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Why Was Miriam Punished So Harshly?

Why Was Miriam Punished So Harshly?

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Question:

I’ve been reading the biblical story where Miriam speaks ill about her brother Moses,1 and her punish­ment seems completely dispro­portionate to her “crime.” She is afflicted with leprosy, and sent out of the camp for seven full days.2 All this for expressing concern about her brother’s marriage?

I have always considered Miriam an example of strength and piety. Without her, Moses would never have been born, and surely would not have survived in the Nile. The way I see it, she spoke to Aaron only out of concern for her brother and his wife, Tzipporah. For this she was punished so harshly?

Answer:

First, let’s consider what we know about Miriam:

As a young girl in Egypt, she midwifed alongside her mother Yocheved. Together they defied Pharaoh’s decree that all Jewish baby boys must be killed at birth.3 We also know that when Pharaoh demanded that all baby boys be drowned, Miriam’s father, Amram, decided to separate from his wife so that they would have no more children. Since he was a leader of the Jewish people, many followed his example. Miriam accused her father, “You are worse than Pharaoh! Pharaoh’s decree is against the boys; you are effectively causing that there are no Jewish girls also!” Through her urging Amram remarried his wife, and Moses was born.4

When her mother placed Moses in a basket on the Nile, it was Miriam who hid in the reeds and waited to see what would happen (she knew that this child was the prophesied redeemer, and that somehow he would be saved), and it was she who arranged that he be nursed by his own mother.5

Later, after the Exodus and the splitting of the Red Sea, Miriam led all the women and girls in song and dance.6 Together with Moses and Aaron, she led the Jewish people for the forty years they were in the desert.7 During this time, the Jews were provided with water in her merit.8

The Talmud teaches that like her two brothers, Miriam died through “the kiss of death” from G‑d. Her soul was so elevated that the angel of death had no power over it.9

Miriam’s Sin

Chana Weisberg puts Miriam’s wrongdoing in a different perspective in her article Lighting Up:

Throughout her life, the focus and essence of Miriam’s life was a determined objective of increasing family unity and harmony. This drive was part of her quintessential self and her path of divine service.

When Miriam witnessed her younger brother willfully separating from his wife, she could not stand by, but voiced her protest, to correct what to her was a reprehensible situation.

Moses differed from all other prophets in that he had to be ready to hear G‑d’s communication at any moment. He therefore had to be ritually pure at all times, meaning he had to refrain from marital relations with his wife, Tzipporah.

Miriam learned of Moses’ conduct by a chance remark of Tzipporah’s. Not realizing that G‑d had instructed Moses to do so, and feeling it was unjustifiable, Miriam criticized Moses to his older brother, Aaron, in the hope of rectifying the situation. Since both Aaron and Miriam were also prophets, but were not required to withdraw from normal family life, in their understanding neither was Moses so required.10

Miriam’s intentions were pure and upright, but she erred in her basic evaluation of Moses. Moses . . . was a unique individual, a prophet like no other. Being such a supreme prophet, standing head and shoulders above others, he was not to be judged by the same yardstick and the same parameters as any other individual—even another prophet as great as Miriam or Aaron.

Miriam was punished for her criticism, despite her proper intentions.

The Great Question

Miriam meant well. She felt that Moses’ behavior was arrogant, and might serve as a poor example for others to follow. She certainly did not intend to slander him! Moreover, she did not even confront Moses directly, but spoke to Aaron, who she felt could better address the situation.

So, why was she punished so harshly?

Because she was Miriam.

As a leader of the Jewish nation, even if she felt uncomfortable broaching the subject with Moses, it was her obligation to do so. Interestingly, this was the one time when Miriam did not speak up fearlessly when she perceived an injustice. The one time she goes to Aaron instead of confronting Moses directly is the one time she fails. And she gets called out on it by G‑d, as if to say, “From you I expect nothing less than total fearlessness.”

Remembering the Sin

In the daily morning prayer we read a paragraph called “Six Remembrances,” which includes:

Remember what the L‑rd your G‑d did to Miriam on the way, as you came out of Egypt.11

Why does this rank among the top six things we’re supposed to consciously remember daily?

Interestingly, we are instructed to remember “what G‑d did to Miriam” and not “what Miriam did.” What Miriam did was so innocuous that it is difficult to even call it a sin!

So why was she punished so severely? To teach us that G‑d does not dispense one-size-fits-all justice. Every individual is judged uniquely according to his or her abilities and potential. And for someone like Miriam, this behavior (which in an average person might be considered meritorious!) is considered sinful.

Consider the way a small stain may not even be noticeable on a plaid shirt, but will stand out sharply on a white shirt. Miriam is the white shirt. A wrongdoing so slight it might not be noticed in another, stands out sharply against her pristine background.

So perhaps the thrust of this Remembrance is: Remember that G‑d dispenses justice to all; even the greatest and holiest can’t “get away” with doing wrong. And remember that G‑d’s justice is custom-tailored to each individual, based on who the person is and what G‑d expects from him or her.

