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A Letter to a Child



Question:

What is the meaning of my name, Eve?

Eve (age 7)

Answer:

Dear Eve,

Actually, in Hebrew, your name is even nicer. It is Chava. That means "the mother of life."

You may be wondering, "But I am not a mother. I am a child."

The truth is, a child is also a mother. After all, who made your mother a mother? If not for you, she wouldn't be a mother. She gave birth to you -- and you gave birth to the mother inside her.

There is nothing in this world that only gets and does not give. True, when you are starting off in life, it seems like you're mainly on the receiving end. But don't let outward appearances fool you. When your mother helps you learn something or tells you a story or gives you advice or wipes away a tear from your cheek with a word of wisdom and a caring smile -- she is giving you a lot, but you are giving to her as well.

When you get all excited about your heroes and heroines, about lighting a candle on Friday before sunset or about a story you heard in school, that touches your mother deeply, it changes her. More than the words of the wisest rabbi. Because you are her daughter, the one who gave birth to the mother inside her.


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Posted: Aug 16, 2007
WOW! This article will really help me appreciate all of the joy that my children give to me.

Thank you Hashem.
Posted By Anonymous, Brooklyn, ny

Posted: July 17, 2006
After 3 miscarriages, all of the "experts" told me that I would never be able to carry a baby to term. G-d had a different plan. Six years ago, I gave birth to a beautiful baby boy. We named him Jonathan (G-d's Gift), Teom-David. He is the greatest blessing--and he gave birth to a mother that will forever be in blessed awe of the Creator.
Because of that little 8 lb. baby, I know and believe that G-d performs miracles every day. I feel sadness for those who say miracles are fiction in the bible, or that they don't happen any more... I have and am living proof of the greatest of blessings and miracles! Thank you for articulating it so well in this beautiful article...
Posted By sharona, north las vegas, nevada



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