This spiritual explanation of why it is so difficult for us to properly honor our parents offers insight into healing intergenerational trauma and coming to peace with issues picked up from one’s family of origin.
Honor Your Mother and Father
A Spiritual View on the Challenges of the Fifth Commandment
Rabbi Shais Taub is Creative Director at Jewish.TV. He is the author of G-d of Our Understanding: Jewish Spirituality and Recovery from Addiction. He and his family make their home in Pittsburgh, PA.
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December 26, 2012
wow, this is the same teaching as islam, i feel like we have the same religion, when this rabbi is speaking is like a Imam is speaking. this message should be spead to minkind. no body love you more than your parents. thank you rabbi very great speach
Anonymous cambridge, on
December 20, 2012
Powerful Message
we are always learning how to navigate in this life.Thank you. -
Anonymous Houston, TX chabadoutreach.org
November 17, 2011
Great Message
Thank you I really enjoyed it and learned so much! I have had trouble getting along with my parents but hearing this has made me see things in a whole different perspective. Thank you!
Anonymous El Paso, TX
February 21, 2011
Thank you
This is very powerful and true. Thank you for this most inspirring sermon
Anonymous Boca Raton, Fl
February 21, 2011
I ENJOY THE MESSAGE
Very nice and true message, it does happen.
and the suggestion is great, I have grown up twins, and when I comment to them anything that they know it could be better, they answer me, MOM it is what it is.
Anonymous Stamford, CT
February 15, 2011
Honoring right on target!
My Father did pass away on Wed Feb 09 2011. I learned because of his video that I should worship father in a way I never thought of! I took every energy to be by his side without thinking of my loss of wages from work, but I have only one dad and his life ment more to me then paying my bills! It will all work out if placed in the G _ds hands! I am so happy I spent those last days at my fathers bedside and have no regrets!! He came first! I will miss my daddy from way deep down inside of me! In memory of my father Robert F. Andre'! Love you Daddy! Thank you for this lesson!
Michelle C. Andre cape coral, fl
February 13, 2011
Honor Your MOther and Father
Stated so clearly. Tahnk you for a good class. This Thursday is my husband's mother's Yahrzeit. If you are ever here in Israel would love to have you come and speak here in Efrat.
Alizah Hochstead Efrat, Israel
February 12, 2011
Dear Rabbi Shais Taub,
My wife and I heard this great sermon of yours, it was a spritual bliss. Hazak-U- Barukh.
Abraham Samson Thornhill, Ontario/Canada
February 9, 2011
Honor you father and mother
Thank you. Very inspiring, giving one a lot to think about.
Aharon Flood Johannesburg, South Africa
February 7, 2011
What does it say?
The white letters in back of me say: "Etz chaim hi l'machazikim bah." It's a verse from Proverbs which means that the Torah "is a tree of life for those who hold fast to it." It's written on that curtain because it is covering the ark where the Torah scrolls are kept.
cambridge, on
Houston, TX
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El Paso, TX
Boca Raton, Fl
and the suggestion is great, I have grown up twins, and when I comment to them anything that they know it could be better, they answer me, MOM it is what it is.
Stamford, CT
cape coral, fl
Efrat, Israel
Thornhill, Ontario/Canada
Johannesburg, South Africa
Pittsburgh, PA