FOOTNOTES
1.

Numbers 12:1ff.

2.

Ibid. 12:10–15.

3.

See commentary of Rabbi Shlomo Yitzchaki (Rashi) to Exodus 1:15.

4.

Talmud, Sotah 12a.

5.

Shemot Rabbah 1:22.

6.

Exodus 15:20–21.

7.

See Yalkut Shimoni, Ki Teitzei 937, and Targum to Micah 6:4.

8.

Talmud, Taanit 9a.

9.

Ibid., Bava Batra 17a.

10.

Sifrei, Behaalotecha 99.

11.

Deuteronomy 24:9.

Chaya Sarah Silberberg serves as the rebbetzin of the Bais Chabad Torah Center in West Bloomfield, Michigan, since 1975. She also counsels, lectures, writes, and responds for Chabad.org’s Ask the Rabbi service.
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March 25, 2014
The very fact that Miriam's "punishment" of leprosy (usually a fatal disease) lasted a mere week is reason to believe that G-d sympathized with her throughout, and gave her a mere slap on the hand. She was indisputably a first-class biblical heroine.
Richard
Phila. Pa.
March 25, 2014
she knew, she did not know.
I don't believe her criticism was justified because of what she did not know. There is more than one way of knowing. There is knowing these facts which Miriam did not know like you say R. (Phila). But she had other knowledge to "Pass the test that Hashem set up for her" . She had the knowledge that Moshe alone was spoken to by Hashem while in an awakened totally alert state. She knew he was distinguished in that way and it should have made her pause and reevaluate. What she knew could have overpowered what she did not know.. Easy to say, not easy to live by.
nice to be discussing this with you.
MK
March 23, 2014
Miriam's Crime and Punishment
So, in effect, Miriam's criticism was entirely justifiable. How was she to know that her brother, Moses, was commanded by G-d himself, to leave his wife, and lead the entire tribe of Jews...into and across the desert?. Even G-d Himself only gave her a slap on the wrist, by giving her leprosy for one week!! It's a fatal disease!)
R
Phila.
March 19, 2014
This is one of those times when one has to believe that the punishment far outweighs the "crime", unless there is more to the story than we know, which may not be an unreasonable explanation. Miriam is a great woman among women of the world to this day, for both Jewish and non-Jewish women and men.. She retains her ability as a prophetess and is an example to follow. (We should all be half as great as Miriam was in our lives!!)
RICHARD
March 18, 2014
A blessing
Miriam was loved by G-D and Israel.I see where she erred, she should have talked to Moses first.This does show the importance of Miriam even in her time apart, she was apart from HaShem.She came out better than before.She is beloved even today.
Hadassah
March 13, 2014
Wow that was insightful, thank you!! I appreciate your view of the 'custom-tailoring', I always believed that and see that in the Tanach, but it's hard for a lot of people to believe it. :)
Karen (a gentile who loves hebrews)
MD
December 2, 2013
Miriam
There is a duality here that moves me very much. It shows Hashems love for Miriam. Yes she is punished and exiled out of the camp for 7 days( ?) However the whole nation is waiting for her. For her to heal, to work thru her correction, to emerge. That waiting indicates her importance , her preciousness and gives her much honor to her at a time that she is embarrassed. What is our current relationship to Mashiach if not waiting? the longer I am willing to wait, the more indispensible is the object of my waiting. Hashem Himself ordained this waiting for Miriam.
MK
new york
November 30, 2013
I agree, but have a question. I think all or most people innately believe that G-d judges and tailors it to the individual, their position, talents, potential, deeds, etc. But I do have a question. Average folk probably believe the above statement. On the other hand, we see all sorts of indiscretions and actual criminal and corrupt behavior, particularly in the upper level of politics, banking, and even business. Why is it that it seems the "little folk" can't get away with it, but we see heinous crimes that seem to have no judgment. Think Edward Kennedy at Chappaquiddick Island, for example, or the Warren Commission that said there was a "magic bullet" that killed JFK (who really believes that still?). Or the current lies about the Affordable Care Act, being affordable and that no one will lose their insurance..totally false. It seems those in high places can bear false witness with no consequences. I have never understood this and would appreciate any responses from anyone.
Cheryl
August 20, 2013
Miriam
To those that much has been granted, much will be expected in return. Miriam erred. G-d willed to show that no one is above reproach and correction; that even the most elevated of souls is not above the His justice and His mercy. Miriam's is a universal example of G-d's expectation of us to continually be alert to His will and be humble in His Presence. Strive, always, to be good, for He is Great. Thank you Miriam; thank you G-d.
Carolyn
USA
August 17, 2013
Nice
I love your take on G-d's punishment of Miriam. To teach us that G‑d does not dispense one-size-fits-all justice. Every individual is judged uniquely according to his or her abilities and potential.
Scott Cunningham
Boca Raton, FL
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