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Why aren't customs reversible?


Question:

Can you explain why laws never seem to revert back to their original form? For example, some holidays are two days outside of Israel because of the difficulty with keeping time hundreds of years ago, which has since been resolved.

Answer:

Simply put, customs have the import of law since the Torah itself recognizes them as law. That makes sense, because the basis of Torah is not the book, but the people. How do we know the Torah is true? Because the people witnessed it, accepted it and passed down the tradition. So without tradition, we have no Torah.

But there's more to it than that. Really, your questions gets down to a core issue about Torah. What is the Torah, a book or a wisdom?

If the Torah were a book, then there would be "the real Torah" as it is written in the book, and "the dressed-up-with-customs Torah." Every once in a while, we might take off one set of dress-up and replace it with another—or do without it altogether. In other words, there would be the essential Torah-by-the-book and a disposable, optional set of customs.

But Torah is not a book, it is a Divine wisdom that enters into the world through the collective Jewish experience. What was written in a book some 3300 years ago is the wrapped-up Torah, like a seed containing the DNA for all the future. The Jewish People are the earth in which that seed was planted. And G‑d is the gardener. The difference being that a gardener never really knows how his plantings will grow, but this Gardener had everything in mind to begin with (being, as He is, beyond past and future). He plants the seed that contains everything packed tightly into nuances, codes and anomalies, and watches His wisdom unfold in history and tradition.

So when the Jewish collective consensus, including the learned rabbis, the wise grandmothers, the nursing mothers and the working men, all accept upon themselves a tradition that arises out of our understanding of the Torah, G‑d, so to speak, snaps His holy fingers and remarks, "Success! They got it!"

Now the answer to your question becomes obvious: How could we throw away G‑d's success?

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Posted: Oct 12, 2009
Not following
So Kol Nidre, Kaparos, Tashlich, Hakafos... are all here to stay? How long does a custom have to last before it cannot be abolished? There must be ones that went away....
Posted By Fred, Earth

Posted: July 16, 2008
Accepting customs
Hello Rabbi Freeman,
I must inform you that I have been reading your comments for about 9-10 months, your wisdom has brought me to tears, to laugher, and most importantly knowledge. I was/am the wandering Jew. But G-d has touched my heart of late, I have become a sponge in my quest of answers to some many questions.

Now to reply to 'accepting customs' I could not agree with you more. I am not a learned woman, but I am studying. Each day I see more insight to the faith of my father, mother, grandparents, and all the generations before me. Without both cultures that have been given to us through Torah, as well as through our families I believe we all would be wandering people.

Thank you once again.
Posted By Paula Bonnie Golladay, Falls Church, VA

Posted: June 1, 2008
Re: Accepting...
In this response, I was addressing customs that have become the norm for many hundreds of years for very large portions of the Jewish People. It's true that there are many customs that have changed. A few of them were universal customs. They changed not because they were wrong to begin with, but because the circumstances that made those customs necessary changed. There are mechanisms within halacha for that to happen. But it's a very delicate balance. Changing a custom can wreak more havoc than dropping a bomb.

Concerning the blessing over wine at havdalah--I'm sorry, I have no clue what you mean by this.
Posted By Tzvi Freeman (author)

Posted: May 31, 2008
Accepting customs because they were once accepted?
The Torah is Divine. But customs _do_ change. I'll give you a perfect example. There is a particular chassidic community that now has limited the size of a gemmed ring that can be given to a kallah. This custom may or may not be changed. Look in the Talmud, customs changed throughout the ages, particularly for instance the blessing over wine at Havdallah. Let's face it. We are human, we make mistakes, and some customs can even be mistaken. That's right I said it. A rebbe can make a mistake. Mosheh Rabbeinu made several, if he can, so can a Rebbe. There has to be a sane balance of self-correction according to the Torah. Although in general I agree that it is advisable to keep the customs, because this generation as a whole is so spiritually unlearned compared to those previous that to think our light is greater than their's would be an act of arrogance. Nonetheless, sometimes that 'arrogance' is warranted and I think in the timing, the gentleman has a point.
Posted By Anonymous



 


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