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A kabbalistic explanation of why whatever we do to others, we are actually doing to ourselves.

Many Bodies, One Soul

The Mitzvah to Love Your Fellow

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By Nomi Freeman
Nomi Freeman is the daughter of the renowned Argentinean Kabbalist, Professor Avraham Polichenco, o.b.m.. She is well known for her seminars on teaching spirituality to children and her personal counseling to those seeking a spiritual path. Mrs. Freeman has lectured extensively in Vancouver, Toronto, Montreal, New York and Buenos Aires. Contact her here for lecture engagements.
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October 30, 2011
crossed lines
There is a fine line between being one's self, and the abolition of all negativity. Here is an example. Someone near and dear to me swears when he encounters people en the road, as he is driving, who do stupid, dangerous things. Then he lets loose, a volley. For him, it's safe to do this, and a way of letting off steam, and only the passenger, if there is one, hears him.

But I was taught, it's not "nice" to swear, not refined. So one day I told him how I felt and he said he would stop completely. He became someone quite different, and it didn't feel like him, withou that "old fire". I actually got worried, since he was doing such a good job of not being the person I "knew" and loved.

I actually begged him to be his old self, and then he did relinquish the new "him".

For me, there is a lesson here, in that in all of us, there can be, idiosyncratic and endearing ways of being, and that we actually don't want to eliminate all of this, but love needs to be the final yardstick.
ruth housman
marshfield hills, ma
October 29, 2011
Latching on to the affirmative
I have been trying so hard to not say and do negative things-- I have been under a lot of stress and sometimes swearing or saying mean things has been a visual symptom of that. What you said at 36:39, your story then what your husband said about the benefits of wanting to do something negative and not doing it and how the light of Hashem shines into your soul and into this world and the other worlds because you didn't-- that has helped me so, so much! Thank you. The rest of this is wonderful, but that anecdote just made my whole life better! I will think of this often!
Anonymous
July 19, 2011
thanks you
I loved this lecture. I wish my ex-fiancee would understand the concept of loving another fellow Jew like herself. Actually I'd just like her to accept and embrace her own Judaism. This lecture is indispensable and it's refreshing to listen to a woman's point of view as opposed to mostly men.
Mr. Mordechai Kirsch
May 15, 2011
One Soul, many FACES
For me, in moving in and out of the frame, as I do, constantly, I do perceive that I am always talking to G_d in talking to YOU, meaning this audience of seekers, and, wherever I am, I am in the Presence of the Divine.

I see that we are all being Divinely inspired within a Cosmic Dance, and that each of us, is actually Divine, and that Divinity is speaking through us all.

There is a deep paradox here, and it must often be forgotten to carry on in this world.

I know, that everything we are gifted, including ourselves, is, Divine. And so I must seek out, what is truly meaning behind meaning, in parsing out what we must do, to make this a better world. That's the paradox, those who say they are speaking for the Divine, and they are Divine, but their words are somehow meant to be put into translation, because they are not according to the precepts we are taught, about bringing in humane ways of being.

So, who, in this sea of faces, speaks for G_d? Yes, Many faces, Many voices.
ruth housman
marshfield hills, MA
May 15, 2011
once upon a story: One Song/Many Voices
My Father used to tell me stories at night and leave me hanging, begging for the next. And so it was I looked for add ventures, and that is how he sent me dreaming.

Life is an adventure, and what is opening for us all, a gift, with many wrappings and much "rap" is just this, a story, a neverending story, perhaps the most amazing story ever told.

We go back as we move forward, adding to the richness of story the deep metaphoric and story connects with name, naming and, song, both Biblical and beyond, since we are all of us, constantly living and reliving, stories, and connecting, to each other, often miraculously, seemingly through the astonishment of ends that meet, that seem so unlikely. What is elusive and allusive is part of the magic.

The great paradox of life is that we need each other, and we are also, deeply needing solitude, meditative space, and that we move, as always between the "poles". I follow a North Star, and I know that star will bring me Home, back to the Garden.
ruth housman
marshfield hills, ma
May 13, 2011
Hillel and the "Golden Rule"
I am no saint and to expect me to follow the Golden Rule and actually share with my neighbours what I have earned for myself is an exaguration! So when Hillel the Elder re-phrased this Rule into a double negative form, it was expressed in form that we can more easily follow.

For me this change is very acceptable but it has another important aspect in that it applies to a far larger community than the original instruction. The original Rule was a microeconomics one whilst Hillel's modification applies in a macroeconomics way. As such we should not pollute because it can affect the whole world etc.

It also means that we should share on a world scale and this complies with the idea of the earth being a gift to Mankind for his careful use on a basis of equallity of opportunity of access to it.

In practice the way to manage this is to tax land values of owned sites instead of taxing production and having a unequal distribution of the produce of our given bounty.
David Chester
Petach Tikva, Israel
May 12, 2011
do not give me things unbroken
This is the title of a book of poetry put out by a poet. I participated in his beautiful workshops.
It is also a phrase deeply resonant for me, and should be, for us all because it's about life, and the need for tikkun, to help others, to fix what is broken, and that is perfection itself. Meaning in being gifted a broken world one could say, in its imperfections life is, perfect. And I say this knowing about the depths of sadness, cruelty, the terrible darkness that overcomes us all, in every way. But then there is the light, and I say, we cannot have the one, without, the other.

As a potter I know it is the punching, the pummeling, the handling and the firing, of that vessel and the burnishing with glazes, that makes it a work of art. And so it is, a metaphor and truth about us all.

I do believe we're here, for this task, of putting the broken pieces together, and, as in a vase, the whole is greater than the sum of its parts, and so it is, symphony with "lieder".
ruth housman
marshfield hills, ma
May 11, 2011
it's innate
thank you for the lovely reminder.
Anonymous
toronto, ON
May 11, 2011
"Neighbors: include non-Jews too!
She limits G-d's command to love your neighbor as yourself by her clause "other Jews." The Book of the Law (of G-d) commands that we love our neighbor as ourself. Note the Torah command that foreginers be included in the Passover.

Thanks for sharing the more powerful negative iteration: "What is hateful, don't do to others."
Anonymous
Washington, dc
May 11, 2011
My hand
I have five fingers on my hand. If one finger is damaged then my hand is damaged. So it is with all humanity.

'Love God and others as I love myself' !
This is just the problem. When people do not love themselves or God. Their atitude and behaviour towards others reflects that.
Richard Lennard
London, England
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