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Weekly Sermonette
Nazirites and Nunneries


The mightiest man in the Bible was, of course, Samson. He took on the most savage of beasts and leveled a stadium with his bare hands. In the end, Samson was undone by a haircut—Delilah cut his hair and he lost his strength. Why should such an innocuous event have sapped his strength? The answer is that Samson was a nazirite. And as we read in this week’s Torah portion, the sacred vow of the nazirite precludes him from cutting his hair, coming into contact with the dead, and drinking wine.

At the end of a person’s nazirite period, there were certain atonement offerings he needed to bring to the Temple. The Talmud asks: why should a nazirite, who essentially has taken upon himself voluntary prohibitions beyond the letter of the law, be required to seek atonement? What sin did he commit? One Talmudic opinion suggests that the fact that he denied himself the pleasure of drinking wine is considered sinful.

Now the question is: why is it wrong to deny oneself anything? Just because the Creator allows us to enjoy the fruit of the vine, is it wrong to decline? Will I really be held accountable for every product that bears a kosher certification which I choose to do without? Just because a popular ice cream was recently approved by the kashrut authorities, am I a sinner for sticking to sorbet? And if I haven’t yet made it to that fancy kosher restaurant in Manhattan, am I desperately in need of some atonement?

The answer, it would appear, has more to do with attitude than with blatant iniquity. What is the right way to live? What should be our approach to G‑d’s creation and the material world? Do we need to divorce ourselves from society in order to be holy? Should we reject anything that isn’t wholly spiritual because we fear it may interfere with our piety?

There are ideologies which preach celibacy and revere those who sequester themselves from the daily grind of worldly activity. They see the body as unclean, and marriage as a less-than-ideal concession to human frailty. Then there are some who climb mountains to escape to the spiritual realms. The heavens are far more blissful and beautiful than the crass street corners and alleyways of city life.

Judaism sees it differently. We follow neither rejectionist nor escapist theologies. We embrace and engage G‑d’s world. Of course, there are clear guidelines, even rules and regulations. But within the Torah framework we should work with the Almighty’s universe. “In the beginning G‑d created heaven and earth.” Earthiness, too, is part of His vast, eternal plan. That plan is that earthly beings, men and women, should invest their time, energy, wealth and wisdom to infuse the material realm with G‑dliness.

Every mitzvah we do achieves just that. We take the physical and transform it to the spiritual, not by breaking it or running away from it, but by confronting it and molding it into something sacred and purposeful.

“Jews have no nunneries,” goes the proverb. A yeshivah is meant to be not a monastery, but a school which will teach and train students to create spiritual value within the material world. So the nazirite, who because of his own moral weakness found it necessary to distance himself from that which the Creator permitted us, is somewhat sinful after all. And his attitude does indeed require some atonement.

Judaism calls upon us to live a higher, otherworldly life within this world. Rather than allowing the emptiness of a society to bring us down, we are challenged to assertively insist on changing our society for the better.

By all means, drink the wine, but make sure you make kiddush and say “L’Chaim!”

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Posted: Sep 9, 2011
This article denies Torah. AGREED
The Rambam in his work, Yad Hazaka Laws of Nazirut 2:20 (ם”רמב בספרו יד החזקה הלכות נזירות פרק ב הלכה כ) brings: “Nazirut has a stance at the time existence of the Temple, and at the time when the Temple is not there. Because of that, one who gives vow of Nazirut in our time becomes an eternal Nazir, since we do not have the Temple in order to bring sacrifices in the completion of the vow”. Meaning, the one who decides to give a vow of Nazirut in our time, understands that he does not have any other choice but to give the vow eternally.

Rabbi Moshe from Kotzi in his book Samag Negative Commandment Mitzva 250 (רבי משה מקוצי בספרו סמ"ג חלק לא תעשה מצווה ר''ן) says: “We learn from the Talmud, in the fourth chapter, book of Nazir, that a father can give a vow of Nazir for his son, not concerning the fact that his son did not reach the needed age. But a mother cannot give a vow of Nazir for her son. This website does not allow me to rite more.
Posted By NaTaN, Brooklyn, NY

Posted: June 9, 2011
Nazarite
Samson...what a guy.
Yet he killed...he was associated with death.
How could he do that and still be Nazarite?
He associated with foreign women, and did not seem interested in a Jewish wife as his parents wanted. Could it be that the cutting of his hair was the final blow, not the only blow?
Posted By Anonymous, Prescott, AR

Posted: June 7, 2011
Being afar.
Only when one is afar from sins,he/she can understand what was the sin they commited and which is the correct way to follow from now.

