This is not a cartoon about marriage. Nor is it a cartoon about wasting time. It’s a cartoon about investing yourself completely in whatever it is you are doing. Otherwise, the time doesn’t add up.
One of the earlier ideas I had was about a grown adult celebrating his 3rd birthday, claiming that although he was born 20 some years ago, he wasted most of that time, and only about 3 years worth were really worth counting. But I realized that that is not the point I was trying to express. In fact, if the birthday guy really did put himself into his time wasting, then unfortunately for him, the moments do add up, and he’ll have to account for them. But at least he did something. And the good news is, that’s a part of his life he can look back on and grow from. It has somehow shaped him, and therefore it would count in his age. But the lady in this cartoon wasn’t doing anything. She wasn’t speaking with her husband, because she was watching stuff, but she wasn’t really watching stuff either. It’s like a whole half hour of her life is gone — worse than misused, because at least you can grow from that — just gone.
So to me, this quote from Zohar isn’t telling me that Abraham used his moments for good — I already know that. Come on, we’re talking about Abraham here. It’s telling me that he used his moments.
new haven, ct
David, I know you said it wasn't about marriage....but for me this really was very much about human relationships. And since so much of our time in this world is spent in relating with others, perhaps that is where our understandings of this one overlap?
Seems like so many people, when they interact with one another, are off doing something else at the same time--thinking about someone else, or about to run off somewhere, or answering the cell phone, or watching TV, etc. It is really difficult to feel like a person who matters during such interactions. My policy is to never interrupt a face to face conversation in order to answer a phone--when did the absent person gain priority over he present person in our culture? What a bizarre concept! What if we all just practiced focusing fully on whoever we are talking with at any given moment? Our relationships would improve so much.
Newark, OH
Every Shabbat Jews don't use any electricity; they take a break from it, and it's beautiful! You can focus the entire day on Godliness and Judaism, and relax and appreciate the world for what it is.
Try it and encourage your friends. And, in addition, you may as well light some Shabbat candles before the holiday so that you can do it appropriately.
great clip
florida
orlando, us
jewishorlando.com
I've just finished my work for the semester and was getting a little down that I have nothing to do.
But this has helped lift me up a bit as i realise that every second of ur life is a precious gift.
Thats gotta make u smile :)
Leeds, UK
I love these vignettes the way they are!
Please don't chnage them, and keep'em coming!
Silver Spring, MD