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What the Rebbe Taught Me
What Do You Really Want?

The Essence of Circumcision, the Essence of a Jew

Aside for being one of the many mitzvot, the obligation to circumcise a Jewish child at the age of eight days uniquely expresses a profound and fundamental religious truth inherent in all the mitzvot.

This is one of the reasons why the first mitzvah given to our forefather Abraham was that of brit milah (circumcision).

In fact, it has been said that brit milah is the mitzvah most universally accepted and performed by Jews of all denominations to this current day. And indeed, throughout the generations, despite the worst persecutions, the Jews have kept the mitzvah of brit milah with incredible devotion, self-sacrifice and joy.1

The obligation to circumcise a child at the age of eight days expresses a profound religious truth inherent in all the mitzvotPerhaps it can be said that the extraordinary message expressed by circumcision is what caused it to rise to the top of the list of rituals our enemies sought to eradicate time and again throughout our history. Perhaps they too recognized the power of its message.

But what is this unique message?

Timing

The power of the brit milah's message lies as much in its timing, at eight days old, as it does in the actitself.

The importance of this mitzvah's timing and prompt fulfillment can be learned from a startling Biblical episode which describes Moses' journey from Midian to Egypt to rescue his nation from captivity.

"When he was on the way, at the inn, G‑d encountered him and sought to kill him."2

The Midrash3 explains what led to this encounter:

"The angel sought to kill Moses for he had not yet circumcised his son, Eliezer... [Moses] said: Shall I perform the circumcision and then depart on the journey? Traveling poses a danger to the infant until three days have elapsed after the circumcision. Shall I perform the circumcision and wait three days? The Holy One, blessed be He, has commanded me, 'Go return to Egypt!' So why was Moses to be punished by death? Because he busied himself with making his arrangements first, before performing the circumcision…"

This means that the monumental mission of redeeming G‑d's people, as well as the life of Moses, came second to the timely fulfillment of a circumcision!

Double Standards

As I write these lines, a legislative bill is in the hands of the Massachusetts Joint Committee of the Judiciary, seeking to ban all circumcision performed on anyone under the age of eighteen without their express consent, unless there is a compelling medical need. The bill specifically bans circumcision for religious reasons. This bill – which fortunately seems to have little chance of being passed in to law – would penalize "illegal" circumcision with a fine, imprisonment of up to fourteen years, or both.

Shouldn't a child's consent be necessary before he is operated upon?Sadly, a couple in Finland who had a British rabbi circumcise their baby boy was recently found guilty of conspiracy to commit bodily harm by the Helsinki District Court. The court ordered the parents to pay their child 1,500 Euros for pain and suffering!

Something about these news items is eerily reminiscent of ancient Persia or Greece…

But don't the circumcision opponents have a point?

Shouldn't a child's consent be necessary before he is operated upon?

While surgery is sometimes necessary or desirable, in the case of circumcision how do we know that this is the child's desire?

Inner Will

The following excerpt of a letter written by the Rebbe might shed some light:

…You ask me about my reference to Maimonides where it contains in substance, though in different terms, the concepts of the conscious and the subconscious of modern psychology. I had in mind a passage in Hilchot Gerushin (end of chapter 2) in his magnum opus, Yad Hachazaka.

The gist of that passage follows: There are certain matters in Jewish law, the performance of which requires free volition, not coercion. However where the Jewish law requires specific performance, it is permitted to use coercive measures until the reluctant party declares, "I am willing," and his performance is valid and considered voluntary. There seems to be here an obvious contradiction: If it is permitted to compel performance, why is it necessary that the person should declare himself "willing"? And if compulsory performance is not valid, what good is it, if the person declares himself "willing" under compulsion?

And here comes the essential point of Maimonides' explanation:

Every Jew, regardless of his status and station, is essentially willing to do all that he is commanded by our Torah. However, sometimes, the Yetzer, the evil inclination, prevails over his better judgment and prevents him from doing what he has to do in accordance with the Torah.

When, therefore, the Beis Din [court of Jewish law] compels a Jew to do something, it is not with a view to create in him a newdesire, but rather to release him from the compulsion which had paralyzed his desire, thus enabling him to express his true self. Under these circumstances, when he declares "I am willing" it is an authentic declaration.

