I believe, you believe, we all believe. Otherwise, you wouldn’t be reading
this column. Yet, not all believers necessarily practice every one of the
observances that are part of our belief system. We subscribe to the ideology. We
don’t necessarily advocate moving the goal posts. But not all of us are quite
ready to put into practice all those wonderful ideals.
What is the underlying argument that allows us the luxury of that
rationalization? One which, in a moment of frankness, we might admit is somewhat
inconsistent with our own stated beliefs?
I get the impression that the subconscious criticism of the traditions we
have not yet embraced is that they are out of touch with contemporary society.
We happily accept those practices we identify with, but pronounce the others as
"old-fashioned," obsolete and out of step with the modern world.
So some will argue that in an age of government inspection and accepted
hygiene standards, the Kosher dietary laws are obsolete. Others will claim that
if G-d really intended man to walk on Shabbos, Henry Ford would never have
invented the automobile. (A Jewish humorist who had a fear of flying once said
that if G-d intended man to fly, surely He would have made it easier to get to
the airport!). And still others contend that today our sexual mores can only be
determined by consensus, and as long as it’s consenting adults, who cares what
people are doing in their bedrooms?
For many of us, the laws of the Torah feel every bit of their 3300 years. Are
we really and truly expected to adhere to this ancient code so out of touch with
the modern reality?
So let’s think about it. Are we suggesting that G-d who gave us these laws in
the first place only had them in mind for those poor Israelites traipsing
through the Sinai Desert? Is He so myopic that He cannot see beyond His Jewish
nose? As a Rabbi once told an atheist, "The god you don’t believe in, I don’t
believe in either."
Unless we accept that G-d could have seen the world in 2004, I would refuse
to believe in Him too. A real G-d sees past, present and future and is equally
comfortable in our day as He was in the days of Moses. And the promised land of
California is no more challenging to His credentials than ancient Canaan.
This week’s Parsha tells us "The Ark of the Covenant of G-d journeyed before
them..." (Numbers 10:33). Rashi interprets this to mean that the Ark -- which
housed the Tablets inscribed with the Ten commandments -- would miraculously
prepare the groundwork for their future encampments.
What this is also telling us is that the Torah (as embodied by the Tablets)
is way ahead of the game. It goes before us. It is not only timeless; it is
ahead of its time.
I can think of so many values and lifestyles which have become trendy now
which Torah has been encouraging for centuries.
A recent Time magazine cover story focused on young moms who are putting
successful careers on hold in order to stay home and nurture their children when
they need them most. From the beginning, Torah exempted women from time-bound
mitzvahs like tefillin or thrice-daily prayers so that they could fulfil
the more important mitzvah of raising the next generation.
The Jewish tradition of sitting shiva when one loses a family member
is today recognized by psychologists of all faiths and cultures as being
excellent bereavement therapy. When Jacob cooked lentils for his father Isaac,
it was because Isaac was a mourner sitting shiva for Abraham.
Whereas a generation ago, women spurned mikveh as demeaning, today’s woman is embracing it as a supreme acknowledgment of her sexuality and the most beautiful spiritual experience available. But there were mikvehs in
Masada, in Jerusalem during the Temple Era, and long before.
And the phenomenon of a society in search of spirituality, with celebrities
and pop icons studying the Kabbalah, only serves to validate the teachings of
Jewish mysticism which are indeed of ancient days.
Bell bottoms have come and gone and come back again and will soon recede
until another season comes. Paisley ties were once compulsory but today are
verboten. Fads and fashions come and go but G-dly values, the morals of
menschlichkeit and the mitzvahs of Torah are not behind the times. If
anything, they are ahead of the times.
As He is beyond time, so are His commandments. If they appear in our mortal
eyes as anachronistic, then that is our challenge: to relate Torah to our own
realities and to shape our lives according to its standard. He intended it for
us and our world, so obviously it can be done.