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“Speak Clearly, Please”

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A chassid decided to visit his rebbe. It was a long trip to the town where his rebbe lived, and he had to spend a night at an inn. Fortunately many guesthouses in Eastern Europe were run by Jews, so Jewish travelers could always get kosher food and hear the latest news.

The chassid arrived early at the inn, and he ate his supper with the other travelers. They discussed matters of Torah, and they were happy that such a learned chassid had joined them. They also talked about what was going on in the towns they came from; they spoke about trade and about their families, as travelers love to do.

The next morning the chassid got up and prayed the morning prayers together with the other guests. But to the chassid’s ear their prayers sounded mumbled, unclear and incomprehensible, like water rushing over pebbles in a very swift brook. So after the prayers were finished, he went over to one of the guests and said very quickly in a soft, murmuring voice: “Werurygoigtdy?”

“Excuse me, what did you just ask?” answered the puzzled man. The chassid repeated: “Wurarygongtdayisd?” The man looked at him. “I am sorry, but I still do not understand your question!” “Of course you don’t!” retorted the chassid. “I said, ‘Where are you going today?’ but I said it just as quickly and as garbled as you mumbled the words of your prayers . . .

“Yesterday,” the chassid continued his admonishment, “when we all sat around the table talking about what’s going on in the world, I was able to understand every word of the conversation. But this morning, all I heard were incomprehensible sounds. Is this how you talk to the King of Kings, to G‑d, the Ruler of the World?”

The man understood what the chassid meant to say; he hung his head and he apologized. All the travelers stood in a circle around the chassid, they heard his words, and they promised from then on to pray in a different way, to pay attention, and to pronounce the words clearly and with the right intentions, even if they didn’t always understand all the Hebrew words, because not everybody is a scholar. They assured the chassid that they would do their best, and they thanked him for his simple but profound lesson. Then they ate breakfast and left the inn, each to his destination.

The chassid made a meaningful visit to his rebbe. On his way home his heart was light. He was happy because he would soon see his dear wife and his little son, whom he had missed.

When he opened the door of his house, he greeted his wife warmly and went straight to the crib of his son. The baby stretched out his pudgy little arms and gurgled: “Gooaaghhgoogoo.” “Ah, my little boy,” said the chassid’s wife, “you want some milk! Come!” And she took him on her arm and went to the kitchen.

The chassid was amazed. “How did you know what he wanted? Those ‘goohgahgooh’ sounds are all the same to me!” “But not to me,” said the mother of the little boy with a smile. “I am with him day and night, so I know exactly what he means with his different goohs and gaahs and what he wants . . .”

“You know,” she continued to muse aloud, “I thought about this when I was praying. G‑d knows what we, His children, want from Him, even if our speech is not perfect, or we do not know Hebrew well enough, or we do not always understand what we pray, as long as we pray sincerely . . .”

By Shoshannah Brombacher
Text and image by chassidic artist Shoshannah Brombacher. To view or purchase Ms. Brombacher's art, click here.
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March 12, 2011
Thank you!
This was a beautiful story and a lesson to us all. we all have to be balanced.
but also remembr that when Hannah prayed, Eli thought she was drunk, but out of her heart was a sincere prayers full of pain, since she did not have any children.

But G-d heard and He answered her prayers, but she did explain to Eli her request though, and Eli prophecied that this time next year you will have a son!
Hannah
March 11, 2011
Tana Goodwin
Tana, how fortunate I feel that we both read the same article, and felt its moving words. This story creates a longing within me to know the true love & understanding that a mother has for her baby, but to really feel that embrace from Hashem, to understand and believe that all His ways are Kindness, and to see only revealed goodness in this world, and an end to war, suffering and pain.
I would love the opportunity to chat with you over a Shabbat meal, seeing as my husband and I moved to Las Vegas with the specific intention to reach out to fellow Jews, and become more connected to the wider Vegas Jewish Community. Perhaps you'll visit Chabad of Summerlin for our Purim Party on March 19th, 8:15pm.
I look forward to greeting you there!
Racheli Metal
Las Vegas, NV
March 10, 2011
sometimes how it sounds
for an outsider, listening to people in prayer, who do this, the same prayers, all the time, like a mumbling or cascading waterfall of sound and so this story is very loving, and has a deeper truth within.

