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Where did all our prayers go?


Question:

I was praying for Rabbi and Mrs. Holtzberg and all the other Jewish people in Mumbai asking for G‑d to help them. But I wonder now--why didn't He listen to me and the many others who prayed to him and asked for their lives to be saved? Where did all those prayers go?

Response:

Some people say that G‑d answers all prayers and sometimes the answer is "no." I cannot believe such a thing. If G‑d's children pray to Him from their hearts, so many of them, all together, is it possible He can answer them with a "no"? Could you do that with your children?

The Baal Shem Tov taught that every prayer is answered, only that the answer may not be what we expected, when we expected it. We may need to wait, to get used to G‑d's cosmic time.

I disagree with that as well. Not with the Baal Shem Tov, but with G_d. Why can't He answer us now? How can He expect us to live in His time?

Understanding brings complacency. We are meant to be outraged

But, look, He's put up with my obnoxious habits and blunders all this time, so I'll just have to bow my head once again and say, "How deep are Your thoughts..."

Take a look at the Torah Portion right now. Imagine you were living at that time. You recall there had been a great man named Abraham with a great dream. And now what do you see? His son is old and doesn't move from the tent. That son has two heirs, one a bully, the other an idealist. The bully has several wives and is living happily. The idealist is still single--and now he has to run for his life, empty-handed, away from the promised land, so that his bully brother won't kill him. So much for Abraham's dream.

When we read it, we don't see it that way. Why? Because we know the whole story: The idealist comes back 20 years later with a large family and great wealth, makes peace with his brother and continues where his grandfather left off. But if we would stop right here, we would say, "The Promised Land is in the hands of a terrorist! Darkness rules and light flees its path!"

Gavriel and Rivky are, their souls are in a higher place now, a place reserved for martyrs, far beyond the place of most tzadikim. From there, they see the purpose and meaning of all this. They see where all our prayers went and what they effected.

As for us, down here in this mundane world, we are not mean to understand. Understanding brings complacency. We are meant to be outraged that such evil exists in our world. We are meant to fight back and destroy it. Not to leave that up to G‑d and His wisdom--but to do all we can that the world should be filled with such light that such a thing could never happen again.

May the entire world soon be redeemed from this darkness, the curtains lifted, and the final era of wisdom, truth and beauty be revealed, very soon, sooner than we can imagine.

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Posted: July 22, 2010
Razor blades
Suppose one of your children picked up a very sharp razor blade and said, "Look what I found." After you whisper a prayer of thanks to G-d, you ask the child if you could see it. Then starts the "fun." "I want my thing back." Would you give the kid the razor back? Nah, neither would I.
So when we ask for something we think is quite reasonable but G-d knows better, we can either act like a child or understand that G-d isn't going to give us what isn't good for us. Make sense?
Posted By Dr. Beverly Kurtin

Posted: July 21, 2010
There is a story I once heard. A man complained that every one was praying for a certain rabbi, but then the rabbi passed away. The man who was listening went white. He told the first man that he had a brother who was very sick. This brother was now recovering. The brother had the same exact name as the rabbi.
Posted By SGZ

Posted: Dec 30, 2008
Prayers for Moshe and His grandparents
I just read with sadness that the older brother of Moshe Holzberg passed away and joined his parents and G-d.

G-d works in mysterious ways and I do believe that Moshe is special, because he was protected from such brutal evil around him. Continue to pray for him and his grandparents work in Bombay.
Posted By Elizabeth
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Posted: Dec 29, 2008
G-d's time is relative
One of my favorite stories about G-d and our expectations goes something like this:

A young person asked “G-d, how long is a thousand years to you?”

G-d replied, “It’s like a minute.”

The young person asked, “Will you give me a million dollars?”

