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Conversion Process Taking Too Long



Question:

I have been in the midst of converting to Judaism for three years now, and the process is taking much longer than I had ever anticipated. I am willing to wait and be patient as long as I know that it is for a purpose, but all the procrastination is really getting to me!

Response:

Yes, it’s so often that way. It’s like one of those home-renovation projects that are never ever finished by the date that the contractor originally promised. Why? Because the job is always bigger than the contractor originally estimated, and there is always some unforeseen detail holding up the progress. But when those long months of homelessness end, and you move into your custom-made new home, it all becomes worth it.

That’s where you are now: Preparing a home for your new Jewish soul--and things are taking longer than they should. But remember that when the last nail is hammered in, the paint is dry and your Jewish soul settles into your new self, it will all become worthwhile.

Please feel free to reply, and have a great new year!

Yours truly,

Rabbi Menachem Posner


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Posted: Oct 27, 2009
What happens to the soul, an answer
I think I'm the one who started this whole thing of the Jewish soul, and as a convert I can assure you - it's real.
I am hardly a scholar, btw, so forgive me for not citing where I found this info. Ask a rabbi.
I've learned that a convert ALWAYS had a Jewish soul (that's in ADDITION to the human soul we're all born with) but that the body, being born from a non-Jewish mother, isn't kosher. Think of it as a utensil not being kosher -it can't hold the holiness. Once the convert commits to life as a Jew ie a life of Torah and goes to the mikvah and has a circumcision, if nec. the Jewish soul drops into its new kosher home.
I felt this sort of haunting, unrelenting drive to be Jewish always, so this strikes a cord with me. I felt at one point it just didn't matter what I needed to do, I'd do it. Lech Lecha! and that's exactly what happened, we ended up moving to countless places, many tests, all hard and good.

I'm glad it was hard. It develops commitment and being a Jew has meaning. It isn't manmade.
Posted By Rut Biton, Tzfat, Israel

Posted: Oct 26, 2009
God's love
Jews have not bothered to share God's love with gentiles like me. It's just not fair!
Posted By V. Balajee, Bengaluru, India

Posted: Oct 18, 2009
Spare spirit?
I think the idea of one soul being replaced by another is from a movie starring Whoopie Goldberg and Patrick Swayze!
Also, look at some of the thinking here! I hope no-one is saying that the non-Jewish soul is inferior and deserves to be homeless!
I feel that I have always had a Jewish soul but I don't want to sound like a transexual on an Opra special ; "I was born with the wrong body"
I don't think G-d made a mistake. Perhaps I really do have Jewish ancesters that I will never know about . Otherwise he must have felt that I needed this particular loving family, perhaps to learn specific things. I will always love them and be proud of them. I just can't do their religion. (the lipstick methaphore from the previous comment is perfect.)
So, I fast on Yom Kippur withouth letting anyone know and I enjoy this Jewish website and other Jewish things secetly. I sympathise with all who want to be able to say "Yes, I'm Jewish" . Good Luck to all of you :-)
Posted By Anonymous, West Chester, OH



 


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