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Weekly Sermonette
The Child in the Pit


There is high drama in the Bible this week as we read the story of Joseph and his brothers. Technicolor dream coats, sibling rivalry, snake-infested pits and attempted fratricide dominate the Parshah proceedings.

When the brothers plot to actually kill Joseph, Reuben, the eldest, makes a valiant effort to save Joseph’s life, and suggests that instead they throw him into a pit. That would be sufficient to teach him a lesson, and no blood need be shed. In fact, according to Rashi, the Torah itself testifies that Reuben’s intention was to save Joseph from his brothers and bring him back to their father.

But destiny had a different plan.

While Reuben was away, the brothers sold Joseph into slavery. When he returns to rescue him, the boy is gone and he rends his garments in grief.

But where was Reuben when the sale took place? Why wasn’t he there with his brothers at the time? Where did he suddenly disappear?

Rashi gives two possible explanations: 1) It was his turn to go and serve his aged father. The brothers had a roster, and Reuben’s time had come, so he was back at the ranch. 2) Reuben was busy doing teshuvah (repentance), with sackcloth and fasting, for the sin of interfering with his father’s marital life (as per Genesis 35:22).

I remember hearing the Lubavitcher Rebbe ask: According to the second opinion, Reuben left Joseph in the pit to go and busy himself with “sackcloth and fasting,” i.e. his own repentance for his sins. So let’s take a look and see what happens as a result. Reuben is absent, so Joseph is sold into slavery and taken down to Egypt. There he is imprisoned on false charges and, one day, rises to sudden prominence by successfully interpreting Pharaoh’s dreams. He becomes viceroy of Egypt, then meets his long-lost brothers when they come searching for food during the famine. After revealing his true identity, he brings his father Jacob and the entire family down to Egypt, where he supports and sustains them.

And that is precisely how the Jews became slaves in Egypt. It all started with Joseph being taken from the pit and sold to the Egyptians. Why? Because Reuben decided to be busy doing teshuvah! I remember the Rebbe thundering, “The whole Egyptian exile can be traced to Reuben’s ill-timed teshuvah! When a young Jewish boy is languishing in the pit, this is not the time to be worrying about your own spiritual state. That is the time to save a Jewish child!”

Of course, teshuvah is a wonderful mitzvah. In a way, it is the greatest mitzvah of all, because it can repair the damage done by failing to observe all other mitzvahs. And yet, there is a time to do teshuvah and a time to save lives. And when a life is in danger, even teshuvah really must wait.

The analogy of the Jewish child in the pit resonates powerfully today. It is about saving lives not only physically, but also spiritually. How many millions of Jewish children are at risk spiritually? And how many Jews, indeed how many rabbis, are preoccupied with their own personal spiritual upliftment and ignore the plight of young people “in the pits”?

It is a sobering thought, and one that demands a response.

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Rabbi Yossy Goldman was born in Brooklyn, New York, to a distinguished Chabad family. In 1976 he was sent by the Lubavitcher Rebbe, of righteous memory, as a Chabad-Lubavitch emissary to serve the Jewish community of Johannesburg, South Africa. He is Senior Rabbi of the Sydenham Highlands North Shul since 1986, president of the South African Rabbinical Association, and a frequent contributor to Chabad.org.

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Posted: Nov 28, 2007
Relevance in 2007 and beyond....
Rabbi Yossy is spot on about the plight of our kids today. Their minds are being invaded by the media - ipods, myspace, youtube and heaps of other negatives. Our spiritual leaders are suffering from selective deafness - they are not hearing the cries for help to be taken back to all things good. It seems they have their own personal agendas.
Posted By Ze'ev Yosef Ben Avraham, Perth, Western Australia

Posted: Dec 12, 2006
Rabbi Goldman, in this sermonette, has pointed out one of the most important qualities a person can have: to be able to know when to do something, and when not to do something.
If we are trying to raise ourselves spiritually, while people's lives (spiritual and/or physical) are in danger, we are affecting the world in a negative way. G-d put us on earth to please Him. When we ignore the cries of His children, we are not just ignoring the cries of one person, we are ignoring the cries of all of his/her descendants.
Teshuvah IS important, but if we focus only on it, we are ignoring the other commands of the Torah. Remember that, "Everything has its season, and there is a time for everything under the heaven" (Kohelet/Ecclesiastes 3:1).
Posted By Anonymous