God said, “Certainly, just wait a minute.”
Posted By Beverly Kurtin, Hurst, TX

Posted: Dec 29, 2008
Claiming Blessings through Prayers
Prayer can be defined as our need and dependency in G-d's mercy, provision, protection, etc. When we come to pray, there are certain prerequisite to follow in order for G-d to come to my side, for example, faith not wavering, requesting or claiming blessings in sincerity and not for selfish gain.

Examples of Job's testing...While he was being beaten up by the devil, his entire surrounding was attacked; his farm, his children, his health, his wife, etc. Yet, Job prayed in sincerity and in faith and all of the things were added unto him. Similarly, the death of Holzbergs and others is a reminder that the Jewish community can come together only through prayers and love. So keep up the lamp burning. G-d loves to hear you talk to him all the time. You might make miracles by being close to G-d in prayers...
Happy Chanukah!
Posted By Elizabeth

Posted: Dec 11, 2008
Where do our prayers go?
How about this, G-D hears every prayer but being absolutely righteous and fair, if he intervened in the life of even one person and by this prevented them from committing any sin against him and man.

Being just in the absolute, he must then stop every other human from sinning and if he were to do this our free will would be lost and we would become robots.
Posted By Alan McDougall, Johannesburg, South Africa

Posted: Dec 10, 2008
Prayer is energy
Where do prayers go? First, what is prayer? Prayer is a form of energy that is created in our brains. That energy can be sensed by a receptor of that energy. In this case, the receptor is G-d. Billions of bursts of energy are acted on every fraction of a period of time. Like a battery, those bursts of energy can be used instantly and acted immediately or stored for a period of time and then be acted on. How is that possible? Because everything is energy or matter; what looks like a solid is merely fast moving energy. What is this energy? It is HaShem from which all things flow.
According to quantum physics everything can be in more than one place at the same time so a prayer made in Dallas can be answered in Mumbai or Toronto or held for awhile. Going further, there is no such a thing as a solid, there is only energy moving so quickly that it gives the appearance of being solid. Is this physics or kabala? It all depends.
Posted By Beverly Kurtin, Hurst, TX

Posted: Dec 4, 2008
G-d has not forsaken His people
Soon the world will know that He keeps His promises and He answers the prayers of those that are called by His name. The question that was asked brings to mind the response He gave Job, "Where were you when I created the heavens and the earth?". We should never question His Sovereignty. Instead let's continue to give Him thanks for He is good and His mercies endure forever...
Posted By Anonymous, Weston, Fl

Posted: Dec 4, 2008
Our choices make a difference
It is evident and clear, we, each one of us are seen by the Most High as Masterpieces. Unlike the rest of His creation we have the right of choice. With that right, the obligation to seek knowledge before every decision we make. Our choices, great of small have repercussions. When we choose to do what is right ( according to His laws and ordinences) , blessings follow. When we choose to do wrong, regardless of how many men agree with that choice, or how they rationalize to make it fit, the enemy is given opportunity, his objective is always to destroy Hashem's creation. How I pray my brothers and sisters would read " the manual", the Torah and Haf Torah.
The Most High does not change, doesnt need to, He is perfect in all of His ways.
My all the peoples from all the nations seek Him.
Posted By JC Fernandez, Orlando, Fl

Posted: Dec 4, 2008
how the world works, according to me
when i was little i used to pray to G*d for new toys, for my mother to be nicer, for my father to come home, none of which happened. as an adult, i've accepted the fact i can't possibly understand Him any more than a cell in my knee can understand my soul. but that cell is part of me notwithstanding. similarly each of us is part of the divine mystery, and just as each cell has its job to do, so do each one of us: to be a part of the flow of life. now i only pray to know G*d's will and to follow it. as such, i don't pray to change G*d, i pray to change ME! that, i believe, is the best any of us can ever do. lastly, Hashem gave us a great gift: the ability to make free will choices. i do not believe that G*d controls the universe at the microcosmic level. we are free to nuture or torture. G*d is not going to interfere with those choices. we are here to learn how to survive the only possible way: by showing each other great kindness and compassion.
Posted By robbie, Brooklyn, NY



 


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