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How couples can build the kind of life together where both will give and receive the maximum amount of love.

The Ultimate Recipe for Lasting Love

Advice for Couples

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Topics: Marriage, Love
By Manis Friedman
Rabbi Manis Friedman is a world-renowned author, lecturer and philosopher; and co-founder of Bais Chana Institute of Jewish Studies in Minnesota. He also served as simultaneous translator for the live televised talks by the Lubavitcher Rebbe.
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February 3, 2013
Awesome
I like the way you teach...thorough with a flare of humor..
Anita
NM
June 3, 2012
rabbi manis friedman
you are so amazing! and i love this topic and i love how u lecture..God be with you!
nancy
israel, israel
April 8, 2012
love
Thank you very much! Fantastic lecture really enjoyed it!
Anonymous
london, uk
March 27, 2012
Three premises of M. Friedman:
1. "You can come into my life based on my laws and commandments - that's not love".
Agee. But isn't that what Judaism says to all interested in it.
2. "If I can not define what is at my core, how can someone be close to me, and thus love me".
Agree. But God is at the core of many people, and they still stone each other.
3. "Remember who you are - a Jewish soul"
Yes I am, and I believe in G-d,and I love people, but I would never invite someone who preaches love but does not live it.
Anonymous
lexington, ma
February 7, 2012
Rabbi Friedman,
How can someone love another who puts him/her down? Putting each other's down with insults or lack of respect brings low selfsteem in a person. Not a good thing. I have seen couple who put each other's down and they are always angry. Without even realizing how miserable they are. Blessed are those who have such a marriage. Thank you Rabbi Friedman, wonderful lesson.
Anonymous
Mesa, Arizona, USA
January 4, 2012
Lasting Love
4th January, 2012. I came upon this presentation TODAY. So, this evening, while we were enjoying a Wedding Anniversary dinner, I asked my husband if he'd listen to it with me when we got home. We have just done that, and found it very refreshing and enriching. TODAY we celebrate 48 years of marriage. What a wonderful way to celebrate!!
Audrfey
Adelaide, Australia
October 27, 2011
Manis Friedman's "Good To Know Talk"
This is a wonderful talk....very re-affirming for someone who has been in a long term marriage AS WELL as for someone looking to enter a relationship/marriage.
Paulette
San Diego, CA
March 17, 2011
It's Good to Know
The teaching is so inspirational & refreshing to me. The Truth Can Not Be Hidden. Love is A Desire For Greater Greater Closeness.

When you see someone else that Makes our life more stable and comfortable. Then when you see something in that person that inspires you & can be accepting of you in good or bad, you begin to trust that they love you, for yourself. When there is no challenge or controversy you get to complacent with no romance, you begin to lose that relationship!

Keep your Love fresh intimate & some times very inspiring and exciting. At times it is quiet & introspective. Some times you need your space and moments of time and then you can not wait to see your Love!
Mary Lynn Wise Hurd Burke Anderson
Cocord, NC
chabadofgwinnett.org
January 12, 2011
Simply Amazing
Mannis knows how to take something and give it over in such an amazing manner. This class was nothing less than spectacular.

Thank You!
Eilan
Toronto, Ontario
January 10, 2011
All you need is love
Easily one of the best lectures on the subject of love within a marraige that this sinner has ever heard.... Thank you
Mr. David Morris
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