The mind and the heart slowly build a relationship, just as a pet and its
master.
At first, the mind holds the heart on a leash. The heart screams, "I
must have this! I must go there!"
And the mind says, "No, we talked this over already and we both agreed
you don't need to."
And the heart screams, "But now I feel I need to! I can't do
otherwise!"
And the mind says, "That's because you are a heart. Hearts feel that
way. But I am a mind and I know we won't die if you don't."
Eventually, the heart learns the paths and become a mindful heart.