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Weekly Sermonette
Help Yourself


"G-d helps those who help themselves"

Is this statement heresy? Does it deny the hand of G-d in our successes? I recall a conversation with a self-proclaimed atheist who used the expression very cynically, suggesting that his considerable achievements were entirely his own and that G-d had nothing to do with it.

I beg to differ. To my mind, "G-d helps those who help themselves" is a perfectly religious statement. What it means is absolutely consistent with traditional Jewish thinking. G-d does indeed help us to accomplish things, but He requires us to help ourselves first. If we just sit back and wait for miracles to happen, we may be disappointed.

"G-d will bless you in all that you do," (Deuteronomy 15, 18) makes it very clear. Our blessings come from G-d, but we must do. Of course, we believe in miracles--but we mustn't rely on them. The combination of our own hard work and efforts coupled with G-d's blessing is the ideal road to success.

The classic analogy is the farmer. He can plough and plant, sow and shvitz from today until tomorrow but if the rains don't come nothing will grow. Conversely, all the rains in the world will not cause anything to grow if the farmer hasn't planted first. After the farmer has done his work and the rains come from above, there will be a plentiful crop. And it's the same story whether we are farmers or shopkeepers, professionals or artisans, employers or employees.

There are religious ideologies that frown upon medical intervention when someone is ill. They see it as a lack of faith in the great Healer of all Flesh. In fact, right now in my own community, there is a court case going on because a hospital gave a blood transfusion to a child who was critically ill, but it was against the wishes of the parents who objected on the grounds of their religious beliefs. Judaism maintains that while G-d is indeed the Supreme Healer, He chooses to work through the efforts of trustworthy medical practitioners.

This week's Parshah tells of Isaac taking Rebecca as his wife. "And Isaac brought her to the tent of Sarah his mother." Rashi, quoting the Midrash, explains this to mean more than the obvious. When she entered the tent, it was as if she was Sarah, Isaac's mother. Because Sarah was of such saintly character, she was granted three special miracles. Her Shabbat candles burned the entire week, her dough was particularly blessed, and a heavenly cloud attached itself to her tent. When Sarah died, these blessings disappeared. When Rebecca arrived on the scene, they resumed immediately. In fact, this was a clear sign to Isaac that Rebecca was indeed his soul mate and that the shidduch was made in Heaven.

Each of those three miracles, however, required some form of human input first. A candle and fire had to be found, the dough had to be prepared and a tent had to be pitched before G-d would intervene and make those miracles happen. In other words, He does help us but we must help ourselves first.

It's a little like the fellow who would make a fervent prayer to G-d every week that he win the lottery. After many months and no jackpot in sight, he lost his faith and patience. In anguished disappointment, he vented his frustration with the Almighty. "Oh, G-d! For months I've been praying to you. Why haven't you helped me win the lottery all this time?" Whereupon a heavenly voice was heard saying, "Because you haven't bought a ticket, dummy!"

I wish it were that simple to win lotteries. But the fact is that it is the same in all our endeavors. G-d helps those who help themselves. May we all do our part. Please G-d, He will do His.

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Rabbi Yossy Goldman was born in Brooklyn, New York, to a distinguished Chabad family. In 1976 he was sent by the Lubavitcher Rebbe, of righteous memory, as a Chabad-Lubavitch emissary to serve the Jewish community of Johannesburg, South Africa. He is Senior Rabbi of the Sydenham Highlands North Shul since 1986, president of the South African Rabbinical Association, and a frequent contributor to Chabad.org.

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Posted: Nov 10, 2009
Todah
I love this article. I can't speak for anyone other than myself, but tonight I come bearing the guilt of self-sabotage, the bitterness of being hurt by folks who exhibited behaviors that I can only say resemble myself if I was to be completely honest with myself... but it all still hurts. I don't want to become that person that cries foul at G-d...and expect Him to just fix it while I sit idly by. But you said it all at the end when you said in effect, if you want to win the lottery, you gotta buy a ticket. And every breath is another opportunity to 'buy a ticket'. I'm inhaling...and I'm buying my ticket. Thanks for the insight and encouragement.
Posted By Anonymous

Posted: Dec 6, 2005
for michal
dear michal,
i've been away so apologies for the delay in responding to your very pertinent question. it really is a tough one and needs much discussion to do any justice. you really should discuss it with a qualified rabbi near you. also try this very website for more info on the theme of bitachon (trust). there is also a new book, "In Good Hands" published by Sichos in English with 100 letters and talks by the Rebbe on this subject. you may well find answers there. G-d bless you to find the true answer.
Posted By rabbi yossy goldman, johannesburg, s africa
via mychabad.org

Posted: Nov 25, 2005
helping yourself
Response to Michael: I humbly suggest that you don't give up your prayers. While you pray and work and wait for what you need, reach out to a friend.....
Posted By Anonymous

Posted: Nov 24, 2005
chizuk
We are out here and living for encouragement such as the words in this piece you wrote. Thank you for helping us grow on the Chassidus's words!
Posted By Anonymous, bklyn, ny

Posted: Nov 22, 2005
The Rebbe said,
I over heard my Rabbi say one time that it is people working together that miracles are born.
Posted By Reuven, Sarasota, Florida

Posted: Nov 22, 2005
question about
I agree with all you wrote- but what does the farmer do if he prays and works and the rain dosn't seem to come? what if one feels he did all he could but he despratly needs help which he is not getting? how far does one have to go with "hishtadlot" (making an effort)? there will always be more that can be done by us, so when is it time to depend totally on G-d?
Posted By michal, jerusalem, israel



 


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