Do not judge others for how they pray, and what their hearts are saying. Would they be doing this at all, if something did not call them that was deep, about heart? Think!

Sound mind, Sound body. I was told to listen carefully to the sound of words, and that brought me to an entirely different place. Even transliterated Hebrew, being the closest equivalent to what is being read, in the Hebrew, well, those are the same sounds, and those are words, and those words convey meaning.

How amazing it is that babble, the equipotentiality of sound, that is a baby's first vocabulary, is also aurally Babel, and Babe and EL in the deconstruction of this word, has deep truths within.

A warning too: about habitual, because that which is done too habitually can become rote. That is the danger
ruth housman
marshfield hills, ma
March 8, 2011
Anon 2
Check the commentaries before you rip into Sarah so vehemently. You will find that Hagar tried to embitter Sarah's life, and did not act as a servant at all, though that was her position. As for "covetous use" How is It different from surrogates we have now? Or do you consider that covetous also?
Sarah
Mi/USA
March 8, 2011
I believe
was brought up in an all Jewish environment,in Berlin, Germany. The environment was conservative and I felt comfortable there. Then we immigrated to the USA and I and my family stopped being a part of the Jewish community. I became something of an agnostic, though I always identified as Jewish. Through the years, instead of performing ritual prayers, I would talk to G-d, telling him about my daily activities, thanking him for the good things in my life. I would like to become a part of a Jewish community once more, but I am afraid. The Orthodox believes are just to strict for me. I don't know where or how to start
Tana Goodwin
Las Vegas, NV
March 7, 2011
Thank you for a sweet and loving story
Shows how loved we are
Judy
Wichita falls, Tx
July 25, 2008
'goohgahgooh' versus Prayer with concentration
The difference between the goohgahgooh of the baby and the mumbled prayers of the congregants may be that the goohgahgooh is accompanied by clear unspoken intentions expressing the baby's needs.

In distinct contrast, clear unspoken intent may not necessarily accompany the words uttered in prayer, whether during silent devotion (Amidah) or spoken prayers.

Based upon this observation, the article might more appropriately conclude:

"The Almighty hears us as long as we sincerely contemplate each word of our prayers".
Yosef Freedland
Petah Tikvah, Israel
July 25, 2008
Anonymous, how sad!

God hears everyone. Even Hagar, whom Sarah treated like dirt after she covetously used her to have a son, heard from God and was blessed!

The division is only with man and not God! There is a separation of duties w/in your covenant but not a separation in the love of God between man and woman!

If you think you are unimportant to God, it is not because of those prayers! It is because you understand not God nor his ways!
Anonymous
July 24, 2008
Hurst, not Houston
I know that there are things that I can do, and I do them. Alone. With no other Jews around. It gets mighty lonely at times. I have discovered that most Jews stick together come hell or high water. I was a member of one synagogue for several years, broke my back and not a single Jew bothered to see if I was alive, dead, or whatever.

My Christians friends drove me to doctor's appointments and helped me in ways that I wish Jews had done for me. I would never be a Christian no matter what, but seeing how they treat others compared to how Jews treat each other they ought to be ashamed of themselves.
Anonymous
Hurst, TX
July 17, 2008
Prayer of a woman
I would like to respond to the woman from Houston.

I am sorry you had such a negative experience. But you should know that a woman's prayer IS so important to G-d. The Torah tells us the story of Chana, the mother of the Prophet Samuel. When she prayed and poured out her heart to G-d, her method of prayer was ultimately affirmed by the High Priest and she was blessed with the son she so badly wanted.

And it is this story of a woman that we read on Rosh Hashanah, when all the Jews are asking G-d for a good and sweet year. And Chana's prayer is the basis for how we say our Amida--silently and carefully.

A woman has tremendous powers to bring blessings into her home and to others throuh her conduct and prayers. As a woman, I've also felt left out of the action when I see the men praying or dancing down in the men's section, but I know that our spiritual work is not less, only different. So let’s keep on praying. It's never too late. And Moshiach will be here soon.
Yonit Dahne
NY, Brooklyn
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