruch, Yoreh De’ah 110:1). Under certain circumstances, certain food items are “nullified” when mixed with a quantity sixty times their volume. For example, if some milk drops fall into a meat soup, the entire mixture becomes forbidden. If, however, the volume of the meat mixture is sixty times that of the milk, then the milk is considered nullified and nonexistent. However, an object that is sold solely by unit is considered “prominent” and cannot be nullified. An example of this is: if whole eggs of a non-kosher bird become mixed with kosher eggs, it is not batel b’rov—“nullified by the majority”—since eggs are sold by count (e.g., by the dozen) rather than by weight or volume.
3. See Ethics of the Fathers 5:22, which states: “At five years of age, the study of Scripture (should be commenced); at ten, the study of Mishnah; at thirteen, the mitzvot; at fifteen, the study of Talmud; at eighteen, marriage; at twenty, pursuit of livelihood . . .” Up until the age of twenty, the individual’s focus is primarily on himself and his own personal growth. Only at the age of twenty does he turn outwards and go out into the world, to make a living.
4. This is similar to the requirement for men to wear a yarmulke (skullcap) on their hands as a constant reminder of G‑d’s presence. Being the ones who assume this “outer” role, where their beliefs and ideology are undermined, men need the constant “reminder” about G‑d’s presence.

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Chana Weisberg is a writer, editor and lecturer. She authored several books, including her latest, Tending the Garden: The Unique Gifts of the Jewish Woman. She has served as the dean of several women’s educational institutes, and lectures internationally on issues relating to women, faith, relationships and the Jewish soul.

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Latest Comments:
Posted: May 25, 2011
Don't Women Count ?
Men are stronger and dominate the situation. What about obtaining a get ? Should not women have this option ?
Posted By Jack, Midland Park

Posted: May 13, 2010
In the blessing "Sheasani Kirtsono", we bless g-d for making us "in accordance with His Will"
This means that we as women are naturally closer to the spiritual aspect of the world. We are closer to embodying G-d's will, therefor we do not need to seek the "spiritual energy" in the same way that men do. We are already possessed of the spiritual energy, just by fulfilling our commandments. Praying alone brings us to the same spiritual heights that men need a minyan, and tallit and tefillin to attain! Men and women share the world to come, regardless of the different paths taken in our service of G-d in this world.
Posted By Rochel, Jerusalem, Israel

Posted: June 1, 2008
My service to Gd counts
Yes, but where is the spiritual nourishment to assist you in your service?

A man dovening with other men is receiving the group energy. When he gets an aliyah, that service gives him spiritual energy. Every service that he does gives him spiritual energy. He gets spiritually energized every day by his mitzvot.

The only thing that I do that gives me spiritual energy (I am past menopause) is when I bentsch licht. And it has to last me all week.

I really want to know. Yes, you can take pride in the service you do, but where do you get the spiritual energy to go on doing it?
Posted By Barbara

Posted: May 31, 2008
only a woman can perpetuate Jewish continuity
yes, all the above may be true - when looking at it very superficially. As a chassidic woman, learning the inner dimension, I know that we men & woman are created equal, yet different. Just as the heart and the head have very different, yet equally important functions, so do male & female.
I am very confident that my vote counts ---right where it belongs. My service to G-d counts -- the way He asked for it. My Divine Mission counts -- and it is the most important mission in Judaism. Only I can bring down a Jewish Soul; I, a Jewish woman, was entrusted with the most precious of all.
"The rest is commentary. "
Posted By Jewish Feminist!
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Posted: May 29, 2008
male and female
I think the counting of males in a census and the respect for women that should be evident and obvious are two different phenomena.

Someone slipped up in the wording of that sign, and it might indicate a need for sensitivity training.
Posted By Michael Davis, New York, NY

Posted: May 29, 2008
counting women
The difference between the count at the end of bamidbar and the count at its beginning, is that after Noä, Tirzeh, Malchah et. al. sttod up for their rights to inherit, at least some women (e.g. Serah, daughter of Asher) were enumerated. This suggests that when (and only when) women stand up and ask to be counted, will men recognize our voices. Since nothing in Torah is accident, I wonder about the proximity of Bamidbar, one of the few parschiot to ignore women all together---to the story of the Soto woman---maybe something is going on that we don't understand?
My take home message is that when and only when we want to be counted will we be counted.
Posted By Ronnie Frankel Blakeney, Bern, Switzerland

Posted: May 28, 2008
Leviim
Were the Leviim disqualified from being sworn to give evidence in court?

Does a man give thanks every morning for not being born a Levi?

Can a Levi divorce his wife or does he have to wait to be given a get?

Look at the facts. Women do not count in the eyes of Jewish law. All that talk of women being more spiritual is true, but that does not mean that women count.

What does a Jewish woman do to receive spiritual nourishment? Women are not even allowed to pray together in groups of women, even though praying as a group brings down much more Divine energy than praying alone. Even when there are many women, each woman dovens alone rather than in a group.
Posted By Henry

Posted: May 28, 2008
Thanks
This might also explin why the Leviim were not counted!
Posted By Anonymous

Posted: May 25, 2008
Two totally different comments
One: There was a sign in the Hasidic neighborhood in New York. It said, "Lecture Tuesday night. Everybody welcome. No women."

That is the botton line. When men talk to us, they pretend that we count. But the fact is, in their own minds, as the sign demonstrates, they do not consider women part of "everybody"--on the contrary, the sign makes it obvious that in the men's eyes, a woman is nobody. A bench on which he can exercise when he needs it, not a fellow-Jew. A woman who sees this sign had BETTER have a lot of self-esteem, or she will wind up with less than none! And do not try to explain this away. That sign tells us how the men really think when they are not trying to "explain" this truth. The explanation means that they ARE afraid to make us angry. It doesn't mean they respect us.

And the spiritual side of war is folly. We must ally ourselves with reality, making reality our friend and helper, not our enemy.

"What we resist, persists."
Posted By Stan

Posted: May 16, 2007
Thank you. I finally understand the difference between the masculine and femine modes.
This article also shows how important self esteem is for women.
Anyway, I`m glad that I got it finally!

Last weeks`Whatever Generation article was so terrific that is already being read by many down hre, and hopefully having its affect.
thanks again.
Posted By rochi shemtov, Uruguay



 


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