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Can we throw a homeless person out of our synagogue?


Question:

Dear Rabbi,

Recently, at our shul, a homeless man named Joe1 who has been attending every week was asked by the rabbi not to enter the building anymore. The reason was that Joe was storing things at the shul without permission and he had washed up for Shabbat in the bathroom in order to change his shirt and made a mess. The rabbi has told me that people do not want to sit next to him and some feel afraid. He said that people have complained that Joe sometimes has an odor. It is interesting that they are mad at him for having an odor and also for washing in the bathroom.

So I'm scheduled to speak on Joe's behalf. I know what the Torah says and what Isaiah says about treating the homeless in our midst. But I need to provide a solution, as well. So I would appreciate whatever advice you could give me on how to address the board of our shul.

Sincerely yours,

--Joe's Rep

Answer:

Dear Rep,

The solution is quite simple: Provide Joe a place either in the shul or elsewhere to store his things. Find other ways that he can be helped without embarrassment.

When parents bring their children to shul and the children ask what the Torah is talking about, what does the prophet mean, they can introduce their children to Joe. They can show how the shul helps him out, without embarrassing him, as a peer and a friend—because we are Jews and this is what we were chosen to teach the world.

And when they ask, "Where is the most holy place in our shul?" You can tell them, it is not the seat where the rabbi sits, it is not the aron that stores the Torah, it is not even the bimah where the Torah is read. It is the little cubby we gave to Joe to store his things.

King David said in his psalms, "Let the world sit before G_d." The Midrash tells that he was complaining to G_d. "Why did you create inequality in the world?" he said. "Why did you make some poor and some rich, some wise and some dull, some joyful and some sad? Make a world in which all are equal!"

And G_d replied with the second half of the verse, "Who then will guard kindness and truth?"

Meaning: "If everyone had all that they need, then how would kindness fit into my world? Rather, I made an unbalanced world, so that the rich would have the opportunity to give to the poor, the wise could teach the dull, the joyful could cheer those who are sad. And this way all could merit to enter the eternal life of truth—those who gave because they gave, and those who received because they suffered only in order that others should be able to give."

"When you meditate on this," the Rebbe once said, "that fellow human being had to suffer only so that your soul should have the opportunity to help him out, then you give and give again and the giving crushes your heart and humbles you even more."

Rabbi Tzvi Freeman

Every person counts

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Posted: Dec 11, 2010
Not all homeless are just despondent.
Some are on the list as child predators. We had one such who would come to services and leer at the children, and talk about child pornography and say that the laws are wrong because little girls like "it" with older men. I mentioned this to the Rabbi and he is allowing the man to come for personal counseling but not be around children.
Posted By Anonymous, Riverside, CA, USA
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Posted: Dec 9, 2010
thank you
Rabbi Freeman, I have been moved by many of your articles, but this one in particular brought tears to my eyes and made me think that perhaps there is a home for me, too, in Judaism.
Posted By Anonymous, Bethesda, MD

Posted: Apr 19, 2009
EVERY RABBI NEEDS REFERRAL SOURCES
So in counseling, any person who comes to the Rabbi can get help from the Rabbi. The Rabbi can also put the person together with a "mentor" in the Shul who will also help him or her look for a job and get an apartment. A long time ago, in the (490?) building on Wilshire Bl. in Los Angeles, they used to give out charity to the needy. What ever happened to charity?
Posted By Karen Joyce Chaya Fradle Kleinman Bell, Riverside, CA
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Posted: Nov 17, 2008
John
Please consider this place as a connection to the Jewish community - if at least only here on the web. There are many comforting resources here to guide and uplift and this may become a bridge to a wider circle - out there - in real life. Where you are currently, there is a Chabad house. If you would be interested, you might contact them and ask if there are any services - social and spiritual - that can help you during this time. Even if it is just for a Shabbat meal - it can mean ALL the difference.

May G-d look over you now during this time and keep you safe and may He guide you quickly to a place to call Home without delay.

As a side note, it is so crucial to begin building shelters for our homeless brothers and sisters where they do not roam the streets but have a safe haven and social services in their time of need. Nu - Chabad. Let's do this.
Posted By jjstar

Posted: Nov 17, 2008
From the mouth of the fallen
I myself am currently homeless and without a real connection to the jewish community around me. I have found it hard to put aside pride in many instances and ASK for anyone to help.
Then there are the times that I work up the courage and seek out a liferaft to save me and I find that we as a community isolate ourselves from the very people that we should be elevating. As the Rabbi said, everyone is placed in their own situation for a reason and though we may not know what those reasons are, Hashem has given us all the tools to be better Jews.

I read once that there was a Rabbi who would greet every person that he met, no matter how dirty or well-bred they looked, with a smile and a shalom. When he was asked why he treated everyone the same, he stated that, "when Moshiach comes, no one knows what for he'll take. I'm making sure that if I meet him that I treat him with the proper respect."

I know I'm not Moshiach, but I know what it is to be treated as less than a man.
Posted By John, Moreno Valley, CA
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Posted: Sep 25, 2008
touching
i found this extremely touching and had to share it. thank you to Joe's Rep for the Mitzvah of writing the letter, thank you to the Rabbi for the Mitzvah of answering the letter and thank you to Joe for being a Mitzvah to us all.
Posted By sarah, Austin, TX

Posted: Aug 19, 2008
Very interesting threads
There was a very short period in my life when I was homeless. It was a horrible feeling not belonging anywhere. I had just been fired after the company I'd been working for copied my system into their computer meaning they no longer needed me so out I went. When I got home I discovered that I'd been locked out of my apartment and I couldn't even get back in to get my clothing ,etc. In short, I had no place to BE.

No work, no home. Every person should experience this at least once in their lives. I was fortunate in that I had friends who found me and helped me get back on my feet.

As a Jew, the right place to BE is in a Jewish community. It is a growing problem with the current financial situation being the way it is. I agree with Sherri...now is the time for all of us to get together, forget our differences and set up shelters for our homeless and hungry.

How can we expect blessings if we don't give them first? The money exists, all we need is the will.
Posted By Beverly Kurtin, Hurst, TX/USA

Posted: Aug 19, 2008
Time to Start Taking Care of the Jewish Homeless
There are Jews who are homeless. There are Jews who are hungry. There are Jews who have no where to turn so they turn to the streets, vans, shuls, Salvation Army, churches to find respite.

Why doesn't the Jewish community with all of its good thinkers, especially Chabad - put together a plan to open homeless shelters for our less fortunate brethren and offer them at least a sense of security, belonging while they get their lives together? What are we all so afraid of?

What they have isn't contagious. What they suffer from won't rub off on the children. If Am Yisrael is to be united how does this fit in with turning away the homeless and shunning the mentally ill?

Time to think and do. Time to put all the lofty words to the test and bring Moshiach into action.
Posted By j.sherri, Negev, Israel

Posted: Aug 17, 2008
The Poor(Joe)
Deut. 15 vs. 11 says it all.
Shalom
Posted By Gerald Cohen-Napole, Pawleys Island, USA

Posted: Aug 16, 2008
Thank you.
Your responses, this one and others, have been so very sensitive, that I, for one, seek to read them in order to improve my own interactions -- both with others and with myself.

May G-d continue to guide you, and may you continue to guide us -- in a life of health, happiness, bountiful livelihood, and nachas from all your children.
Posted By Anonymous



 


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