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Whom did Cain and Abel marry?


Question:

How did Cain and Abel have children? Did they marry their sisters?

Answer:

Indeed, Cain and Abel1 had to marry their sisters, considering that there were no other women around. King David writes,2 "The world was built with kindness." Our sages explain that this verse is referring to G‑d's kindness in allowing Adam and Eve's children to marry their own sisters in order to populate the species.3

The Midrash tells us that Cain was born with a twin sister and Abel was born with two sisters.4 They each married the sister who was born with them. According to one opinion, it was actually a quarrel over who would get to marry the third sister that led to Cain slaying Abel.5

The third generations of humans had no need for this loophole, because marriage between first cousins is not considered incest according to Torah law.

So why are these daughters not mentioned in the Torah? They are. Later in Genesis6 we are told, "And the days of Adam after he fathered Seth were eight hundred years, and he fathered sons and daughters"—though we are not informed of their identities. The Torah only records the names of those who were leaders of note, those who played a role in the biblical narrative, or the men who formed the chain of lineage connecting Adam to Noah (and later Noah to Abraham).

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FOOTNOTES
1.

Adam's third son, Seth, possibly married one of his nieces (uncle-niece marriage is not forbidden according to Torah law.

2.

Psalms 89:3.

3.

Cited in Rashi's commentary on Leviticus 20:17. There Rashi explains that this is the reason why the Torah employs the unusual term "chesed," which is usually translated as kindness, to describe the prohibition against brother-sister incest.

4.

Genesis Rabbah 22:2.

5.

Ibid. 7. Cain claimed the right to this sister because he was the firstborn. Abel maintained that he should marry her because she was his triplet.

6.

5:4.


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Posted: Dec 14, 2010
Who did Cain and Abel marry?
The motivation behind this is to try to discredit the Bible by proving incest. So what?! Royal incest is hardly anything new. The Ptolemies of Egypt did it for 10 generations resulting in Cleopatra - a woman whose beauty was legendary & IQ is estimated to be at least 130. Genetic diseases DO become more likely with inbreeding, but then there has to be a genetic deficiency in the first place. Such deficiencies did not exist in the early generations of the Adamites. Not until Moses' time (c 1450 BC) was it necessary to declare laws determining consanguine marriage.
Whether or not Cain married a distant cousin or great-grand niece or something is moot: the point is, the 2nd generation after A&E DID commit incest through necessity.
Lastly, let's not forget, the Bible often concerns itself only with ROYAL lineages. A&E were ROYALTY. Servants are not mentioned. (Anyone want to name Abraham's 500+ servants?) A&E's children could well have married lesser pedigrees. Same for, Noah's.
Posted By Observer, Mildura, Australia

Posted: May 8, 2010
Could it be...
Abel himself also after marrying his sister fathered children? Perhaps daughters which is why they are never recorded in the bible?
Posted By Anonymous, Melbourne, Australia

Posted: Jan 27, 2010
Grandchildren of Adam and Eve
The word Adam in Hebrew means man a man or red or earth or has many other translations. Hebrew is a very rich poetic language. Later, the Hebrew word Ish also means man or a man. Adam was the first man G-d created. There is room to interpret that more men and women were created with DNA programming which the Almighty used for what we now call genetics. So Cain and Seth could have had children with women who were not their sisters.
Posted By Dee Lee, Paris

Posted: Jan 24, 2010
genetics
According to my knowledge of genetics, the whole human race couldn't have been formed by the union of brothers and sisters. It doesn't work well in the animal kingdom, let alone in the human one! My cousin ha purchased 3 siamese cats from a breeder but he didn't send their papers until it was too late and she found out that the male was the brother of the two sisters and the offspring had bowed legs and cross eyes.

The world has been populated by very diverse races and can hardly have been accomplished by one man and one woman no matter what their color was!
Posted By Anonymous, Raanana, Israel

Posted: Jan 22, 2010
to Joseph in Niceville
No it doesn't say that they were the only ones created. In fact it says that humanity (male and female) were created before one individual named Adam was taken to the Garden prepared for him in Eden. As we know, Eve was created from Adam in Eden. Outside of Eden human beings existed probably for many years and probably there were very many. The Bible is the Genealogy of Israel. So, it is only upon them that it focuses.
Posted By Brian , Simsbury, CT

Posted: Jan 18, 2010
Cain and Abel
I don't know if I'm wrong on this but a thought occured to me when I read this. Genesis says that Adam and Eve were the first created. It doesn't say they were the only humans G-d created. Could it be that He created a small population with Adam and Eve being the first?
Posted By Joseph, Niceville, FL

Posted: Dec 24, 2009
Wives for Cain and Abel
Thank you for your reply to my quiery. I am very dubious about much of the Bible but like to read or hear your explanations. I shall send more questions in due course.

My best wishes
Posted By Peter Hesketh, Clitheroe, England

Posted: Aug 23, 2009
who did Cain and Abel marry?
From my experience with the animal kingdom, in this instance domestic cats, the offspring of the male cat with one of his sisters created a half blind, bow legged kitten! Sex between brothers and sisters has been the tabu of incest in many cultures, and even the cousins if of the same sex sibling are considered to be brother and sister and can't marry. An uncle can marry a niece according to Judaic law only if the niece is the daughter of the opposite sex sibling, his sister, not his brother. I think that peoples populated the earth in many places, many races, and that the story of Adam and Eve and Cain and Abel are meant to be a vehicle for learning right from wrong, and about family relationships. I realize that is against Chabad ideology, but many cultures have had creation stories, and several with the story of the flood. Do we learn from the Torah, but of course!
Posted By Tina, Ballina, Ireland

Posted: Aug 17, 2009
C'Mon that is silly!
God created adam male and female. One particular man named Adam was chosen and placed in Eden. Humanity was already established before this particular Adam was chosen.
Posted By Brian S, Simsbury, CT

Posted: Aug 14, 2009
Why couldn't Adam's sons marry their sisters?
Surely incest WAS prohibited at the time. What we know as the 7 Noachide Laws are:
a. six given to Adam/Eve [inc. "no immorality"]; plus
b. one given to Noah [no cruelty to animals, exemplified by not eating limb of living animal].
Posted By Jeffrey, Sheffield, UK



 


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