Posted: Jan 15, 2006
ladders!
I tend to agree with Howard Chudler when he says after praying to God about helping your brother out of a pit, look around, you will probably find that He has provided a "ladder" for you. You just have to keep your eyes open for it!
Posted By Kevin Hutchinson, lehigh, fl/usa

Posted: Dec 22, 2005
The Rebbe's Opinion on "Pits"
See www.chabad.org/article.asp?aid=323924 -- the Rebbe tells his followers how not to fall into the pits while trying to get the boy out
Posted By Jane Newman, Millburn, NJ

Posted: Dec 22, 2005
Joseph's body, not soul, was in danger.
A few points.
1. The rebbe's words convey the importance of helping someone even with 'mundane' things like money etc, that are not directly related to the soul. (Help a tzadik too, why only someone that is far.)
2. In defense of Jews and rebbes that are not so involved with outreach: a) They are constantly helping people and busy with others. b)They do not feel they have the 'shoulders' like the rebbe to risk 'going to the pits'. This is not so simple.
Case in point. Reb Shloime Carlbach zt"l went to the deepest pits to find Joseph's and Moishe's and Yankele's, yet even the rebbe said (I think he said) that reb Shloime went a bit too far. The rebbe said so, to ensure that his chasiddim do not attempt to copy him, for it is too dangerous spirtually.
Outreach has many levels, and different rebes will risk a certain level for his people based on their qualifications.
Posted By nat, Brooklyn, NY

Posted: Dec 22, 2005
parshah
Thanks very much for showing us, that in our present generation, the way to correct the world is by caring for the others. I was told: "become like an onion, which is only peels. Who cares? As long as you are caring for others!"
The holy rebbe told us to stand for hours on the sidewalk with tefillin for others. Or go to Nepal and make the Seider for the man who is in need of yiddishkeit. And don't worry about your own soul. It will grow also." I hope that many people will understand that Chabad is not a movement. It is yiddishkeit.
Posted By Moshe joseph, Jerusalem, Israel

Posted: Dec 21, 2005
A Beautiful Example
Chabad Centers worldwide in the past year have given us a beautiful example of exactly what the Rebbe was talking about. Chabad of Thailand worked nonstop after the Tsunami to extend relief efforts and aid to those affected. Rabbi Yossi Nemes of Chabad of New Orleans offered the safety of his hurricane proof house, along with water and food, to two visitors whom he had never met before. Chabad volunteers in Florida walked up many flights of stairs to bring hot meals to senior citizens stranded without elevator service on upper floors of large apartment buildings.
If fellow human beings are in trouble, Chassidei Chabad show up with a Sefer Tehillim [book od Psalms] in one hand - and a warm blanket in the other hand. Chabad doesn't just moan and groan and say, "Oh, that's too bad;" they spring to action whenever and wherever help is most needed. They truly carry out the mission of the Rebbe - and the work of G-d.
Posted By Anonymous, Far Rockaway, NY

Posted: Dec 21, 2005
Re: Article
Wow.
Posted By Linda Haniford, Buffalo, NY
via jerusalemchabad.com

Posted: Dec 21, 2005
Helping the other is a way of teshuvah, because through that one reveals the unity of G-d. And what other purpose in self-development can there be? As the Alter Rebbe taught, the closer you come to Him, the more you experience that He wants you to be here.
In the HaYom Yom of Kislev 14 it's partially explained.
Another example of this principle are the well known stories of the Alter Rebbe, where he sacrificed his holy service on Yom Kippur for helping a mother with her newborn baby or where he told his studying son, who didn't hear the crying of his baby, that no matter what, one has to hear the cry of a child and care for it...
Posted By Daniel , Munich, Germany

Posted: Dec 20, 2005
Rueben's response
Rueben-

You certainly have a point... but maybe that begs another question... would you be inferring that all mitzvot are equal?

Personally... I see some actions as far more important than others... and I see the mitzvot towards man as primary... just as I do not view as sin as equal... some are probably unforgivable.. others...eh..not so bad.

But your point is well taken
Posted By Howard Chudler, brea, ca



 


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