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What is it that the child has to teach?
The child naively believes that everything should be fair
and everyone should be honest,
that only good should prevail,
that everybody should have what they want
and there should be no pain or sadness.
The child believes the world should be perfect
and is outraged to discover it is not.
And the child is right.

gam zu letova, this too is for the best.
Thank you Rabbi Freeman your doing a great job!!!
And I think that is why We have Torah to guide us...because in reality We are inclined toward our own interests and needs. And Torah teaches us how to live justly and humbly.....and the child is like Adam and Eve before the fall....and The Torah enables us to recover that purity of newly created human beings by living its precepts that give us the benefit of their wisdom....but....humility is not easy for us as adults.....Children are candid and "tell it like it is"....and G-d often dissarms us with their perspicacity...Thank G-d for children.
Oklahoma City, OK
Melbourne, Australia
But too often the child is told,
"Life is not fair."
And when the child's complaint is that he is being physically abused, this comment is especially cruel.
Other adults should not stand by and permit parents to subject a child to routine daily beatings with a belt or other object to the point that the child shrieks with fear and pain.
Other adults should at least listen to the child's report of being molested (or worse).
Other adults should not claim that any of this is merely part of life.
But adults DO abandon children to the mercies of other adults, and refuse to listen to the child's reports of being molested.
Adults are loyal to other adults. The mother is loyal to the molester, not to the child. That is the usual situation in these cases.
Where is the parent who will be loyal to the child?
Steve Fox - a naive child of G-d just starting to grow-up
sharon, MA
Thank you
Tulsa, OK, USA
Chashmonaim, Israel