What must be holy to G-d is the very recognition by Men that the path was wrong and the very will to correct it,and once the sin is recognized and cleaned and cleared,he/she must go back to "regular"offerings,more aggrandized now, before G-d and before him/herself.
Posted By Carmen

Posted: June 4, 2011
To:Anonymous in Orlando
Im sorry to have to correct you, however I grew up Catholic (Converted to Judaism 5 years ago) and I can tell you that the Catholic teachings on marital relations is that it is a deed that is sinful, however it must be taken on as a duty (female prospective). In Judaism, we are not taught that to abstain from this union is unnatural and are taught ways to make it holy and beautiful.

As far as the Catholic church is concerned, we have a catholic school here in my town whose mascot is the Crusader...riding a horse with a cross... someone should enlighten them about the papal decree in which you cited. Maybe you would consider sending them an email???
Posted By anonymous in New Orleans, new Orleans, LA
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Posted: June 4, 2011
celibacy
Surely Judaism doesn't 'enforce' celibacy, it simply requires it. Where are the police who will 'enforce' it? Every single Jew is required to keep celibate. This is not 'enforced', rather it is observed by the faithful. There is a big difference.
Posted By Paul Westerink, Kalgoorlie, Australia

Posted: June 3, 2011
to celibacy
Halacha (Shulchan Aruch etc..), allows for non-marital committed relationships, as short or long-lived as they may be, provided proprieties are observed.

Bet Dins facilitate such a union, following the guidelines of Halacha.

Such a union is also hailed by Sages as the performance of a mitzvah, be it a child-bearing union or not.

Some people have circumstances that inhibit conventional marriage either temporarily or permanently, some prefer to develop a relationship privately before making a public commitment. Yet whether need or want, Torah has the answer. It is both permissible and advisable.

Provided*:
A pledge of union established with a Rabbi.
Purity is maintained.
In the event of separation, 90 days of celibacy is maintained.
*other restrictions may apply

Consult your local Orthodox Rabbi.

While this may or may not broaden your prospects in your search for a companion, may it serve any and all who find themselves limited by more conventional approaches.

-Blessings & Success
Posted By Uri, New York

Posted: June 2, 2011
This article denies Torah.
And, I can not undestand why,but even Talmud denies Chumash in this sense.

If there is almost a whole chapter about the rules of a Nazirite,who are us to deny that?

I think that many of us have so much sins,that the humbleness to become a Nazirite( within the possibilities without the Temple) for a certain period ,would be of great help.

As I understand,the Nazirites were humble men who recognized their greater sins and wished to clean themselves for G-d.

It is an example to be emulated ,in my opinion.
Posted By Carmen

Posted: June 2, 2011
Moses Seperated from his Wife
If celibacy is not good, why did Moses seperate from his wife in order to be on call for prophecy?
And, why is someone who has been physically intimate without going to Mikva afterwards precluded from prophecy and the Temple?
Posted By dave, a

Posted: May 14, 2010
fantastic
Thank you so much for all your articles, I think every single one is absolutely fantastic.
Posted By Big fan, cedarhurst, ny

Posted: Apr 21, 2010
celibacy
There are times when Judaism insists upon and enforces celibacy, even to the point where it could become someone's permanent experience for their entire life. I became a widow recently, and at my age, with the amount of children I have, may never find a husband again. In this case, Judaism enforces celibacy upon me. (Please G-d I will find a husband in the future).

But I think it is completely wrong to say that Judaism outright rejects the ideal of celibacy for certain Jewish individuals, when I am forced to embrace the ideal of celibacy into my life, and potentially have to experience it as a permanent fixture in my life, G-d forbid.
Posted By Anonymous, New York



 


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