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The Mover and Shaker



"You should strive for a union between your purposes in life and purposes of the Divine Principle directing the universe. There is no bond of union on earth to compare with the union between a human soul and G-d." - 24 hours a day, August 1

There are times when I wonder why I struggle so much. Mostly it's because I am fighting against what is happening. I am not wanting it to occur, not wanting it to continue or not wanting it to be so bad -- simply put, I am fighting against reality. Even more simply put -- I am fighting against the way G-d wants things to be. So, how futile is that? What could be more useless than to fight against G-d's reality?

I would be better off to get in tune with what is, rather than try to change it to what isn't. Looking at it in much broader terms: Although it doesn't always seem that way to me at the time, life eventually works out much better when it goes according to G-d's plan rather than mine. I can't even imagine what a mess the world would be in if I were the one who was running it!

So, here's the plan: adapt my will to the will of G-d, instead of trying to convince Him to change things to the way I would like them. In fact, I think that most of the time, when we try to change things, we actually leave Him out of the picture entirely. I need to always remember that He is the Prime Mover and Shaker.

Rav Mordechai of Lachovitz said : "If your life is not as you will it, adapt your will to your life."

Sounds like a great plan!


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Frumstepper is a Jewish Twelve Stepper who writes about how she is continually reminded that "G-d is driving the bus," and about her efforts to "let go and let G-d" in dealing with all that life throws her way. You can read more of her musings on her personal blog.

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Posted: Aug 5, 2009
Answers to Jared
First I would like to point out to Tim's comment and metaphor that add great insight to this concept.
To answer your questions:
1. Our mission is not to change the circumstances of our lives, but to do our best within those circumstances. The Baal Shem Tov emphasized the concept of Hashgacha Pratit, Divine Providence, which is our belief that every circumstance that we encounter was designed by G-d for us to be able to make the best out of it.
As far a prayer is concerned, they are many levels of prayer. On the most basic level we pray for our needs, but on a deeper level we pray that we should have no needs. That is achieved when we accept the fact that everything that we need was already given to us.
I would suggest you contact your local Chabad Rabbi and together study a talk of the Rebbe, printed in Likutei Sichot Vol. 1 page 175.
Posted By Yisrael Pinson, West Bloomfield, MI

Posted: Aug 5, 2009
Some Questions:
Great article, but I'd love to be further enlightened on the topic.

Isn't our mission in this world to CHANGE reality, not to be happy or comfortable with current circumstances? Isn't this how we "partner" with the Almighty in the act of creation?

And aren't we supposed to petition G-d (aka prayer) to change things when we find ourselves in an uncomfortable situation?

How does this jive with what the author writes: "...instead of trying to convince Him to change things to the way I would like them. In fact, I think that most of the time, when we try to change things, we actually leave Him out of the picture entirely."
Posted By Jared, Illinois

Posted: Aug 4, 2009
Driving metaphor
Before recovery, I was driving the car of my life, but I had no satellite navigation system; instead, I drove willy-nilly, guided by fear and resentment. These are poor and erratic guides.

Now, I still am responsible for driving, but, with G_d's direction, my life is infinitely better: G_d is the satellite navigation system that shows me the destination and the route.

But I still have to drive, be aware of what is around me and other drivers, and take responsibility for my conduct.
Posted By Tim Morgan



 


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