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Do Women Have Something to Hide?


Question:

Why does Judaism tell women to keep their bodies covered? Is there something shameful or evil about a woman's body? If men can't control their urges, then it's their problem, not women's. Why should a woman have to hide herself just so others shouldn't be tempted?

Answer:

You are assuming that the only reason for modest dress is to avoid temptation. While this may be the case in other religions, for Judaism this is not true. The Jewish way of modest dress is not merely about how other people view women, but more about how women view themselves.

Covering something doesn't always mean being ashamed of it. Have you ever noticed how we treat a Torah scroll? We never leave it lying around open. It is hidden behind many layers. The Torah is kept inside a synagogue, in the Ark, behind a curtain, wrapped in a mantle, held tightly closed with a belt. It is only ever taken out when it is to be used for its holy purpose, to be read during the prayer service. For those special times we carefully draw the curtain, open the doors of the ark, bring out the Torah, uncover it and unwrap it. As soon as we have finished we immediately wrap it up again and put it away.

Why do we do all this? Why do we go to such trouble to conceal the Torah? Are we ashamed of it? Is there something to hide? Is there something ugly about the Torah?

Of course not. The opposite is true.

Because the Torah is our holiest object, because it is so sacred and special and precious, we never leave it exposed unnecessarily. We keep it under wraps because we don't want to treat it lightly, we don't want to become too casual with it. Were the Torah to be always open and visible, it may become too familiar, and its sanctity minimized. By keeping it away from sight and only bringing it out for the appropriate times, we maintain our reverence and respect for the Torah.

The same is with our bodies. The body is the holy creation of G‑d. It is the sacred house of the soul. The way we maintain our respect for the body is by keeping it covered. Not because it is shameful, but because it is so beautiful and precious.

This is true for men's bodies too, and laws of modest dress apply to them as well. But it is even more so for women. The feminine body has a beauty and a power that far surpasses the masculine. The Kabbalists teach that a woman's body has a deeper beauty because her soul comes from a higher place. For this reason her body must be kept discreetly covered.

In a world where the woman's body has been reduced to a cheap advertising gimmick, we need no proof for the truth of this wisdom. Where all is exposed, nothing is sacred. But that which is truly precious to us, we keep under wraps.

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Posted: Oct 6, 2010
different types of religion
As a reply to the last post by Anonymous, I have to mention (though it isn't directly related to the subject) that all over the globe religious people act differently.
I'm not talking about clothes anymore, but other costumes in Judaism. Mitzvot and kosher keeping, for example. I know about different people, living in the same community, respecting (or better called "respecting") the jewish belief differently, but all think their way is the best. I know this lady who states she's very religious and if they have meat and her children want ice-cream she sends them to the livingroom to have their ice-cream there - because since it's not on the same table as the meat, it's like having the 4 to 8 (also different view to that) hours break.

So I ask you: ????????
In hebrew we have a saying:
לכל חוק יש את הפירצה שלו
so everybody basically do whatever they want... I don't like it.
Posted By Lital, Barcelona, Spain

Posted: Oct 5, 2010
Modesty in Men
I agree with the statement that it is unfair that men are often comfortable i short sleeved t-shirts while their wives are stuck in long sleeves. This disparity, however, is not due to a defect in Judaism, but to a defect in us. In reality, all religious Jewish people should be wearing tzniut clothing, everyone's elbows should be covered. The fact is that in most religious areas men wear long sleeved shirts rolled up to the elbow in the summer.
Posted By Anonymous

Posted: Sep 9, 2010
Heat
The answer to the question of how to dress when it's too hot - 3/4 length sleeves work wonderfully. I wear them all the time and find them very comfortable even in 100+ degree weather (I live in the desert of southern California). Looser fitting clothes made of cotton or cotton blends look nice and keep you cool. Fabrics matter!
Posted By Anonymous, Santa Clarita, CA

Posted: July 22, 2010
Heat
Beautiful comparison, but as a women I have to agree with Lital. It has been in the 90's here and I can't imagine having to cover myself so much, I believe there should be a way to feel comfortable as well as staying modest.
Posted By Esther, Chicago, IL

Posted: July 19, 2010
Synagogue and low Cut Blouses
Sometimes when I'm in synagogue and see a woman in a low cut blouse and too much is showing I feel immensely embarrassed and sometimes turn red. I guess I'm shocked that women would dress this way in synagogue. I feel embarrassed for her and I don't like seeing it myself. I feel like some of the holiness in the room is taken away. I don't say anything to the women. But I do try to keep myself covered up fairly modestly.
So ladies, if you find yourself revealing too much in synagogue... please cover up.
Thank you.
Posted By Chana Moriah, Long Beach, CA, U.S.A.

Posted: Feb 15, 2010
Thank you!
I'm not Jewish, but an apostolic christian. We follow modesty in clothing, and your article explains it so beautifully!
Posted By Anonymous, Decker, Indiana, USA

Posted: Nov 3, 2009
OK
It is a nice comparison you make there, and your explanation is very detailed and profound. However, I do not understand nor accept the fact that men can wear a Tshirt (short sleaves) and women have to cover most of their arms, the elbows - minimum.

As for men the female body has true beauty in it, and find it attracting - for women it is the male body.

Saying it in a vulgar way (and I ask you to forgive me for this), why should women "suffer" heat (due to the long sleaves) while men can wear short, -air going through- shirts?
Sorry for putting it this way.

Thank you.
Posted By Lital, Barcelona, Spain

Posted: July 7, 2009
excellent point
I have sent this article to so many young women. Thank you so much for the analogy. This was stated so well. Love it!
Posted By charlotte , Norman, OK

Posted: Apr 24, 2009
wow...
thank you so much for this article. I want to convert to judaism in and the role of the women in judaism is therefore a topic with great importance for me. And everytime I don't understand why the things are like they are I simply go to the chabad site and read it up again. and then it makes perfect sense. beautiful article, really. thank you so much!
Posted By Anonymous

Posted: Feb 16, 2009
A modern day example
I think women today can appreciate this little analogy/example: When you go shopping in Manhattan, you see all kinds of stores. Some stores have almost all their wares hanging in their window display, to the point you can barely find the door. Other stores, in stark contrast have none of their items displayed except for a tiny display window with one or two specially selected items. Without even venturing inside, it's obvious to the passerby which of the stores is classy and which is cheap. Less is more, as the saying goes. This is true in merchandise display as well as skin display.
Posted By Yocheved Boyarsky, Ottawa, Canada



 


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