To put the above in contemporary terminology: The conscious state of a Jew can be affected by external pressures that induce states of mind and even behavior which is contrary to his subconscious, which is the Jew's essential nature. When the external pressures are removed, it does not constitute a change or transformation of his essential nature, but, on the contrary, is merely the reassertion of his innate and true character…"

In a different letter, written by the Rebbe to a youngster who informed the Rebbe about his upcoming bar mitzvah, the Rebbe added the following postscript:4

Regarding that which you write that "you stem from a secular family": certainly the "secular-ness" is an ancillary condition and an external "garment" that covers your essence and core. For every member of your family is the son of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob (and the daughter of Sarah, Rebecca, Rachel and Leah) and, following them, tensof generations of followers of Torah and its precepts.

(Only that G‑d gave Man choice with regards to his actions, however, he cannot whatsoeverchange the essence, the core and his truest nature.)

Given the Jew's inherent desire to fulfill G‑d's will at all times, it becomes obvious that, if asked, the child would definitely consent to have the mitzvah of brit milah fulfilled.

Circumcision, performed at an age when explicit consent cannot be obtained, reveals the subconscious consent of each Jew to always fulfill the will of G‑dAnd so, of all the mitzvot, it is brit milah, performed at an age when explicit consent cannot be obtained, that reveals the implicit or subconscious consent of each Jew to always fulfill the will of G‑d.

Could this be the reason why circumcision came to symbolize Judaism to our enemies, and has, conversely, resonated so deeply within the collective Jewish heart and soul throughout the ages?

What's in It for Me?

Sometimes you might wonder:

Who am I really?

What do I truly want in and out of life?

Which voice is actually my own?

It's time you got to know you.

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FOOTNOTES
1.

This historical fact strongly supports the Talmudic teaching that "every mitzvah for which the Jewish people have sacrificed their lives during periods of governmental persecution – including circumcision – is still preserved by them" (Talmud, Shabbat 130a). Our Sages have also said: "Every mitzvah that the Jews have accepted upon themselves with joy, such as circumcision, endures" (ibid.).

2.

Exodus 4:24.

3.

See Rashi ad loc.

4.

What is unique about this letter is that it was written a week after the Rebbe suffered a massive heart-attack on the holiday of Shemini Atzeret 1977.
For weeks following the heart attack, the Rebbe remained confined in his office-turned-hospital-room. It is amazing to note that at this difficult time, the Rebbe took the time to address a small detail that the child wrote in his letter.


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Posted: Apr 27, 2012
Brit Milah
Reading some of these comments saddens me deeply.

Our holy Torah which we, in a benevolent effort to refine this vulgar world around us, attempt to translate from its esoteric, divine source should not be subjected to the critical eye of coarse, unrefined onlookers. It feels almost like being violated.

People, we believe in an Omniscient, Omnipresent G-d, Creator of Heaven and Earth and all that they contain. You cannot "reason" with a Power that knows more than you do! You will NEVER eradicate our 3300-year-old traditions!

Get over it.
Posted By Esther Liba, NJ, USA

Posted: Nov 3, 2011
Mitzvah of brit - an everlasting covenant
Mr Joshua states, "end the violence (of circumcision), judaism can adapt" and to 'leave the kid's organ alone', but tell me mr joshua do you really believe that, say, a famed and unique teak antique'd be the same majestic antique if one of its legs were cut off? And in the name of so-called liberalism you ask that Judaism adapt its ways. The ones authorized to make amends in the laws according to change of times i.e the scholars, the tzaddik acted with divine (I doubt if you believe in the word) inspiration. But the mitzvah of brit millah has ever remain unchanged, and would likely, never be changed. Sorry.
Posted By Hanoch Ringo , Imphal, India

Posted: Nov 3, 2011
Surely this great nation is a wise and understanding people.
Posted By Anonymous, brooklyn, ny

Posted: Oct 15, 2010
@ Dr. Simhony.

It's funny that you agree on one thing, because you have medical proof for it's worth, yet many discard the rest as folklore and superstition.

