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Living through the Parshah
How Joseph Maintained His Serenity


The Baal Shem Tov instigated a grassroots revolution all across Europe, called Chassidism. At the center of the chassidic philosophy he placed the tenet of hashgachah pratit, divine providence, the belief that G‑d is really in charge, managing every detail of our lives. He had many opponents who challenged him. Perhaps they were frightened that this belief would cause people to shirk responsibility and become passive. But the Baal Shem Tov taught that a true understanding of hashgachah pratit breeds proactivity, not passivity.

How’s that? An examination of the biblical account of Joseph’s narrative can shed light on the matter.

In his mind it was G‑d, and only G‑d, directing his destinyThe Torah’s description of Joseph leaves no doubt that he was a man with an absolute commitment to his belief in divine providence. When Joseph reveals his true identity to his brothers, he helped them heal from their paralyzing guilt by sharing with them his take on being sold:

“But now do not be sad, and let it not trouble you that you sold me here, for it was to preserve life that G‑d sent me before you. For already two years of famine [have passed] in the midst of the land, and [for] another five years there will be neither plowing nor harvest. So G‑d sent me before you to make for you a remnant in the land, and to preserve [it] for you for a great deliverance.”1

True, his brothers had taken him, a precocious son in Jacob’s illustrious family, and converted him into a piece of meat to be auctioned off in a marketplace. But he wasn’t angry with them, because he didn’t consider them responsible for his humiliation. In his mind it was G‑d, and only G‑d, directing his destiny.

Joseph’s time in Egypt went from bad to worse. Initially he was sold to Potiphar, an Egyptian dignitary, where he was quite successful—but then he was arrested. His alleged crime was fabricated by Potiphar’s wife as revenge for Joseph’s rejecting her seductive advances. Joseph was forced to sit in prison for years.

All the while, Joseph remained true to his belief that G‑d was steering the course of his life and that there was meaning behind all the chaos.

And then, one day, Joseph noticed that two of his fellow inmates were downcast. Pharaoh’s chief butler and chief baker had been imprisoned for culinary misdemeanors. Their pain concerned Joseph and he approached them. “Why do your faces look so down today?”

“We’ve had a dream,” they responded, “but there is no one to interpret it.”2

Joseph accurately interpreted their dreams. Two years later, the chief butler recommended Joseph to Pharaoh when he too had some disconcerting dreams. Joseph successfully interpreted Pharaoh’s dreams; the rest is history. He became Pharaoh’s viceroy, and saved Egypt and his entire family from starvation during the famine.

But let’s go back to his original question, which spawned the whole sequence of events that followed: “Why do your faces look so down today?”

If Joseph would have felt helpless and irate—the way almost anyone in his position would have felt—he would have been incapable of responding to anyone’s pain but his own. Angry people don’t notice other people who are hurting. And why would Joseph have reached out to employees of a government that had wrongfully imprisoned him?

But Joseph wasn’t angry—not at the government, not at Potiphar’s wife, and not at his brothersBut Joseph wasn’t angry—not at the government, not at Potiphar’s wife, and not at his brothers. And as such he retained his serenity even in jail.

And so Joseph was in tune with another person’s pain, and was therefore capable of doing that one small act of goodness and kindness. Little did he know that it would change the world.

The conviction that G‑d is right here, directing all that happens, is like a spiritual chiropractic adjustment—shifting our focus from frustration to curiosity. The instinctive response—“This is wrong; it shouldn’t have happened to me!!”—becomes: “This is an opportunity—why else would it happen to me?”

Our job is to look for opportunities to make a difference. And sometimes a small window of opportunity brings in a whole new world of fresh air.

This reminds me of the Rebbe’s response to a CNN reporter who stood on the famous “dollar lines” that formed every Sunday outside of Lubavitch World Headquarters. When his turn came and he stood before the Rebbe, he asked, “What is your message to the world?”

The Rebbe replied, “Moshiach is ready to come now. We all must only do something additional in the realm of goodness and kindness.”3



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FOOTNOTES
1. Genesis 44:5–7.
2. Ibid. 40:7–8.
3.

