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Weekly Sermonette
A Ladder to Heaven


So what's the best way to get to heaven? Walk across a busy highway? Perform some amazing act of faith? Save a thousand lives? Well, a pretty good answer may be found in this week's Parshah.

We read the story of Jacob's dream and the famous ladder with its feet on the ground and head in the heavens. "And behold the angels of G-d were ascending and descending on it."

Let me ask you what they might call in Yiddish, a klotz kashe (simplistic question). Do angels need a ladder? Everyone knows angels have wings, not feet. So, if you have wings, why would you need a ladder?

There is a beautiful message here.

In climbing heavenward one does not necessarily need wings. Dispense with the dramatic. Forget about fancy leaps and bounds. There is a ladder, a spiritual route clearly mapped out for us; a route that needs to be traversed step-by-step, one rung at a time. The pathway to Heaven is gradual, methodical and eminently manageable.

Many people are discouraged from even beginning a spiritual journey because they think it needs that huge leap of faith. They cannot see themselves reaching a degree of religious commitment which to them seems otherworldly. And yet, with the gradual step-by-step approach, one finds that the journey can be embarked upon and that the destination aspired to is actually not in outer space.

When I was growing up in Brooklyn, I would pass a very big building on my way to school every morning. It was the King's County Savings Bank. All these years later I still remember the Chinese proverb that was engraved over the large portals at the entrance to the bank. "A journey of a thousand miles begins with but a single step." Now that's not only Chinese wisdom; we Jews agree. And it's not limited to starting a savings plan. It is a simple yet powerful idea that it need not be "all or nothing."

What do you think is a rabbi's fantasy? A guy walking into my office and saying, "Rabbi, I want to become 'frum' (fully observant), now tell me what I must do"? Is that what I lie awake dreaming of? And if it did happen, do you think I would throw the book at him and insist he did every single mitzvah from that moment on? Never! Why not? Because a commitment like that is usually here today and gone tomorrow. Like the popular saying goes, "Easy come, easy go." I'm afraid I haven't had such wonderful experiences with the "instant Jew" types. The correct and most successful method of achieving our Jewish objectives is the slow and steady approach. Gradual, yet consistent. As soon as one has become comfortable with one mitzvah, it is time to start on the next, and so on and so forth. Then, through constant growth, slowly but surely we become more knowledgeable, committed, fulfilled and happy in our faith.

When my father was in yeshiva, his teacher once asked the following question: "If two people are on a ladder, one at the top and one on the bottom, who is higher?" The class thought it was a pretty dumb question -- until the wise teacher explained that they were not really capable of judging who was higher or lower until they first ascertained in which direction each was headed.

If the fellow on top was going down, but the guy on the bottom was going up, then conceptually, the one on the bottom was actually higher.

And so my friends, it doesn't really matter what your starting point is or where you are at on the ladder of religious life. As long as you are moving in the right direction, as long as you are going up, you will, please G-d, succeed in climbing the heavenly heights.

Wishing you a safe and successful journey.

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Rabbi Yossy Goldman was born in Brooklyn, New York, to a distinguished Chabad family. In 1976 he was sent by the Lubavitcher Rebbe, of righteous memory, as a Chabad-Lubavitch emissary to serve the Jewish community of Johannesburg, South Africa. He is Senior Rabbi of the Sydenham Highlands North Shul since 1986, president of the South African Rabbinical Association, and a frequent contributor to Chabad.org.

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Posted: Dec 4, 2011
Everything in Life is Step by Step
Thank you for the wonderful validation of geirim, such as myself, who test the waters of observant Judaism one mitzvah at a time rather than diving into the whole "megillah" and ending up feeling overwhelmed and like failures if we're not dotting all the i's and crossing all the t's from the get-go of our conversions. I have been scrutinized in shul at times for the way I daven or my family observes. Perhaps these fellow Jews mean well, but they should consider that maybe this Jew is finding his way one step at a time. Effort rather than omission should be privileged in this process. It's hard and slow to master so many new mitzvot and minhagim, but the rewards of mastery last a lifetime.
Posted By Anonymous, New York

Posted: Nov 11, 2010
Rabbi,
That was wonderful...thank you for inspiring my day
Posted By Edie
via jewishcenter.info

Posted: Nov 7, 2010
Thank you.
Very nice article.
Posted By Mr. Ted Bundy

Posted: Nov 26, 2009
excellent advice
Simple formula, but it sure takes perseverance ! It's relative as you point out with the two people on opposite ends of the ladder. Depends on direction alright, or on momentum as well. The one on the bottom, may be working harder and will overcome the one on top who may have had an earlier start. Jacob came out second but was predestined to rule the elder Eisav. In other words context is important. It is also important not to look at others, and become jaded if you are serious about your own journey. As we are told here, slow and steady is the right direction.
Thanks again for this inspiration.
Posted By Anonymous

Posted: Nov 24, 2009
ladder for angels?
So why was there a ladder if it was angels with wings climbing it? Angels don't develop and make progress like humans do... they don't need a ladder!
Posted By Anonymous

Posted: Dec 4, 2008
Wonderful Commentary
I'm in the same boat as Aisling. I started on the path of becoming more observant a couple of years ago and it's not easy making up for more than 35 years of non-observance. Now I'm like a sponge trying to absorb and practice everything I learn. It's difficult, but rewarding and enjoyable. The more I learn the happier I become. Your analogy really resonated with my journey. Thank you!
Posted By Rich Cacace, Gulf Breeze, FL

Posted: Dec 4, 2008
So Appropriate for the Moment
I was thinking about this subject just this morning-the issue of becoming more observant, but in a manner that will "take" for the long haul. I really want to move into the direction of more observance because I feel a need for that deeper connection in my life, both to G-d and to the Jewish people as a whole. I feel that it's the right thing to do, but it can be overwhelming. A Rabbi recommended to me just what this article states-take small steps rather than trying to do everything all at once. Gradually, practices that used to feel a bit odd will become more natural. The ladder seems to indicate a slow process requiring exertion, taking little steps rather than just flying upward quickly. I pray for the strength to keep climbing!!! Thank you for this peice.
Posted By Aisling LaBauve, Ft. Lauderdale, FL/USA

Posted: Nov 30, 2008
chumash report
THIS IS GREAT! i used it for my chumash report on the ladder in Yaakov's dream...
Posted By E. S., PITTSBURGH, PA

Posted: Nov 30, 2006
Jacobs Ladder
I am a junior congregation teacher, and I am to discuss the parsha this week with the parents of my gimel class. It was so nicely written, so as of today i have no fear of expressing my feelings... in your words..
Thank you
Posted By osnat Edrich, Long Beach, ny

Posted: Dec 5, 2005
Ladder
Ah..so many comments I could make.

In psychology they talk of "systematic approximations"...kind of like learning to swim. Start by holding on to the side and kicking your feet...don't dive out into the middle of the ocean.

To me...sudden conversions are a strong influence of some strains of Christianity...the Revalation, the salvation experience...we probably have equivalents in Judaism.

However, the rabbi is quite correct, there is the enthusiasm of the fresh convert, in many things...then the old "regression towards the mean" i.e. back to where we were. Oh I have seen this many times and in many forms. One must take steps, weather setbacks, get back up and take another step, get knocked down and then go again. Like the sermon on free will, life will get you sometimes, but it is up to us to get up, help others up and take another step.
Posted By Howard Chudler, Brea, USA



 


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