If one can find at least one thing from the Torah which science finds a logic to, then why not simply be humble and declare, that the rest might be right too, yet we are futile in our knowledge of the world to prove the rest?

@Joshua
The foreskin keeps the glans as an internal organ, there is no other limb that acts in this way!
Open internal organs are prone to bacteria and infections, if not in the host then on the partner.

Recently science proved that under the foreskin, lives a bacteria which can cause cancer in the throat, womb/vagina or anus.

Free vaccines are given here to women. But the direct origin is not spoken loudly about.

Sweden also has a ban on circumcision.
Posted By withheld, Copenhagen, Denmark
via chabadenmark.com

Posted: Apr 25, 2010
circumsion
to Joshua and the rest of you:

the Torah is the Manufacturer's guide and instruction manual on how to live the life that He has given us in this world which He created for us. HE, Who created us, knows better than all of us, what is called respecting another human being.

G-d, our Creator, loves us more than we love ourselves and more than any other person can love us. Having created both our physical and spiritual side and blown into us from His Essence, He alone knows what is truly good for us.

Therefore, you would do well to drop your theories and look into the Manufacturer's instruction manual, our Holy Torah and run your life according to its explicit instructions.
Posted By Shoshana, Jerusalem , Israel

Posted: Apr 15, 2010
Ugh2
Dr. Abe Simhony
There are medical benefits to cutting off any body part. All body parts represent some risk to their owner. Why is it only a part of the male genitals that are being so widely persecuted? Females would equally receive the same benefits of circumcision as males yet it is illegal for them.

Circumcision is a unique case in that it permanently removes erogenous tissue that many millions of men and women including myself will swear by it being very important for sex. This is the only normal and healthy body part that people cut off when there are 0 complications with it!

It's a simple matter of fact that because the foreskin feels good to have that any extremely overstated and minuscule benefits are moot. This is only exacerbated when the supposed benefits such as reduced STD chances are of 0 benefit to those who practice safe sex in monogamous relationships and healthy hygienic lifestyles.

In effect you are betting your child's healthy and normal body that he will not.
Posted By Joshua, Longwood, FL

Posted: Apr 15, 2010
What do you really want - Brit Mila (circucision)
I am really not a reliogious person, and quite frankly, althogh I admire Chabad for its deeds and devotion, I do not subscribe to most of its beliefs. However, when referring to circucision, althogh I can not accerpt your arguments (the religious ones) I consider this as one of the healthiest measures that the Jewish religion introduced to this world. You will obviously disagree with me when I say that some of the hygienic rulres introduced some 5000 years ago, are out of date now, but this measure has never been more actual and necessary than in our day and age, and this for obvious reasons.. Any legislator in Finland, any US state or elswhere, who wants to ban it until the age of 18, all in the name of liberalism (I consider myself a very liberal (even somewhat left wing one!) person, is somewhat out of touch with reality. It is like decreeing that one is not allowed to inoculate babies against certain diseases!
Posted By Dr. Abe Simhony, Ciang Mai/ London, Thailand/ UK

Posted: Apr 14, 2010
Ugh
i have no delusions of thinking i can change the mind of people who believe in sky people and magical books.

but the foreskin is amazing, it has a feeling that is truly unique to it. It's not something that you can make the decision for it's removal for someone else.

It's not about being a "good jew" it's about respecting other human beings. You want your kid to become a good Jew of course, but you can't force him to. He will grow up and pursue whatever he desires. And if that means him not choosing to follow the Jewish faith then that is his choice.

Carving your beliefs into another human being who might not believe the same things as you is an incredibly appalling human rights abomination. Even worse when it's cutting off a part of the sex organs.

Please, end the violence. Judaism can adapt. I'm sure the there are many laws in the Torah that are illegal now. Leave the kids' sex organs alone. Become the kinder gentler more humanistic people that you proclaim to be <3
Posted By Joshua

Posted: Apr 13, 2010
Fair Deal
As i was reading this article, a thought popped up in my mind:

Frankly: If atheists want to tell the religious what to do, first they must stop killing the children before they are born, and then they can tell others how to handle their children.
Posted By Anonymous, Washington D.C.



 


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