Based on a talk of the Lubavitcher Rebbe, given on Shabbat Parshat Miketz 5734.


By Rochel Holzkenner   More articles...  |   RSS Listing of Newest Articles by this Author
Rochel is a mother of two children and the co-director of Chabad of Las Olas, Fla., heading its educational department. She is also a freelance writer—and a frequent contributor to Chabad.org—and lectures on topics of Kabbalah and feminism, and their application to everyday life. Rochel holds an MS in Brain Research from Nova SE University.

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Posted: Dec 16, 2011
Joseph's Serenity
You are soo right Mrs Holzkenner, keeping our serenity, trusting in Hashem is peace of mind, soul, and a healthy heart. As we are in this world in a daily struggle with diversities created by adversaries, we need to keep our serenity. The love of our G-d is a overwhelming medicine to our happy life. Thank you for such an article. Blessings to you and yours.
Posted By Anonymous, Mesa, Arizona, USA

Posted: Dec 11, 2011
"This is wrong; it shouldn’t have happened to me!!”—becomes: “This is an opportunity—why else would it happen to me?”
Our job is to look for opportunities to make a difference. And sometimes a small window of opportunity brings in a whole new world of fresh air"

Thanks a lot for this article, it´s extremely helpful
Posted By Esteban, cordoba

Posted: Nov 26, 2010
Divine Providence
In "Dogs Decoded" a recent PBS program and in a NBC news program it says that we are hormonally disposed to empathy and kindness from birth.
At a time when we are hearing the Rule of Law turned upside down and backward, it is well to remember Micah "to do justice, to love mercy and walk humbly with our God"
Posted By Virginia, Farmington Hills, Mi

Posted: Nov 24, 2010
Re:i like this story
I agree with you.

And, I believe, that trying to live as Joseph is enough for us.

I understand that having him ,and all the highest Torah patterns, as mind and soul models ,and avoiding to fall in any kind of idolatry(being this term very broad),is good enough for us.

I just disagree in my own life to be complacent with what does not follow such patterns,but of course I fall and fail...Our ancestors also did.
Posted By Carmen

Posted: Nov 23, 2010
i like this story
i totally agree with this story but have only one concern, the animal soul. it seems that Joseph had more of a G-dly soul unlike myself who have more of an animal soul. we are both creatures of G-d but Joseph believes more strongly than I. i could only hope to have the belief in G-d that Joseph had. sometimes i do, sometimes i don't. if there is anyone on this current planet that lives amonst the commoners and not surrounded by others who filter out the lowly types and does not get angry once in awhile, please introduce me. i am honest enough to acknowledge that although Joseph is 100% correct in living his life this way, in todays times married, children, household duties and all other daily mandatory regulations to abide by through current laws i could only wish to be as he. i suppose if i chose to i could but soon would be divorced, children disregarded, laws broken, bills unpaid. again, please introduce the fellow man who currently lives this way as i would love to learn from him.
Posted By john smith, fort lauderdale, fl

Posted: Nov 23, 2010
Trust
Trusting hashgachah pratit, divine providence liberates the soul of worry and increases ones emunah. Trusting G_D free us to be a light in dark times.
Posted By Rod, Kingwood, Tx

Posted: Nov 23, 2010
Normal people-and by normal I mean G-dly people,
simply can not stand with others' sufferings-being these sufferings in any possible realm-having themselves suffered once that pain.

Normal people, see in others' eyes and lives what they themselves (or their ancestors) have passed through one day, and it hurts in them as if it were their own pains.

Only un-G-dly people,only idolaters (G-d forbid to even slightly reason like them) can feel otherwise.

Of course this look demands life experience, but moreover, it demands to be of a Joseph’s ancestry.
Posted By Carmen

Posted: Nov 21, 2010
Once again
Once again I accept prompting that when G-d calls it usually is not to a life of kings palaces but through the desert on the way to the Land of Promise. Thank You
Posted By Gene, Bellvue, Colo USA



 


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